I had a hen night organised (by myself) for the end of April, but had to cancel it due to work... my MOH told me to not stress and she'd reorganise one for me... she keeps saying she will, but nothing has been done yet. The only weekend I can do now is 13th July, and she hasn't even told me that it will be that date. My friends keep asking me when it will be, and I'm getting so fed up with it all. I am not confident that she'll get anything organised and she's only ever mentioned going out in my hometown, which I really don't want as I can do that anytime, I want my hen to be special!! My fiance has messaged her 'without me knowing' saying that I'm worried about it and does she need any help etc, but she has't replied. Whenever I have asked her outright, she's up for it, but just no progress!!! What can I do???
Got together 3rd December 2008
Got engaged 22nd August 2012
Got married 23rd August 2013
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
Do it yourself? I'm doing mine then I know it's got done...I have every faith my moh would do a great job but I just want it the way I want it planning x
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Became Mrs Macdonald 13th September 2014
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CommentAuthorTanya83
The thing is I had already planned one myself, but had to cancel it, and it stressed me out so much... My MOH has insisted on sorting it and I don't want to offend her now by saying that I'm doing it myself
Got together 3rd December 2008
Got engaged 22nd August 2012
Got married 23rd August 2013
CommentAuthorbrilly
Tanya I would just state to her if its not sorted in the next few weeks you will get someone else as people need to know when it is and make sure they can make it etc if you put it off you will end up with just going out in your home town and wont enjoy it. She needs her butt kicked in to action xx
31st August 2013 I became Mrs Carrick
Cant wait to do it all over again in 2018
CommentAuthorFinally Susan B
I think I'd say to her that the others are asking when it is so you are telling them 13th July as that's the only weekend you can do - and maybe add on x BM is keen to help and ask if she'd like the help? x
Yeah i would ask her hun and say people are asking and need to know what date it's going to be. Now you're only available on July 13th so unless you hear from her soon with plans, you'll tell people it's that date and you'll organise it or pass the job onto someone else who will keep you informed with plans, etc. xxx
CommentAuthorsarah
I think it's time to either pass it on to someone else or get someone to help her plan it. Your date is only going to get closer.
