Ok so first of all i wanted the big wedding, all my family big dress reception etc then i decided to get married with just me h2b and 2 witnesses with minimal cost etc. Then i decided to fuse both of these ideas and have the big dress minus the family stick with jst four of us but the constant was the date 31st october 2011 (our anniversary from when we got together all those years ago!)

However last night I was talking to h2b about when i was out dress shopping and how i felt the dresses were all jst massive and i felt they were too much for what we wanted with the ceremony in mind (the small one 4 ppl in a registry office) so i looked at monsoon and m&s and seen a few dresses that are nice and simple and look nice! so with that settled i am having a 'normal' dress not a big wedding dress, then we started talking about the date...and how i love halloween im always wanting to go out to parties etc and h2b isnt and this has meant us both sacraficing our anniversary most years. H2b raised the point that when e have children they will want to go out and our anniversary will kinda go out the window!! so now everything has changed and we have decided to get married the week before so now its 25th oct 2011.

Im sorry i just had to get all this out lol my head is spinning slightly! thank you for reading!!

sounds like a fab idea hun its all about you and h2b so if this is best for you both then thats all that matters monsoon do some amazing dresses ohh and your wedding is 4 days after mine lol xxx

monsoon at junction 32 have a larger wedding section it an outlet and there well cheap I saw one yesterday and it was £67.50 from £200.