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    • Llosa
      CommentAuthorLlosa
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    Now I'm not moaning (ok maybe a lil)
    but our best man he is a music technician and creates a lot of music and is in a few bands atm.
    He kindly offered to do the song of my arrival into the church and down the aisle as i hate the cliche of hear comes the bride.
    He has finalised it and just shown us the finished piece.
    I dont like it.....
    I feel like such a horrid person but i think its tacky and over the top....but 1. i dont want to upset h2b as its his friend and 2. he has done this for us on his own back and its such a lovely gesture.
    What do i do?
    should i just suck it up and go with it?
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    • SianyCaitlin
      CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
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    If it was me in this situation, I would somehow kindly & politely say it wasn't exactly what I was looking for, although the effort has been greatly appreciated! As it's your big day, you don't want to be walking down to something you don't like, you want to enjoy it & savour the moment! xx

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    • SianyCaitlin
      CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
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    I just added you as a friend Raych & read your 'about me' .. Me & my h2b are complete dnb heads too! Did you find a DJ to do it? My h2b is a dnb DJ, well, he was until he sold his decks a couple of months ago as he was made redundant :( We've made sure we have dnb at our reception lol xx

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    • LauraJo87
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    Say the vicar won't let you have it, but you'll play it at the reception instead?

    I really feel for you on this one, after all you only get one 'down the aisle' song, but I can completely understand that you don't want to hurt your friends feelings.

    Xx

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    • Llosa
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    haha woooohoooo, cant beat a dirty bassline :P yes we managed to find a guy who would do boring stuff earlier in the evening and then a rave into the later part hehehe

    i think i may suck it up and tell him nicely its not my cup of tea....:/ if i knew how ha
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    • LittleMissWorry
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    Does your H2B like it?

    Also, do you completely hate it, or are there parts you like, and parts that are a bit much? If its not totally wrong, you could maybe tell him its a fab starting point and nudge him in the right direction? You're right, it is such a lovely gesture, and in your position I'm not sure I could tell him I wasn't going to use it.

    Or, could it be used as your recessional song instead?
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    • SianyCaitlin
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    Haha same here, we've got the cheesy stuff early on, then the rave is later for when the oldies go! Gotta be done ;) Our first dance is a dnb song too! Lol

    I'm sure he will understand, has he worked on it long??

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    • Llosa
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    I just asked H2B and he says its alright, could do with tweaking but he'd be happy to use it, im really unsure on it as its just not me at all....
    he has spent a few months on it and its his gift to us, i might just have to let him get on with it, maybe use it as we sign the register or something

    ohhh Siany what is it? I really wanted a netsky track for ours but H2B kinda put his foot down hahaha
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    • SianyCaitlin
      CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
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    But Netsky's tracks are nice & mellow! I love Starlight, that would be a good one! Ours is System, the matrix & futurebound remix, it's one of our fav dnb tunes & he chose it so I'm more than happy with that! We might even have a cheesy one too, as I asked my aunty to sing our first dance song but then he chose the dnb one, so we might just be greedy & have two! Haha

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    • Llosa
      CommentAuthorLlosa
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    yeah that would be nice, how are you gonna do a slow dance to DNB tho hahaha....i wanted i refuse by netsky but the shock one remix....amazing tune but apparently the lyrics are a bit out for the occassion lol.
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    • SianyCaitlin
      CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
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    We'll slow dance the verses then go nuts when it drops haha. Love that tune, h2b has it on vinyl & I think I played it a bit too much! Lol

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    • Llosa
      CommentAuthorLlosa
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    i must say I'm soooo jealous lol! ah well i shall make up it for it later...thankfully most of my family are all ex ravers lmao 'exodus, one love and all that!"
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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    what having it as your music to enter the reception ?

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    • Llosa
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    i wouldn't like to have it at all lol
    but maybe thats a good compromise
 

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