Feel sooooo nervous at this point? I. Dont know what is wrong with me but I have gone from being so involved in the planning and wanting to get it all done and being Very excited, to being so nervous and thinking about it constantly and worrying. I don't know what about though this is the thing. It's so strange.i actually get butterfly's or teary just thinking about bits of it or looking at other people wedding pictures, getting sp nervous it makes me feel abit sick. Maybe I'm just scared of it being all over and done with then having wedding blues? Or that the day won't go exactly to plan? Or that I'm just going to be a blubbering mess all day. I'm worrying that I won't look nice on the photos and all the money we spend on the photos will be wasted. And I'll have nothing nice to look back on for the day. Just everything and anything I'm nervous about. What is wrong with me? It's not like its only a couple of weeks away or anything I still have a couple of months. I keep joking to people saying I'm going to call the whole thing off. Which of corse I wouldn't do! I just don't know what's wrong with me. Is this normal? I don't know how I'm going to get through untill the actuall day!!
CommentAuthorLlosa
We went from spending most nights sorting things out to doing nothing and because of this we are so behind lol. And I think the emotional side of things is quite normal
CommentAuthorMrsWright290912
Abbie,
I felt nervous around the 2 month mark, thinking of things I thought I had forgot when actually everything was done and I was just over-thinking.
I thought I'd be a mess on the day but I was absolutely fine despite my bm's running an hour behind to get to the venue and my make up lady getting stuck in traffic due to an accident and road closures and being over an hour late.
I really did marry my Mr Wright and we had a nice day for a
Wright wedding!
Mexico for our first anniversary <3
CommentAuthormrsV2013
Wait till its the week before :/
hicory vicary dock i will be mrs rachel vicary :)
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I think I will be a week before... Think with 2months to go I'd be stressing about paying everything off then I'd feel relaxed for a bit x
Velcro...my wedding day twinny! The Two Kel's!
Got engaged 14/10/12 in Central Park NYC!
Became Mrs Macdonald 13th September 2014
Mummy to 4 girlies and baby blue boy Due 10/05/2016
It's an emotional event in our life - and it's such a huge amount of planning and things to sort out - it's kind of natural to go through a whole heap of emotions beforehand I think.
When it all takes me over, I just try to think of what actually is important - that h2b and I will be married at the end of that day. If there arent enough cupcakes, or I forget the confetti - actually all of those things are just tiny little insignificant things in the big picture. Just focus on what matters.
My nan always used to ask me when I was in s tizz over something "can you change it? Or do anything about it?" If the answer is no, it's wasted worry - let it go x
CommentAuthorMrsMoran
Almost Mrs B has it spot on hun, the important thing is that you're getting married so if there's any tiny hiccups, just get round them and enjoy your day, it will go so quick so make the most of it while you can hun xxx
CommentAuthorLittleMissWorry
Its probably just because its such an important day to you, and something that just has the one chance to go how you want it.
I'm also convinced I won't look nice on the day. I already have plans to nag my poor photographer and ensure there are a couple of pages in the photo album with no pictures of me so i can at least look at them with happiness!
Something's bound to not go to plan, but so long as you both turn up and get married that's all that matters. Anything else can be dealt with, and laughed about in the future!
Now try and enjoy the next few months :)
CommentAuthorSillybirds
Okay, girls, take a deep breath, or probably a few lol. It is one day, I know it is a fabulous life changing day, but it is one day. It is about celebrating the love you have for your partner in front of friends and family. Stop worrying about things that cannot be changed, stop worrying about what you are going to look like in photos, it cannot be changed, unless they have photoshop!! ha ha, and just concentrate on what a wonderful, fantastic, lovely, beautiful day it will be, no matter what happens, who argues with who, if it rains or sunshines, it will all be fine.
I know I worried before my first wedding, but I had great cause to worry lol, as my father and step mother came over from US, my mother and stepfather walked in on my Father and his wife whilst they were in their underwear dressing, all hell broke loose, they were kicked off the receiving line, blah blah blah and it went on pmsl, BUT at the time, I married my fiance, I did have a wonderful day and I now look back and laugh at it all.
I had a 16 year marriage. I am now a divorcee with three beautiful girls, getting ready to marry my soul mate, who can be completely OCD about cleaning, and a lot of things, but I love him, and he makes me feel like the most special person there is.
We are paying for our wedding, we are having the whole works, and we are doing it our way. I am not going to worry about a single thing, if something goes wrong, it goes wrong, as long as he is there and I am there, and our kids are there, I don't give a monkeys what else happens
Huge hugs to all you girls that are having those hyperventilating moments, and wishing you all wonderful weddings xxxx
Future Mrs Chick!!!
CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
It is normal; you have been so involved in planning and getting things sorted that your mind has been on that and all of a sudden it might have sunk in that it is really happening. Lets face it; it is the biggest day of your life; it is normal to be nervous. :P
Met in 2009
Got together on12th May 2011, proposed on the 12th May 2013
When you get knocked down; smile and pick yourself up again!
Fight for what you believe in!
CommentAuthorSazzell23
Sillybirds that is SO true x I stressed so much and turned myself into a wreck because of other people in the wedding party. Now looking back I wasnt myself and put myself through so much pressure and upset. It affected me a lot afterwards too. I had an amazing day but if I did it all again I would most certainly not stress, dont over analyse every little detail and just go with the flow and be happy just like sillybirds says xx
CommentAuthorMrs Jones
I got married a couple of weeks ago and my gosh I was nervous! My nerves was so bad I considered cancelling! I guess I don't like being centre of attention... Don't worry too much as it can ruin things. I cant stress it enough, enjoy your day as it goes waaaaay to quickly!
I wish I could do mine all over again! I would do it a lot different.
Got together - 05.11.2006 <3
Engaged - 05.11.2009 <3
Married - 22.05.2013 <3
