i went shopping with my moh and bm a few weeks back to try on they dress but they only had it in pink (i want blue) so my bm also my sister sed she wud order if offline in the blue to try on let moh also try it on send it back so she did order and it came and got 28days to send it back already been about 16... here comes the rant i not even seen the dress even tho i have asked servel times to bring it round and try on here ... she took it school from picking kids up to a friends and tried it on there (shes not even coming to the wedding. and then tells me it fits fine but i still want to see so she says she will bring it round for me asked about 10 times at least but still no dress and not even shown moh and i have to travel to go see her so need notice. do i have the right to be annoyed as it my wedding and i not even seen it and its not like she has to travel with it she lives 5 houses away. its really getting to me and its so close to the wedding and nothing been sorted for it. every time i see her i ask her ands he says she will but i dont believe her anymore and i regret having her now as a bm
sorry for it being long x
xXx Cant wait till am Mrs Lever xXx
26th August 2011 at 3pm
cant believe it .. less then 30 days to go !!!
CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
id be annoyed to hun its ur wedding so uve got every right to see the dresses on xxx
CommentAuthoralanafx
id be annoyed too theres no way id allow my bridesmaid to wear a dress ive not ssen them wear xx
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CommentAuthorshellay
i would be very annoyed, the choices should be yours as to what is worn, i would demand i saw it well before the 28 day time limit :) x
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CommentAuthorUnknown
i would be very annoyed...esp as she has shown someone that isnt even going to the wedding!
i would go round to her house and demand to see it! say how annoyed you are. she may not realise how important it is to you but you need to see it and there isnt much time left esp if she has to return it within 28 days and there are loads of bank holidays coming up so will need to send it early xx
She lives 5 doors away from you??? Before you stress out any more could there be a reason why she is behaving this way????? There could be an acceptable eplanation. If not go knock on the door and ask whats going on.
Good luck x
CommentAuthorFruity_pops
jaesin- she only lives around the corner which is about 5 doors i see her nearly ever day and i ask her every time and she just says i will bring it round later but she never turns up if i ring her same story etc ... i have even asked her out side her own house but still nothing.
if she has a reason every day for not coming round then i would perfer her to tell me that by ringing or something but am sure she can share 10mins just to slip in to it and show me as thats all it took in the shop. i understand she has 3 kids but she as a few hours in the afternoon that she always says she has nothing to do so why not come round then. my dad has even told her sevel times
another problem is i only wanted my moh a old friend and she made me fell bad that i wasnt having her as shes my sister also so i decided to have her also but ever since all i have had is problems with her not wanting to do anything when she says she will. i did write apost on this before about her thinking its her wedding at times. (doesnt feel like my wedding anymore).i feel like shes trying to stop me having wat i want
sorry again for the long post
xXx Cant wait till am Mrs Lever xXx
26th August 2011 at 3pm
cant believe it .. less then 30 days to go !!!
CommentAuthorJane
Im afraid I would get a bit tough with her. I would turn up mid afternoon when I know she isnt busy and say 'Right, lets see you in this dress then'. If she made an excuse or refused I would say, either try it on and let me see or I will have to ask someone else to be BM who will actually let me enjoy planning my wedding and doing things like try on dresses etc'.
Do you know what I think? It doesnt fit. Its too small and she wont admit it. Shes dieting like crazy and trying to put you off. The more time she waste making excuses gives her more time to fit in it.
CommentAuthorstressed to max b2b
id ring her to come round and once u know shes at home go straight round and just say seems u cant make it ive come to see you in the dress. x
i suspect she hasnt even ordered it!!! x
get tough, tell her she has a wek to come try the dress on with the moh and if she doesnt then shes no been a bm, u dont need the hassle x
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CommentAuthorFruity_pops
jane- lol i have to laugh as she is dieting and as been for years and its something she prob wud do but i have seen her in the dress just a bright pink one (just want to see what its like in blue before i agree to it)
h2b thinks shes trying to keep it till after the 28days so that she cant return it and as to keep it and it has to be that dress we choose as cant afford anything else.
xXx Cant wait till am Mrs Lever xXx
26th August 2011 at 3pm
cant believe it .. less then 30 days to go !!!
CommentAuthorStave
Think I am with Jane on this one! Keep us posted x
CommentAuthorYourFirstDanceBride
Go round and tell her you want to see it. If she puts up a fight get tough. it is your wedding and if she isnt prepared to be helpful then she doesnt deserve to be bridesmaid
CommentAuthorsuzky123
out your foot down. she has no excuse.
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CommentAuthorFruity_pops
just an update: well went yesturday to my mums and she was there and she brought up bringing me the dress round and sed he will do it that night after she been shopping... so night come and find out that she desided she wanted to go friends house instead and thought not to let me know she not coming. seen her on way home from tesco today and asked her where the hell it is as still not seen it reply= oh i will bring it round later. me and h2b was like yeh right but finally she comes round with it ...was so shocked i almost fainted lol turns out that my dad as been moaning at her cuz i kept complaning about it to him so he started moaning at her nothin to do with me asking her for the last 18 days only problem now (jane u may be right) she tried it on and comes in to show me and it dont fasten prop at back but she told me that it fit lovely on the day she got it and starts using ideas to cover it up like when the ribbon tied u not see it but its still open some distance .... really she just needs the next side up and it will be perfect but she not accept that so glad now i seen it and can finally stop annoying everyone with it keeping goin
xXx Cant wait till am Mrs Lever xXx
26th August 2011 at 3pm
cant believe it .. less then 30 days to go !!!
CommentAuthorJilly17
Jane was spot on then! Do you think she will fit into it in 4 months? Surely she would not take that risk if she thought she could not do it. Seems very silly to say the gap could be covered up! Do what you think is best. Return the dress for a larger size which may need altering if she does lose weight. Or, let her keep the smaller one and risk it not fitting if she does not stick to her diet.
CommentAuthorFruity_pops
well she sending it back anyway and we was goin to try it on again if need be closer to the time as both bm and moh on diets so might be different but not even sure if thats the dress they both want ... i think it is tho
xXx Cant wait till am Mrs Lever xXx
26th August 2011 at 3pm
cant believe it .. less then 30 days to go !!!
CommentAuthormrssmith2b
hope you get the dresses sorted soon as it sounds very stressful :( x
