So we're making the invites, got the gift list done so we'll be all ready to send them out next weekend. I thought we'd send the day invites now and the evening invites at a later date, but h2b thinks we should send them all now :S What's the usual thing to do? xxx
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CommentAuthorJennyHeather
Hmm, I didn't think of that, we were just going to send everything out at the same time!
CommentAuthorLauraJo87
I'd send the day ones first, then if you get some 'nos' back you could bump some evening ones up to day guests without them even knowing...
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CommentAuthorKellyN29
I agree with Laura, I am sending day invites 6-8 month ahead and evening 4 months before ( I think)
CommentAuthorJoanna
LauraJo, that's what i was thinking! But h2b thinks we should send them all now and it's gotten me worried i'm doing it wrong lol
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Well we've got between 5-6 months to go but we only have 40 day guests and they all know the date of the wedding already
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CommentAuthorPrincess2be
I would send evening invitesd about three months before. x
CommentAuthorAmyP7
I sent them all out together x x
CommentAuthorJennyHeather
LauraJo87 - Ah thats a good idea actually, never thought of that!!
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I think u should send them all now,then at least ppl know which bit they're invited to if they don't know already,especially if some have work the day of ur wedding x
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CommentAuthorJoanna
Kelbel, the wedding's a saturday so it shouldn't be a problem for evening guests as they'll only need to be free after 7pm on a saturday night so should be okay i think.
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CommentAuthorShazk
It a tricky one part of me says send em all out together but like Laura says u may get some people unable to come so if already sent out evening ones bit tricky to bump people up x
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CommentAuthorJoanna
Yeah, it's a package deal so we have the space for 40 day guests, so if some people rsvp no then i'd rather bump people up than leave the empty places if you know what i mean?
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CommentAuthorTori
I would hold back in order to bump if necessary (or in my case if lucky if some of the 'must invite') decline x
CommentAuthorMrsC
We've sent them altogether as we didnt want people talking and worries they'd not been invited at all
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CommentAuthorJoanna
Ahhhhh GC2B, that's what i'm worrying about. Some people will think they're not invited at all if they know others have recieved a day invite.
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CommentAuthorLauraJo87
I'd just let it be known that you're sending the invites out in tranches xx
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CommentAuthorVickie
You have got me thinking too. Were going to send them out all together. Will have to have chat with other half me thinks. As we both have people who we would like to invite to day but can't.
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CommentAuthorJoanna
Lol there doesn't seem to be an answer to this, everyone does it differently. I'm unsure on what to do :/
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