Hey Ladies! its so strange but the past few nights ive being having the craziest of dreams about the wedding,im either not prepared,something has gone wrong or last nights i was laid up in hospital while everyone else was going to the wedding!! and the night before i was getting married in emmerdale! anyone else having these dreams or know what they mean? xx
CommentAuthorPoppy x
Ooh wow! I've not had any wedding dreams since I saw my perfect dress in one... :/ However, I do get a LOT of dreams at the moment that feature H2B in some way, shape or form, both good dreams and nightmares. The last one was quite disturbing...
CommentAuthorNevlar
at the moment im super prepared everything is done, i dont know if its because ive not done any wedding prep beacuse im organised!! god knows! care you share you dream?
CommentAuthorPoppy x
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It's kind of long. I wrote it down in an online blog (i.e. where I shove my negativity), will see if I can copy and paste. Ooohh, I'd love to be prepared too... On the plus side, I have all the ideas for when I can get stuck in finally! :)
CommentAuthorPoppy x
We were at the top of a grassy hill that led away from the wooden stalls that led into 'town'. It was dark and slightly misty, and friends played with fire toys around a campfire, chatting happily away.
For no reason, I suddenly felt the need to get away, so headed out into the darkness.
As I started to descend the hill toward town, I slowed as I left the light of the fires and hubub of the gathering.
"Where are you going love? You'll get cold out here!" I turned to face my other half, dressed in a dark slate grey/navy tracksuit and matching shoes, and he rested both his hands over the balls of my shoulders, with a concerned look on his face. "I don't know" I replied. "Go back and keep warm my love. I'm going to town." "I'll come with you." For some reason, I did not want to go back to the happy faces on the hill. The hands upon my shoulders pulled me close and into a kiss, and then my love was gone. Jogging down the hill, I tried to follow, but it was hard as the fading light meant that I could only track the white soles of his shoes as they left the ground.
As the ground levelled out and I reached the open gateway that led to the stalls, I slowed. I'd lost him.
A hand on my shoulder. "Love, where are you going?!" I turned to meet the concerned gaze of my other half. He was slightly our of breath and wearing a shirt with red, yellow, blue and white flecks, and I could see him clearly despite the gloom. "I was going to town" I replied. "I was waiting for you by the fire and I saw you leave!" he said.
I looked into the gloom, spooked, and turned back into a warm and tight embrace.
I have to say, dreaming my perfect wedding dress was a bonus!! Still have to have to made, but my entire theme is centred on it now. It's still really vivid!
CommentAuthorNevlar
crikey that is vivid! mine get like that! awww brill whats your dress like x
CommentAuthorbumblebumble
Eeeek dreams can really be freaky sometimes! I have been having a few similar too! SOunds like you need a good chill out and relax! (silly thing to suggest in the run up to a wedding I know!)
x Keeley x
CommentAuthorNevlar
i just dont understand, i wasnt stressed about it till these crazy dreams made me been unprepared but everything is sorted!! good spa day i think!! x
CommentAuthorPoppy x
Spa day sounds just the job :) May have to test that one myself... For research of course...
I only saw the bottom half of the dress, but know what the top would look like (vaguely). It was like a medieval one, laced up at the top but split at the skirt with another layer underneath (if that makes any sense). Small, green ivy embroidery went up the sides. Ivy is now a running thing, and quite symbolic, but the ironic thing is I hate the stuff in my garden!
They say the mind is trying to make sense of things in your day, but I'm really not sure about that! Judging by my dreams, I live somewhere similar to Wonderland...
CommentAuthorNevlar
oh god if thats true i live in some alternative universe!! your dress sounds beautiful! must show pics when its done x
CommentAuthorPoppy x
Will do :)) Hoping to have to made by a friend, but may be a while til I get around to it. Plus I feel the need to go and try on many other dresses first, just in case...
I do always have to wonder what relevance my dreams have.
The oddest was my dad and I at a funeral dinner, on a patio by a large shrub border. My dad was sat next to me, and the rest of the guests were old men dressed in black, a beaded gentleman at the head of the large wooden table. There were speeches and a toast, although I have no idea who we were lamenting. Suddenly, everyone passed around bottles of soy sauce, and the beardy one stood up. "Quick! You've got to spray the plants before they run away!!" At this moment, the shrubs and grasses got up on rooty legs and started to scuttle away, with us frantically trying to throw soy sauce at them...
CommentAuthorNevlar
haha thats brilliant! i love dreams like that! not the funeral part mind. trying on dresses is the best part you just feel like a princess the whole time! and you never know you might come across your perfect dress! xx
CommentAuthorPoppy x
I dreamt that I went dress shopping last night! I figure it must have spurred from this thread hahaha!
CommentAuthorNevlar
i dreamt i was teaching my friend to swim! did you see any nice dresses in your dream lol
CommentAuthorbumblebumble
Oh My Gosh!!!! I had the most horrendous wedding related nightmare last night! Eeeek!!!
x Keeley x
CommentAuthorPoppy x
Not so much nice dresses, all very princessy and the whole place was very, very white... lol
Oh no! Nightmares come in spates with me - hoping you don't have another for a very long time :/ Hoping that the feeling of waking from it isn't still washing over you too - that's horrid when it lingers...
CommentAuthorNevlar
i always like to know what my dreams mean, i know some you cant make sense of but would be nice to know! some of them stay with me for ages and its quite annoying! x
CommentAuthorPoppy x
I know what you mean. The more real-life things are okay, but where on Earth do some dreams come from?! It remains a mystery!
CommentAuthorNevlar
i just hate falling dreams make me feel sick! and i swear some people make up the dream meaning stuff lol
CommentAuthorPoppy x
I've never had a falling dream as such, guess I'm lucky. There's always a lot of running away from stuff though, a few days ago it was giant poisonous snakes... I love snakes, but these scared the bejeesus out of me!
CommentAuthorNevlar
never had a running dream i dont like the tought of being chased or anything like that! do you have reoccuring dreams x
CommentAuthorPoppy x
Plenty of natural disaster ones. Most bad dreams seem to centre on the safety of myself and family members, or the OH leaving me. The only recurring dreams I remember happened way back in the day. One centred on maths class before GCSEs and one was set in primary school and not being able to fly high enough to escape the people chasing me... Thankfully not had those for a while! Although Maths does still pop up on occasion.
CommentAuthorMrsRusty2B
I had a wedding nightmare while back where I turned up at the venue only to find everybody running about looking for my groom. I ended up at a talbe with both my sisters in law and some of my female friends comforting me because H2B never showed up and nobody seemed to understand why. I also vividly remember his ex being there for some odd reason and her laughing at me when she found that out.
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
I have dreams where H2Bs ex tells him if he marries me he's not allowed to see his son anymore so he calls off the wedding... Wouldn't put it past her sometimes though !!! Xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsRusty2B
If we invited my H2B's ex, I wouldn't put it past her to try and ruin our wedding. However, she's definitely not getting an invite - neither of us wants her there.
CommentAuthorNatalieD205
Ouch...... i dont have any crazy ex dreams but I have started to have dreams where its the big day and we have forgot to plan anything...... no flowers or dress and i'm all stressed and panicing and asking people if they will do my hair and makeup.... lol I'm guessing thats all fairly normal....... only I still have almost a year to go..... maybe im getting the panic out of the way now so i'l be super calm on the lead up to the wedding :)
Cant wait to marry my best boy :)
I love him to the moon and back
Eeeeeeeee!!!!
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
I've had plenty of weird dreams. I had one where H2B and I were both at the church early in the morning sorting things out, with me already in my dress. We had to go to a shop for something, me still in the dress. Another involved me arriving late to find that the service had started without me, and the vicar telling me that she had seen us enough together that it didn't matter that I missed the vows. The others have generally involved the reception, with me being with H2B and realising that I'm married with absolutely no knowledge of how it happened.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
I also had one where I got up and was waiting for my matron of honour to get up to do my hair and make-up and help me into the dress, and I realised that I had never actually asked her to do that. It was an hour before the wedding; I had just got up and she was still asleep.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
We wouldn't invite H2Bs ex if she was the last psychotic evil manipulative b1tch on earth (Y) xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsRusty2B
MrsH-2B, his ex chose to bitch about us behind our backs to friends after they split - the ironic part is she and I used to be friends when they were still together.
CommentAuthorMrsRusty2B
Let me re-phrase that - she chose to say nasty things about us behind our backs.
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
His ran down the street after our car when we'd dropped youngest a off the weekend after we got engaged screaming congratulations on your sh1t engagement and effing and blinding at me !!! Xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsRusty2B
Yup, your H2B's ex is officially more pyscho than mine :P
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
:-P
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorRachelE65
last night i dreamt we was on our honeymoon in Barbados (we are not going to Barbados!) and hubby was going to work! i was devastated/crazy/upset/furious, i remember chasing him along a beach crying and shouting at him "how dare you go to work while were on our honeymoon!" and at some point i dumped his suitcase into the sea! strange!!
Marrying my best friend 14/09/2013 <3 <3 <3
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
Haha Rachel that's hilarious ! Xxx
I can't wait to become his Wife :-) <3
4th July 2015 <3
CommentAuthorMrsRusty2B
@RachelE65: You'd have every right to dump his suitcase into the sea if he was working during your honeymoon :P
CommentAuthorRachelE65
That dream was quite funny, but i had a nightmare last night :-( not wedding related. Made me feel like a little girl again, what is it with my crazy dreams!