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    • ChloeD14
      CommentAuthorChloeD14
      Posted: May 12th 2015
     
    I'm not sure on the etiquette of brids and bridsmaid hair iv had my trial and love my hair
    Now my moh has had a trial on her hair and is the same stay as mine but at the back were as mine is slightly to the side
    Would it look daft all having the same hair style. I don't know how I feel about them having the same as me
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    • MrsEmmaP
      CommentAuthorMrsEmmaP
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    I won't be having the same style as my bridesmaids, they will all be matching each other but mine will be different. I think it's important for the bride to stand out and having different hair would do this. However, there is no rule on this so if you like yours and your MOH's hair then it's no problem if you match x

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    • WelshBrideBethan2015
      CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    I don't think there is a rule think it's more personal choice.

    My moh and adult ushermaid have short hair where as I have grown my hair so it's quite long so their styles will be similar but mine will be different. The kids again will be slightly different again due to hair length and age as don't want something too fussy on the 4 yr old and the 5 yr old will want to be like her sisters who are 9 yr old and are twins :)

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    • DanielleS0709
      CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    I like different hairstyles. My 3 bridesmaids will be different. I told them they can have their hair whatever way they like but wouldn't like them to be the same as me

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    • Sarah D
      CommentAuthorSarah D
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    I wont be having ours the same I think as the bride I want to stand out so I will have my hair style, my sister, my MOH will have one hair style and the 2 bridesmaids will be the same xx

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    • Glitterfairy
      CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    I think it is up to you as to whether you are happy having it similar. All of us had different hair at my wedding. If you are happy then go for it, if not just have a little word with her and say you'd prefer a different style on her.

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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    There's no rule and you should do what you're happy having.

    Personally though i like the bride to be different.

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    • KayleighS46
      CommentAuthorKayleighS46
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    My hair will be completely different to my BM's - all their hairs will match but mine will def be different.

    Did your MOH go to same hairdresser with you? or did it off her own back? I want my BM's to have a day with me while doing hair and make up trails so I can see them altogether with how I want it to look

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    • Emily17
      CommentAuthorEmily17
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    I don't think it matters. If you don't like the thought of it change hers. If your not fussed leave it

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    • JennK
      CommentAuthorJennK
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    Hmm if you were all like absolutely identical (hair colour, texture, style etc) then it might look slightly out of place?
    For me the BMs will have theirs down and mine is up.

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    • RachaelB76
      CommentAuthorRachaelB76
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    my bridesmaids are having their hair however they want and think they are all having it put up. i dont think they are going for the same as mine but iv also got a headpiece in and a veil to start so will look different no matter what. x




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    • Emily17
      CommentAuthorEmily17
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    Rachel, are they paying for themselves?

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    • Sprucey
      CommentAuthorSprucey
      Got married 5 years ago
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    Tell her how you want it if you want it a certain way. My maids won't be having a trial as it's the same lady doing all of ours and I'm fine with her doing an up do that compliments mine, she knows what she's doing and I'm not fussed about it! As long as it's not the same as mine! But then they have hair combs and I have a headpiece and veil so it won't be!

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    • RachaelB76
      CommentAuthorRachaelB76
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    yer they are paying for themselves but all using my hairdresser. to be fair they have all asked me if i want them to have it a certain way and keep asking opinions anyway. im not sure if im getting them something to wear in their hair yet though but if i am will probably limit their hairstyles x




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    • Emily17
      CommentAuthorEmily17
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    If you are worried then Defoe buy something for them. Even if cheap (but nice) off the bay. As you say. Will limit what they can have either to be the same or different to yours.

    I've decided that for my BMs I will by them something to go in their hair to uniform them that way but its up to them what they do. And will be up to them what they have added into it. Thinking the spiral things arm as they are versatile

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    • ElizabethF49
      CommentAuthorElizabethF49
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 12th 2015
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    I wouldn't want my BMs hair the same as mine, I would let her know what your hair style is like so she doesnt get the same, but then the hairdresser should know how your hair is and do something different.

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    • Flossie
      CommentAuthorFlossie
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 13th 2015
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    I wouldn't want exactly the same as my bridesmaids, but the styles I like for my bridesmaids and myself are similar. But then I will have a head piece/veil also so that will help make it look different :)

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