I'm so sorry for ranting about the in laws again but i am quite upset this time!
My h2b's sister and her fiance had thier engagement party on Saturday night, was really looking forward to it and found it really interesting to see how both sides of the family were(as a bit of an idea for our wedding!) My h2b's mum and dad seperated years ago, his mum left his dad. When we arrived h2b's dad bought me a drink... lovely, i went and found a seat. His dads side of the family shortly followed me over and sat down with me, i felt uncomfortable as i knew his mum wouldn't like it, but after the second glass of wine i was mingling( including with h2b's mums side) and kept going back to my seat for my drink. On occasions h2b's mum was very rude to h2b's dad but he never reacted! After a brill night and a fantastic party! went home. Ever since h2b's mum and grandma have called me a trator, they are not joking, they keep saying i must be after there money,(which i definatly am not and they should know me better than that!!!) i have just filled in h2b and he is furious but i don't want him causing any more arguments by calling them! his grandma has told me what they both think but his mum won't, she winges to his grandma but would never come to me. We are due to go round there on saturday night and i really don't want to go!!! arrrhhhhh!!! They have got the wrong end of the stick completely!! and i don't think i should have to justify who i sit with at a party!!!! I'm 27 not 7!!!
h2b's dad side are lovely people and enjoy chatting and life, his mums side bitch about everybody and everything probably including me at the moment! I'm quite a sensitive person and take things to heart, bit of a 'people pleaser'...... wish i wasn't! Sorry for the moan but it feels better getting it out xxxxxx
CommentAuthorJay
i think you should let h2b call his mum and give her a peice of his mind. she really has it coming. youve done nothing wrong by speaking to people ffs! shes just being childish. hope you feel better soon xx
CommentAuthorjellytot
how pathetic and childish! you need to tell them exactly what you said here... your an adult and can talk to whoever you like. i'd let your h2b phone them up!x
CommentAuthorjojomc5
she obviously very jelous hun,like you say you can talk to who you want to...let him ring i would...mil2b are pains in the asre ive had my fill of mine this weekend lol xx
CommentAuthorKerrylou
*hugs* Just because things went sour between his mum and dad doesn't automatically make it you or h2b's problem :( Silly sad women with nothing better to do than cause trouble. I've had it with Ross' mum - his parents got divorced 27 years ago, we went to his wedding last year and when we got back I was asked "What do you think of Alan?" I said I thought he was lovely, welcomed me and Honey into his home and family (which was more than she had done!) and I was really glad I'd met him. Well.......I got called from biatch to hoor and back again *sigh* How dare I 'consort with the enemy' (hahahahaha) If nothing else it goes to show what petty women they really are.
I'd let your h2b ring her to be honest - she has no right whatsoever to slander you like that just because she isn't adult enough to deal with her issues. Ruddy mil2b :( I just hope when my babies get married I'm not as hideous and spiteful towards their other halves!!
It's right what they say
"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
oh thank you ladies xx makes me feel sane knowing i'm not being daft!
kerrylou- that is exactly the same with us!!!they were hoping that i hated them but i don't!
i don't understand people who make you feel bad for their insecurities!!! xxxxxxxxx
CommentAuthorKerrylou
If ever you want a chat about the horrors that are mil2b and there idiocy then feel free to message me. Sounds like our thorns in our side (lmao) might have been twins separated at birth :P
Sometimes, no matter what you do, you won't be able to please the narky old bat, so just do what comes naturally :) She's going to moan anyway so what the heck!!
(secretly I love Alan & Vicky waaaaaaaaay more than I love Lin & Dale but ssssssshhhh! don't tell anyone hehehehe) xxx
It's right what they say
"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
CommentAuthorClaire Sky
Thanks hon xx i will hold you too that! xxxx same goes to you xxx
jojomc5- how come you've had a weekend of it? x hope your good xxxx
CommentAuthorKerrylou
Bless your heart, and please do hold me to it!! xxx
It's right what they say
"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
CommentAuthorKatie-Ann
My H2B dad is being like that although he's a lot less harsh than your MIL2B. He is now saying he wont be coming 2 our wedding reception when we get back (we're getting married abroad) because my H2B's mum and grand-dad will be there and he doesn't want to be in the same room as them! It's pathetic. On the other hand my MIL2B is always asking what I think of my H2B's dad and step-mum, it does my head in. So I vaguely know what your going through hun. I'm with the rest though let H2B phone his mother, she has no right slagging you off like that! It's really rude and childish. Hope everything works out 4 you though xx
CommentAuthorDiana89
Hun that's awful. I say let h2b have a go at her, you do not deserve to be treated like that and he should stick up for you especially as he knows that you are the one in the right. Hope things get sorted hun x
CommentAuthorLou lou
oh bless its awful when they go on like that, i know its going to be hard but u should tell them that u liked the father and they have no say in who u talk to, if u give in now they ll influence more of ur life longterm just to please them, at the end of the day u wont be able to please everyone no matter what u do or how much effort u put into it, at the end of the day this is their issues and they shouldnt be reflected on u and u shouldnt be bullied into taking their bitter side. politely tell them how u feel that u are sorry there a bad history between them but that the father is going to be welcome as much as they are welcome. if they dont like it n decide not to turn up to the wedding etc then they are the ones that will miss out on there sons ( and urs) very special day. good luck and try not to fret they may come round n if they dont then u dont need a close relationship with people who are going to bully and take advantage of ur lovely nature, they are negative people - fill ur life with happy positive people and u will live a happier life xx
CommentAuthorClaire Sky
thank you lou lou xx thats a lovely thing to say thank you xx i know your all right! i'll just have to grow a pair won't i!!! x lol xxxx
