im having a church wedding and ive been thinking do i need to have order of service? the vicar said he doesnt mind if we do or not as he'll just put some hymn books out. if i should have them what exactly goes in them as i havent got a clue.
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CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
We're not having them as we've got an Abbey for our whole day but my friend who is getting married next year also, is having hers in a church & she's having an order of service. I think it's just a list of what's going to happen when, like when the hymns will be, the readings (if any) etc .. I'm not 100% sure on that though xx
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CommentAuthorlizzylou
I don't think you have to have them, and if the vicar says its ok not to then that's the person that counts really. x
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CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
Normally, you would have them at a church wedding, but you dont have to if you don't want them. It is basically an itinery of the service, so it is written in the order of when things will happen, and includes any words to the hymns you want the guests to sing and the readings. I will be having them because I think it will be easier for the guests to read the hymns off a piece of paper rather than trying to flick through a hymn book to find them, and for them to be able to see where abouts in the service they are xxx
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CommentAuthorkimi1987
ah right ok, think i might just save the money then and let them look through the books. i cant put the money into something else then plus it saves me making another paper thing lol
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CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
can you still have an order of service even if your not having a church wedding so everyone knows where there going for the day =D <3 X
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CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
Yeah you can still have them if you want them MrsDeaton2Be xx
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CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
this thread has got me thinking Linzi-jo if i need one or want one will everyone even bring there order of service or do they collect it as they are walking in to sit down Would it be extra and annoying ask them to carry it around with them I'm sure the Eden Project staff will be ushering everyone along to where they need to be Hmmm thinking ....=D <3 X
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CommentAuthorMrsC
We are having them for our church service, I like to have them when I attend other weddings. Ours will be a brief outline then the words to hymns and the reading
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
we didnt have them .... and tbh no one even noticed