To hell with that..sorry but that is a security issue isn't it?
Therefore it needs to be reported hun, not only to your Hall manager etc but also potentially to the Police I would have thought, or is that just me being too gung-ho?
Any word on the flatmate getting chucked out yet???
CommentAuthorBee
aw im sorry to hear you are still having trouble. someone needs to do something about these people, like EVICT them! hope you wont have anymore hassle if they do get their own way xx
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CommentAuthorMrs Rebecca Hossfeld
Yup..security issue, Laura, honestly, report it!
If they broke your door, think of your safety, that shite is frightening to happen & you should not have to put up with it ever!
have they still not got rid of him yet?! This has gone on far too long xxx keep your chin up honey xxx
CommentAuthorBee
i agree with eilowny. your room is your space and no-one should be entering into it or tampering with it!!! i cant believe no-one has done something more constructive about these dreadful people. this is not fair on you and you have done nothing to antagonise tem. they need to get a life!! X
CommentAuthoressexk
You could just report to the management company that you have been come aware that B has been in your flat on X day with demon flatmates permission. You do not need to say how you obtained this information. Also that they have found a camera blackspot to enter the building "undected". as a result you are concerned that they could enter the building and damage or steal your property. You could also make sure everytime you leave the flat that you shut the laundry room door thus preventing B from entering the flat, i know this a pain but it might make things difficult for them! x x
CommentAuthorjellytot
what scum bags. why cant they just accept one of them banned from going in there. have they nothing else better to do than hatch plans to get in there? lol. do you speak to your flatmates at all? have you ever fallen out or nething?x
CommentAuthorMrs Sazra
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I don't know if this has been mentioned, but when I was in halls I had a guy in the room below who played loud music til all hours and used to bang on his ceiling just for the fun of waking me up (nothing compared to your problem by any means). So I complained and said I wanted to be moved. I know it's not ideal, as why should you have to go, but is there any way that it could be a possibility? My rent was paid, but they still allowed me to do it.
It feels wrong suggesting it, as you're not the one in the wrong, but if they won't evict after all these problems, perhaps they'd do this?
CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
i think you have to report it hun,especially to your halls manager,make sure you have kept a copy of whats been said
CommentAuthorspooney24
I agree that you should most definitely report this as it is a security issue and causing harm to your door is also not allowed and should be reported as all this is putting you in danger too Lemondrops. x
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8th August 2008 - the day he was mad enough to propose to me
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CommentAuthorPossum
I am so angry for you! If people can get into your flat without being detected, the halls need to address this. x
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
And once again ....these very smart girls have said it all
could you get a friend to post a letter stating wat has been happenin? cos that way it not you cos not your hand writing an they can not prove it then..just a thought lemondrops xx
CommentAuthorAngelaeris
is there no one you can go complain to whilst they are there? Maybe if they witness the horribleness they would do something, and also complain to your students union? arent they supposed to look after your welfare?
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CommentAuthorspooney24
Is there anyone there at the moment like the hall manager that you can speak to right now, or the security folk there? x
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8th August 2008 - the day he was mad enough to propose to me
24th July 2010 - the day I felt beautiful inside and out and
became Mrs Dickie for life. xx
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CommentAuthorAngelaeris
well if they wont help you call the police when they start getting out of hand im sure they will start listening then, they would be breaching the peace maybe?? worth a try? at least the flatmate would get the message right?
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CommentAuthorspooney24
is there anyone else living nearby that can get help for you? Or as Angelaeris says call the police but on the non emergency number rather than 999 so that they can send someone out to check whats going on, if you say to them you feel in danger and this isnt the first time this has happened then they should send someone out for you. Sorry I dont live nearer or else I would round there like a flash. x
26th December 2007 - the day I met my special man
8th August 2008 - the day he was mad enough to propose to me
24th July 2010 - the day I felt beautiful inside and out and
became Mrs Dickie for life. xx
CommentAuthorAngelaeris
yeah me too I'd sort them out! Don't mess with our lemondrops or youll have to mess with all us Bridezillas!
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
Im getting my trainers on to start running to you as we speak(type)
When Sam had probs with his noisy neighbours who just laughed when we tried to ask them to be quiet, he phoned the police. They said they wouldn't come unless things were out of hand....well I think you have grounds to call them, cos things have gone beyond out of hand. Or contact someone about noise pollution? Does that still work if you're in halls? Said neighbour had a lovely letter from the council telling them they'd be in court if it carried on, never heard a peep after that, but don't know if they would do that for halls?
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
Again i say call police and say you fear for your safety ....they would soon be round
Would you like me to pay these people a visit with a bit of 4 x 2???? I would seriously make their lives a living hell if I was you hun! But I understand that not everyone is like me lol ;o)
Im so sorry your still dealing with this, I too would report it as it is a definite security issue! If people have been banned and are still getting in then surely you have to get rid of the proximate cause in this case the flatmate they are visiting!
Do not disturb... Already disturbed enough!
CommentAuthorMrs Sazra
You've done the right thing!
CommentAuthorJessH
This sort of thing makes me so cross. Hope police get round soon Lemondrops. U shouldn't cope on your own tho. Cant u call H2B and get him to stay with u?
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CommentAuthorPossum
What a strange rule! I hope they sort him out! It must be so awful :(
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CommentAuthorspooney24
How are things now Lemondrops? x
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8th August 2008 - the day he was mad enough to propose to me
24th July 2010 - the day I felt beautiful inside and out and
became Mrs Dickie for life. xx
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CommentAuthorspooney24
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well at least you have Simon for company as I have been sitting here worrying about you and wishing I lived nearer so to help out or at least come round to keep you company. Hope your mum manges to sort it all out for you tomorrow, mums are good for theses sort of things. x
26th December 2007 - the day I met my special man
8th August 2008 - the day he was mad enough to propose to me
24th July 2010 - the day I felt beautiful inside and out and
became Mrs Dickie for life. xx
CommentAuthorPossum
Mums always sort it out!
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CommentAuthorMagsy
hope you and your mum get it sorted, lemon xxxxxxxxxxx
CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
Take photographs- thats vandalism of your property!
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CommentAuthorJessH
Have the police turned up yet? Do let us know what they have to say. Ridiculus to have to put up with this. Make sure u show them the smashed plates and stuff
CommentAuthormickypickle
What an absolute nightmare for you pet. I'm i halls at the moment too and I know it can be pretty awful at times. People just wander in and out of our flat constantly and I'm pretty powerless to do anything about it. But you're having a truly awful time, feeling intimidated in your own home. Have the police come round yet? I think it's a bit much also that they enforce the rule that you can only have your h2b over 2 nights a week (we have that rule too but most people ignore it) and yet they are so unhelpful when it comes to something serious like this. I really, really hope this is resolved soon for you x
CommentAuthorPossum
Micky, just get up and lock the front door everytime you notice it open! We used to do that with our friends in halls, just go into their flat, but it didn't bother anyone xx
CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
have the police been yet hunni,,,surely after this they will get kicked out,,its a bloody joke
