Girls help dont know how im feeling tday I dont know if its nerves excitment worry or what lol. Can you please help do you think I have doen everything:
Venue booked - paying bal Thur Band booked - pay bal on day Photographer booked - pay bal on day piper booked - pay bal on day Rings bought and paid Honeymoon booked and have tickets Passport been sent to change name Flowers/cake booked paid Minister booked - pay bal on day Hair/Make up tan booked pay on day
I feel I could cry tday agggghhhhhh I wish it was just all paid now rather that on the day xx
CommentAuthorlemondrops
CommentAuthorSuz80
Hun you're doing brilliantly... I think you may just be a bit nervous and frustrated with the having to wait to have it all paid. Everywhere i've looked has told me to give money/cheques to best man so he pays for everything on the day so you guys aren't bothered with it. Have you thought of that, spoken to him? Might be worth looking into.xx
CommentAuthorVida
Take a deep breath!! Calm down, hun. It'll be fine, i'm sure! u got it all covered it seems... just enjoy these few days to do any last min shoppin needed (honeymoon clothes, any extra accessories for venues... or just a huge choc bar to help u chill! :) get together with ur mates for a laugh, that will help u gather ur thoughts and think about other things. Or go with them for a spa... that's what i'll be doing a couple of days b4 mine By the way u didn't mention transport (car, limo...) but i'm sure u've got that covered too :)
CommentAuthorJoolsy
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My DJ etc have said we should pay on the day however I didn't want to do that so I have just sent cheques to them with the final balance can you not do that hun at the end of the day they shouldn't mind they are still getting paid at the end of the day xx
Thanks girls iv just had a wee bubble lol I dont know why Im feeling like this is it normal lol. Vida we dont need cars its all in the one venue and we are getting ready there to. We are def giving the money to the best man for the day they said they rather it on the day as its like there salary for that days work so I guess it makes sense in a way. I had a bit to much alcohol at my hen nt on Sat and one of my friends is giving me hard time bout it (not that I done anythin wrong just enjoyed myself) so dont think that is making me feel any better. xx
CommentAuthorVida
So tell us... appart from the panic bit (LOL) what's it like? I cannot wait for mine to happen :)
CommentAuthorJoolsy
I guess its normal to feel the way you are you only have 2weeks to go so it's only natural that nerves etc are starting to kick in making you feel like a nervous wreck!! Never mind your friend your meant to let your hair down at your hen night and go all out to enjoy yourself xx
Officially Mrs Julie-Anne Muir
CommentAuthorginge23
Vida I thought that three months ago I was like hurry up and get here now I am like please slow down a bit :) Im dying to pay it all so we know what money we have left so we can but honeymoon clothes :) Sorry for my rant just had to check all was in place. I need to do my seating plan tnite to take to hotel with me on Thur. xx
CommentAuthorJoolsy
You will be fine hun!! How long after the wedding you going on honeymoon?? I have just about got all my honeymoon clothes lol it's just H2B he is a nightmare everything has to be designer so costing a fortune for his stuff needless to say we still have the majority of his stuff to buy but I have just been getting wee bits and bobs in every week xx
Officially Mrs Julie-Anne Muir
CommentAuthorVida
Although u paniced a bit, u seem to be prety much in control and with all things sorted, well done! :)
CommentAuthorginge23
We get married on the Sat Joolsy and go early hours of the Monday morning lol Primark will do for my honeymoon clothes but not for h2b he likes designer stuff to xx
CommentAuthorJoolsy
The majority of my stuff is from asos or RI where as with him what I have already got for him is from asos but it's all the designer stuff costs a blooming fortune just means they will have less clothes than us ha ha!! Where you off too for your honeymoon??? Bet you can't wait just to chillax!! xx
Officially Mrs Julie-Anne Muir
CommentAuthorginge23
I love RI my favourite shop. Men they are nightmares eh I must say Allan is not as bad now as when I 1st met him mostly as he does not have as much money now with us having or our own place and things. We go to Mexico and I CAN NOT wait lol its not coming quick enough as we never got a holiday last year. xx
CommentAuthorJoolsy
Aw fantastic chick is it Cancun your going to??? I love it there best place I have ever been xx
Officially Mrs Julie-Anne Muir
CommentAuthorcharlotteverity
you are doing great hun. calm down lol. xx
CommentAuthorginge23
Yes Cancun. I feel a bit better now yous have all reassured me im doin ok lol. H2B is away on his stag this wknd and he is working late all week this week so wont see much of him which i dont think is making me feel much better. xx
CommentAuthorJoolsy
You will love it - nightlife is amazing make sure you go to coco bongos you will have the time of your life!! Your doing amazing so chin up - it will be hard on you because you won't see him that much this week so feels like you have no support but any time you need to de-stress just come on here lol but I think your doing fantastic!!! Hope I'm like you when I only have 2weeks to go xx
Officially Mrs Julie-Anne Muir
CommentAuthorginge23
Thank you so much Joolsy you have made me feel so much better tday. Iv heard Coco Bongos is great Eeeeekkkkk Im so excited now how can you go from crying to excited lol I blame the wedding nerves. im just getting ready to leave work go home have dinner a bath then back on here for a bit (Oh and do my seating plan in between :) ) Thanks again to all of you. xx
CommentAuthorJoolsy
Enjoy your night misses and just chillax!!! xx
Officially Mrs Julie-Anne Muir
CommentAuthorEriksfjord
It'll be fine! Once your seating plan is done you won't worry so much! Enjoy your evening!
CommentAuthorginge23
Thank you goni start working on it now xx
CommentAuthorHelen
Hope you've got someone running round paying the final bills for you, as you need to relax and try and enjoy the day (lol i've no hope of that i like to be in control, i will want to be running around making sure everything is ok, where it should be etc etc ) x
