Wedding Forum - Not looking forward too it-.-...

At the beginning I was so looking forward too, couldn't wait too do the whole bride but, but my excitement has just vanished:( everyone's commented on it!

I've tried too figure out my seating plan, I wanted my family and the future h2bs family to be all muddled up, then I faced the first hurdle my partner hasn't many family members, so had to change that so I put mostly all his family on one table and the rest are mine and ways then came the next thing people saying I'm not sitting near her blah blah blah, instead of enjoying the whole process I'm actually dreading it!:( there's so many times I've just wanted too call the whole thing off but I want to marry this man!:( HEEEELP!

Don't tell anyone else the seating plan so they can't moan, they won't on the day as they will just have to shut up an put up! Im aldo trying to muddle family, we have 8 on each table so trying to have 4 ohs family/4 mine or alternitively 4 friends! So they know some people, and can get to know other and are thryibg to put say cousins of similar age, similar interests, kids together!

I worked hard to keep people together, but it's impossible to please everyone. So I have assured people they will be with at least one other person they know, and not told them anymore. They won't say anything on the day.

love the idea of the sign, might need to have a its a knockout style boxing ring outside for those that dont get on with it - already told me mam several times its our day not hers so tough!

Yeah I'm not telling anybody our seating plan ! My mum is going to do it for me cause I stressed out last time I tried lol Xxx

I think it's going to be a headache for me too. We want to mix it up a bit as we don't want a 'them and us' type situation. We're thinking of having my Gran and OH's Nan on the top table to make them feel important (my Sister did it at her wedding and it worked really well), and I don't think my Step-parents will be too fussed if they're not on the top table, as they weren't at my Sister's wedding. My Step-mum is very sociable anyway and my Step-dad will be happy as long as he's sitting with someone he knows and isn't too far away from my Mum.

My two younger Sisters and OH's Brother are our ushers, and they were at high school together, which is a huge help :)

I've just tried the seating plan tool on here. I'm not going to 'muddle' people up, as I know it would just cause aggro, so I have created tables of 7,8 and 9 (3 OH family, 3 my family and 2 for friends). I just hope my wedding coordinator will allow me to do this. This also means that I will have to amend my balloon quantity with my florist.

xoxox