Sorry I need to rant a bit Feel so stressed with everything at the moment I just feel like cancelling the wedding or literally get married n go on our mini moon Feel like poo :( anyone else felt like this? Just feel like the to do list is never ending xx
CommentAuthorElizabethF49
It sounds like its all got a bit much for you, take some time out and start a new day tomorrow, write a list of what still needs to be done (If you haven't already) and delegate to others like you BM's and anyone else willing to help.
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CommentAuthorAmyH608
I have felt like that lately too! My mum (who i live and work with) talks about the wedding and what needs doing 24/7!! Drives me mad! I just walk away for 10 mins and try not to let it get to me too much!! I have loads left to do too haha but i'm sure itll all be ok!
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CommentAuthorkatielea100
I don't have anyone willing to help my chief bm works full time and has a little girl so she's really busy as it is, my mum works full time n has a lot going on atm my other bridesmaids useless n I regret choosing her and my brothers got a court hearing next week (sounds really bad but he's actually done nothing wrong) so I'm worried sick about him Just feel like I've well had enough :( xx
CommentAuthorAmyH608
Ah thats not good - you have soooo much going on!! Maybe just say to everyone and yourself no more weddding stuff for a week or 2 - may ease some of the pressure xx
Only started planning last week too lol think I'll just leave everything for now the main stuffs been booked just DJ and food that need doing that are a priority at the mo xx
CommentAuthorAmyH608
Oh really lol!! Yeah as long as you've got the main bits done, it wont hurt to take a break from it for a while!! Least when everything else has settled down you'll be able to enjoy the planning more :) good luck with everything xx
CommentAuthorCrawf
I had this moment too!! I had a huge breakdown with the stress and cost of it all, trying to keep everyone else happy and typical thing of OH being useless at doing his wedding jobs lol. I had a weekend of crying and soul searching and I feel great now and back on track with it. These things happen and it's good to have them happen with time left to plan and start again Actually, my bestie gets married weeks before me and had the exact same breakdown last week, was good to know I wasn't the only one xxx
CommentAuthorLauraK7
Make sure you have the main bits covered and forget about the rest for now
CommentAuthorkatielea100
so glad im not the only one, i think im trying to do too much DIY with invitation (which are now done) and flowers and centrepeices the sweet buffet, think im just going to save myself the stress and just cough up the money for it all instead its hard with a3 year oldand 7 month old that doesnt sleep lol xx
CommentAuthorLauraK7
I've paid for a few of those things to be done as have also got a 7yr old, 5yr old and 2 yr old and work 3 days a week I think sometimes it easier just to pay for some of it to be done. X
CommentAuthorkatielea100
thats what im thinking now, its not worth it feeling like this just to save a few pounds so stuff it lol xx
CommentAuthorBethanyS
I had this feeling a few days back. My bridesmaids said I was having a massive bridezilla moment because I told her that I didn't feel like I wanted to plan anything anymore. That is purely because my H2B isn't here and is away so I would rather have him say yes or no to things. She got so angry at me, so I said I wasn't doing it anymore, I was cancelling! I think you have to take a step back for a few days and relax, that's what I did and I feel so much better. I felt my head was going to explode! x
CommentAuthorMarrying.Ryan
Hugs! I think I am about to hit that stage, too. Maybe take a day off wedding planning and put your feet up.
