So we had to "sack" my fiancés sister as bridesmaid, as the last few months she's been really rude and horrible, now there's horrible tension, and before it was bothering me, but now I'm trying not to worry. Has anyone else had any problems?
CommentAuthorbumblebumble
Birdesmaids often cause problems hun! Don't panic and just try to relax now for the next 3 months!!
I have changed my mind about mine about 5 times and I still have over a year to go! xxx
x Keeley x
CommentAuthorKirstylou86
Oh god bless you. Well I've finally got the friend I wanted to be one in the first place, but due to the situation with his family I thought it was the right thing to do to ask his sister, but it turned out wrong, but now I'm glad as I feel a relief off my shoulders. X
CommentAuthorclive
oh, just read the "sneaky bridesmaid" thread to get an idea of what else happens! lol
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
There seems to be a few issues with bridesmaids,luckily I haven't had anything major myself... But it's probably best u did it now rather than struggling later x
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I'm sorry you had to do this Kirsty. But if she's being rude and horrible, then you don't need the extra stress. Your BMs are supposed to support you and help you. I'm in acompletely different boat - I'm not having any BMs, and if one more person tells me I have to, I'll scream!
CommentAuthorxbeckix88
Im sorry you had to sack her but if thats how shes treating you she obviously doesnt care or respect your wishes!
It seems to be a common thing on here with bms being a pain!
I also had to sack 2 of my bms and it resulted in them being extremely rude and nasty so now we no longer speak.
Remember its YOURs & your h2bs day and its all about you too! Dont let her stress you out!!
CommentAuthorKirstenD30
I sacked my "so called best friend". She was being the same, rude and nasty about everything, including things that weren't wedding related. It was seriously stressing me out! So I feel your pain. But I no longer speak to her and I couldn't be happier.. People really show their true colour when it comes to thing like BM duties. The tension will hopefully pass soon and you can enjoy planning one of the best days of your life! :) x
CommentAuthorMrsManiatt
I used to be really close to this one friend, then when we got engaged she kind of drifted apart, when i chose to have my sisters as bridesmaids and no friends she got quite moody and off with me, she's barely spoken to me since, so am really thinking that I dodged a bullet so didn't have to sack someone! All I can say is chin up and enjoy yourself, if they cant be hapy for you and your h2b they dont deserve to be part of your day! xxx
CommentAuthorInDreamland
I feel so sorry for you ladies who have nightmare bridesmaids as mine were the model perfect bridesmaids who were so excited they couldn't do enough for me, I do know how precious and special they are but they were my sister and best mate.
It's good you decided to sack her when she's giving grief as bridesmaids should not give grief! They should be helping to make life easier. You done the right thing and anyone who doesn't like your decision should just shut up and put up and respect your decision xxx
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorRennie1989
Sorry to hear that, that's stress you really don't need.
I'm in the process of thinking of 'demoting' my MoH to bridesmaid AGAIN. I've been nagging her to book her hotel room for the last month, three times this week, and she still hasn't done it. She's the most stressful part of the wedding at the moment.
