hi girls just need to talk to someone :-( I recently posted on here about how my MIL2B was trying to take over the wedding. we have laid down the rules and told her i want it done our way not what she wants and she has turned really funny. She completely ignores everything i say and just underminds me all the time. I have now said until she can sort herself out and get over the fact it our wedding not hers i dont want to talk to her about it or see her until her attitude towards me changes. It now putting a lot of strain on the relationship and H2B wont get married without his mum there, but she VERY strong willed and even he doesnt expect her attitude towards me to change unless i give her control of the wedding. so it now looks like we will have to cancel the wedding all together. :'-(
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CommentAuthor*Kat B*
(((hugs))) MIL's live their lives through other people mine wants to tell me what to wear etc and even tells me what our house should be decorated like. Your H2B should be supporting you and if he really believes she needs to have something to do with the wedding why not sort his arrangements out like picking his best man etc she how quickly he changes his mind. Is H2B the only child by any chance??? xx
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CommentAuthorcaralou5776
Thanks Kat. Mine exactly the same its supposed to be the best day of my life and she has ruined it completely. She doesnt want to sort his stuff out she wants mother of the bride role (dress, bridesmaids etc.) no he has a younger sister who got married in July but her venue done all the arranging for her so there was nothing to do and she hated it. xx
Can't wait to be Mrs Attew :-)
2 beautiful children
And an amazing H2B
CommentAuthor*Kat B*
she wants the mother of bride role because she wasn't allowed to do it for her daughters you've got to explain that you have family of your own that wish to be involved too. She needs to know it is your day and because of this you should not and will not bow down to someone else's choices because you will resent them for it xx
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CommentAuthorekielty(now Trow)
This is a tough pickle you have yourself in! Have you thought about calling a family meeting... get your H2B to invite his parents and you invite yours and then discuss as a group who should have involvement in certain aspects of the wedding preperation? That way, your mum can get involved and the MIL should know where she stands. You need to tell them that its your day and that you have your own dreams and please can they respect that! xxxx
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