Had my hen party number two on Sat at my mums house it was a great night till the end of the night my h2b daughter was there, and caused trouble with my son , if my son was in the wrong I d admit it and have words with him but he didn't, as he lives in my mums he was there he came out to the bar get a drink and go straight back in the living room, the daughter kept asking my son wot his problem was with her, he never had one and kept telling her this she even followed him in the living room carrying this on, speaking to his girlfriend rude it was like she was trying to get him to react but he didn't, at the end of the night well actually it was seven in the morning and we are all just chilling in the garden round the heaters me my friend and mums friend were sitting round one fire a nd my children, their girlfriends and h2b daughter was round another my mum had already been out and told the others to lower the noise my daughter decided to suggest to play Chinese whispers the h2b daughter decides to whisper something rude to my son but as my 17 year daughterss friend was sitting the others side he wouldn't repeat it, h2b daughter started calling him f___kin bore very loudly my son decides to say to her shut up d head well she went off like a lunatic came over to me screaming your son has called .e this wot r u gonna do about it, I asked her to lower her voice cos my mum and my Nan are a sleep sleep she screamed at me I don't give a sh.. I've told my h2b that if I don't get an apology then I've finished with her, I know I'm never gonna a get one because she thinks I was in the wrong for not chastising my 21 year old, it's 36 days till we get married and she was supposed to be bridesmaid, I'm not worried about her but I don't like the bad feeling it's really put a dampner on the way I feel about the wedding , sorry about the rant I just can't seem to concentrate on anything else :-(
CommentAuthorMrsWright290912
Im sorry your night ended up the way it did. It definately sounds like she's a madam to put it politely.
I would perhaps really consider whether you want her as your bridesmaid if she is acting this way towards you, your son and your family, even though it is very soon.
I would ask your h2b to have words with her and yes, I would insist on an apology too
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CommentAuthorFinally Susan B
Could it be she'd had too much to drink and acted out of character? I wouldn't be surprised if she either fancies your son or is jealous of him in some way.
Only you know if you will be able to get over how she behaved and move forward or if it's too deep and will cause a rift. (How old is she?) x
CommentAuthormicky
She s 24 Mrs b, the same age as my oldest son, she did have too much to drink and if she d sed I'm sorry I was drunk but she did nt she sed she was angry with me cos I didn't defend her and stand up for her, I wouldn't put up with my children speaking to me like that I'm certainly not been spoken to like that from her, before this happened we got on ok, she s now turned on her dad saying he should be on her side cos she s his daughter, I feel for him cos he s stuck in the middle :-(
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
i think she is waaaaaay out of order and needs a good talking to.
i do feel sorry for you H2b being stuck in the middle but at the end of the day your children are the same age and don't behave like that why should she get away with it!!! i'm 25 and wouldn't dream of acting like that!!!
I hope you get the apology you deserve and she knows that she put a spoiler on your hen do.
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What is the saying, in vino veritas? She needs to learn to drink less if she can't keep her mouth shut when she's been drinking & she definitely owes you an apology.
CommentAuthormicky
Thank you Mrs Mann, she acted like a spoilt child , shouting wait till I tell my dad , deep down I knew she was like this but didn't think k she would be so disrespectful to me or my mum who s food she ate and alcohol she drank all nite, anyway this is why I love this site for days of had a knot in my stomach and it was going round In my head but now I've wrote it down and read it over I know I'm not In the wrong , thanks ladies xx
CommentAuthorMrsMoran
Aww am sorry your night turned out like that hun and she definitely sounds like she needs to learn to drink less if that's the way she's going to react everytime she drinks xxx
CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
Youdve been better off with having the baby there! Less hassle xx
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CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
Wow, thought I was going to read that she was 16 years old or something like that ! Sounds very immature for her age indeed .. Think her dad needs a word very much ! xxx
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CommentAuthor*KelBel*
Sounds like she was trying to cause trouble to be an attention seeker, made her look more like a little brat! Xx
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Lala.. I think you should rent yourself out as a slapper so to speak :)....
Definately attention seeking - no excuse though
CommentAuthorK0210P
lol lala!
CommentAuthorEmmaB7237
Oh really sorry to hear such tension just before your wedding day!! really think husband to be needs to stand up to her so she knows this will not wash with you both as are a unit.... wishing you all the luck as a very difficult situation :)
CommentAuthormicky
Lmc I'm sure the baby would have been better behaved, georgi would you believe she has two kids of her own too, I 'd pay you lala ha ha, thanks Emma I m just gonna have to put it out my mind I have another hen weekend to benidorm to enjoy and thank God she couldn't afford to come :-)
CommentAuthorElizabethP8
From what you've said it sounds like she was totally out of order and immature but there can be too sides to a story, has her dad had a chat with her to see if there is a deeper meaning. E.G. she has realise now the wedding is so close that her dad will be married to someone with their own children and she may be scared of loosing him. She may be in her 20's but I think we are all still like children when it comes to our parents, we never grow out of needing them in some way. She may not even realise how she feels and may be acting out against your children because subconsciously she feels threatened? I would say keep her as a bridesmaid if you can as she is going to be a part of your family after the wedding and it's not nice to start a new family with bad feeling xx
CommentAuthorLauraM9144
i agree with elizabeth as i was reading it i was thinking the same, maybe somewhere in there she is a little scared :/ do you know in this case i think i would talk to her myself i would make it clear that i expect an apology then i would try and talk to her find out if theres something deeper going on explain that i wanted her to be a part of the family and not that you are simply taking her dad. im not saying i agree with her behaviour it is appalling and such a shame it happened on your hen. but life is a very long time and thats how ong shes going to be in yours may be better to build the bridge and see if theres something more going on so you can reassure her!
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CommentAuthorElizabethP8
Great minds think alike Laura! I think Laura is right re talking to her personally, she will be your step-daughter and always in your life so start as you mean to go on and build bridges xx
