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    • Rennie1989
      CommentAuthorRennie1989
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    I haven't really put any thought into my hen do, I asked my MoH to give me some tips but she can't seem to organise a p*** up in a brewery. She's being a pain again (but that's another story)!

    I think I've been planning the wedding and honeymoon so much that I've forgotten about my own hen do. But when I do think about it I'm stumped as to what to do. I live in South West London and my friends and family live on the Kentish coast. Apart from my immediate family no one has come up to my end since I moved up here in September 2011, despite me asking me. If they couldn't be bothered to see me then I'm worried they won't be bothered to see me for a hen do. I can't afford the train ticket to go to Kent because of the wedding.

    I want a hen do because it would only upset me in the future thinking that I never had one, but then I wouldn't want the disappointment that no one will turn up.

    Up this end I have my two SIL's and a few work friends (not all of whom know each other) whereas down in Kent I have my MoH and old school friends.
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    • Sonya
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    how about a nice spa day somewhere inbetween the two places your friends live?

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    • Sonya
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    just had a quick look and there's a spa in sevenoaks that has a pamper day starting at £85, I can post the link on your wall if you like?

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    • Rennie1989
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    Yes please :) thank you
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    • MrsWright290912
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    Go for a nice meal with your friends somewhere.

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    • Sonya
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    hi, you will need to accept my friend request before I can :-)

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    • KirstenD30
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    Why don't you and your partner have your hen/stag do's together.. It's actually quite common to have joint do's plus it also saves the worry for both of you's as to what each party is doing :) x
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    • Sonya
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    added a link to your wall

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    • Rennie1989
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    Actually the joint stag and hen do sounds like a fab idea. I'll put that forward to the H2B when he's home.
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    • KirstenD30
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    That's what I'm going to suggest to my partner. As we're not drinkers so it'll be the perfect way to celebrate the beginning of a new life together instead on "the last night of freedom :/" :) x
 

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