i really dont no wether to put a r.s.v.p card in our invites or not. our invites r a little on the small side and dont want to add our numbers n addresses in them coz think it wud ruin the look of the invite. so was gunna put in r.s.v.ps but not sure how to word them, do you put your address on aswell as numbers, there is also a vegetarian option meal for people who dont eat meat so do i have a little tick box for that or a dietry requirments option? omg too much to think bout. really need to order thses invite thou. not long to go lol xx
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
You don't have to have them, when my friends got married they just gave you an address to R.S.V.P to so we bought a card to send them. We were going to put R.S.V.P's in ours but we've seen wedding websites now and think they're a great idea just as you can get people to R.S.V.P on there so we're going to set one of those up then if people don't want to use that they can send their own R.S.V.P card to us.
CommentAuthorRebeccaH100
Jade, I used a simple html website to make my own wedding website. It's super easy to use and then I made an RSVP form using google docs. I'll send out the website address along with the site password so that everyone can just go on and RSVP there. It makes it super simple and save money of stamps...
To RSVP to our wedding please go to 'blah blah blah.com' and reply by January
Just stream lines the invites. And you can always add or change the wording of questions on your google doc response form which I like. Nothing is set in stone!
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CommentAuthorkatielea100
Mine go like this RSVP by 05/07/2014 Names ......... [ ] accepts with pleasure [ ] declines with regret Number of adults .... Number of children.....
Alternatively you can contact us on 077******* Or email us at katie*****@hot****.co.uk
Xx
CommentAuthorPang
So Rebecca, did you have a proper invite in addition to the website?
I haven't sent anything out yet because we have some time..my fiancé is designing them in photoshop but yah. We will send out traditional paper invites but will have all RSVP/wedding communication through the website! It is just sooo much easier for me since most of my family is in America
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CommentAuthorPang
Ok that's helpful to know! I've set up a website also since we're having a wedding abroad and since I've designed passport/boarding pass invites, I was starting to wonder if they were necessary or if they were a waste of money! Personally, I really like the idea of keeping an invitation to look back and see something tangible when we reminisce in 20 years time!
CommentAuthorRebeccaH100
Yeah I totally agree! And for the older or less computer literate generation who aren't as comfortable with using the website...I think it is nice....and yeah, gives me something to obsessively scrapbook after the wedding is done!
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'Hear my soul speak: The very instant that I saw you,
did my heart fly to your service.'
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CommentAuthorPang
Definitely :D i need a box to put all my post-wedding mementos in!
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
I'm sending paper invites with the website on and an address if people want to send them through the post. I'm also keeping lots of keepsakes like a save the date and an invite :D
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Im doing some paper rsvps for older generation an have a website for rsvps for the younger ones!
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CommentAuthorPang
Best of both worlds! :)
CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
edited
I put
"Thankyou for your kind invitation to your wedding on Saturday 3rd May 2014 We will/I will be able/unable to attend. From: ................................................ Special dietary requirements: Car registration number:"
We need the reg as we're on millitary base x
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CommentAuthorTrasaD
I'm making ours, but I'm doing my invite as a card that ties together with a ribbon and a r.s.v.p and dietary/allergies card inside:) xoxox
CommentAuthorVelcro
''RSVP by 1st july
yes - bow ties are cool
No - exterminate
anything to add?''
ive done mine on post cards
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CommentAuthorHalebob85
I have invites that have inserts. The main info is on the biggest part with venue, time, etc. Then I have a money poem and rsvp insert. The rsvp is a postcard so has our address on one side and the info on the other. Ours say I _____ joyfully accept/ regretfully decline Menu choices (delete as appropriate) Special dietary requirements ____ The date for rsvp is on the main invite. And I just insert however many rsvp postcards as I need for how many are invited per invitation. Rather than trying to fit all info on 1 rsvp with us having menu choices. Hope that makes sense
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CommentAuthorBlue
edited
rsvp1.pdf
I knocked my invites and rsvp's up on photoshop, i wrote the name on each too, and return address and full menu is on back of the invite
EDIT - dont know whats happened to the colour on this pic - but thats not what it looks like haha xx
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CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
We have our own diy invites that includes rsvps e.t.c but we have a website set up so will probably just use that :)
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CommentAuthorChelseyfj
I put them in and had slime one on my Fb page reply with this;
I was just curious why in the USA our RSVP's have the Bride's Parents name and address printed on the envelope with a stamp on them - I'm in the USA so a stamp would be foolish - but the printer does print the address on the return envelope and the Bride puts stamps on them all - at least I had to! The large envelope has poochie parlour, so if someone throws away the large envelope - hard to return the RSVP. Or are the ones you sent in the UK different, Chelsey?
So I replied saying the invite states where to send the RSVP back to and she says
You should have put your folks address on it and put a stamp on it.
No thanks for the invite or anything like that! Charming
CommentAuthorVelcro
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