I am fine with everything mostly but I have this awful fear that people aren't gonna turn up and by people I mean the registrar, band, cars etc. I keep thinking that they may misplace me in their diaries etc or put the wrong date! I have even been phoning to make sure and I've still got 9 months to go! It's driving me nuts! Has anyone else got these fears? I will go mad by the time August comes xx
JD is taken so I'll settle for being Mrs Marge :o)
CommentAuthorgemzy24
Hi im in the same boat at the moment i thought i would be fine but now im worring about every thing lol i worrying i wont have finances even thought we are half way there with savings lol im worrying guests wont come, im worrying ill forget to do something lol so now im taking one thing at a time getting xmas out the way first then will continue with wedding plans in new year lol im dreading what ill be like closer to date haha
CommentAuthorCroc
oh am in the same boat i woke up H2B this morning at 3am and told him our wedding was awful and no oe turned up the food was cold a nd the cake fell over... i dont remeber apparently i was asleep and dreaming. but i do know the day time nerves are driving me insane and theres still 6 mths to go so i feel your pain!!
"better a witty fool, than a foolish wit" shakespeare
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
I'm not as bad about people not turning up as I know we will make the most of what we have but I am nervous about the thought of walking down the aisle and trying not to break into a flood of tears. I know I'm going to cry and I just hope it doesn't ruin my make up or make me look like a right blubber. Either that or I can't fit into my dress because I put loads of weight on after its been ordered.
CommentAuthorKatie
I keep worrying we wont have the money or people wont come and we will have paid for them for nothing I have a million worrys lol Im also worried like you Jo that I wont fit into my dress or will cry like a baby when we are saying the vows and Im not a pretty crier lol
I have been told the worrying is normal though lol Its driving me mad though xxx
Those who mind dont matter
Those who matter dont mind
i have 5 weeks to go and the worrying makes me feels sick constantly. i have had a few issues wih supplies and my dress a few month ago ive lost trust in people. my mam keeps saying to me its better to get it all out of the way before the day and then the day will run smoothly. i hope she is right xx
CommentAuthorRachie :D
As long as the registrar and your h2b turn up nothing else matters - you will be worried a Bride pours her heart and soul into every aspect of the day and wants people to feel as she does - you're wedding will be beautiful because you made it so and you will have an amazing day - just keep talking and don't bottle it up or you'll make yourself ill with worry xxx
9th June 2012 when two worlds collide
The Crazy Cat Lady and the Transformer Man!
CommentAuthorDellie
My fear is not of a financial nature... I am absolutely terrified about the walk down the aisle and the ceremony which is going to be nearly a hour long...I'm hoping the excitement will overcome the nerves lol x
CommentAuthoreebeegeebee
Don't worry. It sounds like you're pretty well organised, so it'll be fine. Particularly, don't worry NOW...you still have ages to go and you'll be a wreck if you continue at this pace. Relax, continue planning but don't worry about the actual day until later. Confirm with everyone the week before the wedding to make sure they remember they're meant to be there. Any earlier than that doesn't make sense. Breathe, and delegate to your bridesmaids if it seems like too much. You'll be fine x
CommentAuthorliddleg
wow i wish i felt as calm and collected. i only feel calm when im organising something. i have enjoyed making alot of things for my wedding but when i have nothing to do nerves eat me up. i think i need to start having some aromatherapy baths or something x
CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
im not 2 nervous at the moment when it is closer i will prob panic that the transport wont come in time etc x
CommentAuthormrsCoopertobe
I am getting irrational!!keep thinking about falling over or not having enough food
CommentAuthorMrsPrestleton2be
im the same hun! im not getting married till sept 2012 and im worried that we will have a huge hall and no guests!! stupid i know but i cant help it!
met 2008
Engaged 2010
Married 16th September 2016
I Married my soul mate, my best friend, my life!
CommentAuthorChrissy
I'm so glad it's not just me! It really is getting to me, my belly churns when I think about it. I don't understand it because it's so out of character for me but, once again you lovely ladies have made me feel better about myself, thank you. And I will try not to worry too much but sometimes it's like telling someone not to breathe and you just can't help it even if you want to ;o)
JD is taken so I'll settle for being Mrs Marge :o)
CommentAuthorpennieb-MrsRiley
I have almost a year, and we've barely started yet, but I have had a couple of dreams already that things have gone wrong - including one where it was our wedding day and the only thing that we had sorted was the venue, the registrar and my dress - and I had even forgotten to send out my invitations! Needless to say, I'm such a planner that these aren't things that are likely to happen, but still... waking up sobbing in the middle of the night is not helpful to me! :S
Now, finally, Mrs Riley
I hope you don't mind that I put down in words
How wonderful life is while you're in the world
I have the greatest husband!
CommentAuthorWinterrose
I've had phases some really stressed and others where I've been fine. The past month I'd say have been really stressful but now I am starting to enjoy it and not panic. I had a dream the other night where the car had arrived and I was all dressed but had forgotten to do my hair!! I do completely understand where everyone is coming from it brings out stresses in you from deep inside that you never knew were there! Just need to breathe and relax :) & get very drunk at the hen lol! x
CommentAuthorliddleg
well said winterrose xx my hen is next week so i will take your advice xx
CommentAuthorMrsB
Yer I'm panicking now and I have another year and half + to go haha! I woke Aaron up the other night and asked him where Tinkerbell was going to sit because I didn't want her to get squashed he was not impressed! And I don't even remember opps!
CommentAuthorChrissy
Ha ha Mrs Tyson 2B, that is so funny :o)
JD is taken so I'll settle for being Mrs Marge :o)
