When we booked the venue we told every1 and how there was rooms, I asked my sister who had split from her husband about going half on a room and sharing wiv our cousin who partner wasn't invited due 2 numbers and that we had never met him ( he never went 2 any family get together's) so they had it all planed how they were gonna get there & so on!! But now my sister has a boyfriend and r very much loved up, asked if he could come to the wedding we said no coz of numbers as we sorted it all out plus she asked 2 late but he can come 2 the evening and if any1 drops out on the day then he can take their place ( which I think is more than fair) now she is worried about the cousin kicking off!! In a long story cut short this cousin who has split from her boyfriend ( & now kind of seeing some1 else) is very jealous of my sister having a boyfriend!! And kicked off when she went to Blackpool( where my sisters lives) for her 40th birthday ( cousin lives in Swindon & we r in Essex) and the boyfriend came 2 c my sister on her birthday and the fact my sister was spending time wiv other friends on that weekend!! And has the bf is now coming my sister will have 2 stay in other hotel wiv her fella!! So my sister is worried the cousin will kick up such a fuss that she say she isn't coming!! She will also feel like that she not have any1 else at the wedding ( something she said 2 sister earlier) when in fact she have my other 5 sibling,their partners, their kids, our aunt & her own brother there that she can talk 2. I've said to my sister well as much as I want the cousin there but if that's how she is gonna act then I don't.... It's my day they r coming 2 c me marry my h2b not 4 each other so if cousin did do that I b very very hurt & upset wiv her!! Told sister won't b her fault but cousins fault as the only people who should have a problem wiv the bf coming is me & h2b and we don't have a problem wiv it!! And if I had 2 chose I pick my sister 2 come than my cousin coz Its important 2 have all my siblings there as I've said b4 we lost our parents years ago!!

Told sister I'm leaving them 2 it lol and if cousin did kick off and doesn't come sister & her bf can have the room!! However I don't think cousin will do that. She might b upset at first but then get her head around it & all be good on the day!!

I think it's my sister thinking everything is about her & over reacting!! The cousin maybe b upset but I don't think she b that upset that she says she isn't coming!!! And as I said if the cousin did do that I b upset coz the day isn't about either 1 of them it's about me & h2b!!! I kind of think some family r having a hard time wiv that lol x my sister isn't as bad as some that I've read on her but she can think things ( family things) r all about her!! She kind of tried making the hen night about her by jumping in all the photos!! Some important photos that should of been just me, like wiv the limo and she is in the background pulling one of her stupid faces lol but that's just the hen night!! The wedding day will be different people will tell her 2 calm down lol

yep nothing to do with you ... let them sort it out themselves