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The Big Day > Hen Nights: [Sink] Problem a friend has dropped out now we have to pay?

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    • ChanelP
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    Found out today that a friend is no longer able to come on the hen weekend because she didn't realise that day is her sister in laws wedding. However, we are probably going to have to pay for her as in the Ts and cs it says if someone cancels within 28 days the full amount has to be paid! However we weren't meant to be paying when we depart from the overnight stay! The thing is it's £105 pounds. Need your help do I just pay it or ask the girl that's dropped out? I'm so stressed out ! Dnt kno what to do or how to approach the situation x

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    • *KelBel*
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    I think you ask the girl who's dropped out... Seriously who doesn't know when an important wedding is this close??x

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    • WelshBrideBethan2015
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    Is there anyone else who could take her place ?
    If not I would talk to her about it and explain due to the terms payment is still needed as really it is her fault for not double checking and agreeing to come x

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    • ErinV
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    I agree with kelbel, she is responsible to pay the outstanding for her as she's the one whose cancelled, you shouldn't lose out because of her double booking. Surely she knew about this sooner so could have cancelled earlier and prevented the need for full payment.
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    • KayleighS46
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    I also agree, she dropped out so she needs to pay for it. End of the day you should be aware when a wedding date is how can you double book yourself with that?! Just explain that its all in the T&C's and she'd still going to have to pay for it eventhough shes not going. Its going to leave the rest of your short if not and might cause friction. xx

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    • ChanelP
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    It's annoying I know that they are getting married themselves soon and don't have much money! We are going to ask around to see who else could come xx

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    • Velcro
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    its her responsibility, so unfortunately (for her) she will have to pay, unless you can get someone to take her space xx

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    • ChanelP
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    Waiting to Hear back from a friend who sounded positive do fingers crossed we have filled the space x

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    • WelshBrideBethan2015
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    Fingers crossed :)

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    • Becky1608
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    Hope your friend can step in and take the spare place! If not then I would ask the person who dropped out to pay xxx

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    • ChanelP
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    Looks like the place is filled so relieved!! X

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    • ElizabethF49
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    Woohoo, that's great news

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    • WelshBrideBethan2015
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    Yay at least that's sorted and no more worrying just enjoying :)

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    • Velcro
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    great news :) xx

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    • *KelBel*
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    Ah that's good then x

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    • LoopyLou
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    Thats great, 1 less worry for ya now :)
    All ya gotta do is concentrate on enjoying it now :D xx
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    • KayleighS46
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    Yay!! You can just enjoy it now :D xx

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