Hi everyone im having a bit of debate whether to have a full on big wedding here in the uk or go for my absolute dream wedding of lapland just wondered if any of you lovely ladies could give me some advice :)
CommentAuthorJadeE26
Do whatever you are going to end up regretting if you don't do x
CommentAuthorMrs Cartwright
I would go for your dream wedding but just be prepared about your guest list and check that the people that really want there can come too
CommentAuthorMrsG2b
Aww Lapland would be amazing!! I'm a travel agent and have just booked a wedding in Lapland. All the extra bits they sort for you are truly magical. Go with your heart ;)
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CommentAuthorAmyP7
If Lapland is your dream go there, you can always have a party her afterwards for people who can't go and if you give enough notice I'm sure people would be able to go x x
im just so torn as i have a big family and dont want to upset anyone but at the same day its my wedding i just dont know at the moment!! thank you for your comments
Mrsg2b can you tell me about the one you have just booked so i have some ideas please :) xx
CommentAuthorMrsG2b
Of course hun, what's your email address? X
Got together 10/11/08...Engaged 25/11/11...
I become Mrs G on 25th May 2013...
...the other exciting parts will follow!
CommentAuthorTori
Could you have a big party when you got back? That way you get to have your dream wedding plus big family do x
CommentAuthorLauraJo87
Yeah. Lapland sounds soooo romantic, I think if your heart is set on it you risk feeling a bit cheated about having a wedding in the uk. Have you discussed it with h2b? I wanted to go to Lapland over Christmas, but h2b hates the cold! Xx
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30 August 2013
The First Day Of My Happily Ever After
CommentAuthorB2B2017
Definately Lapland!! x
Planning to perfection <3
CommentAuthorKirstyM3690
Lapland!!! Sounds Amazing!!! xxx
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CommentAuthorprettypinkninja
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hi ladies yes the h2b is also loving the idea of lapland because he loves the cold and hates the heat so thats not the problem here we are planning a holiday there next year so you never know we might come back married :) im just worried about everyone else so i wanted a nice country house a theme along the lines of willy wonka and just a fun day but its just not living up to the whole lapland romance side help lol!
mrsg2b my email address is *** thankyou xx
CommentAuthorLauraJo87
Could you not just get married in Lapland, but have a reception when you get back? Xx or will people be upset to miss the ceromony?
Why don't you talk to those closest to you and try gauge there reaction? Xx
My Beating Heart Belongs To You
30 August 2013
The First Day Of My Happily Ever After
CommentAuthormadison_uk
lapland all the way always wanted to go there, have a reception when you get back if you start worrying about what other people will say you will never do anything you want in life, live your own life and do what you and your h2b want
CommentAuthorprettypinkninja
if im honest atm nobody seems bothered that im getting married which includes parents and friends so the more that carries on im leaning towards lapland but then again is it just a front i dont know might have a chat with family when i go home from work in october to see what the reaction would be its just annoying me that nobody is actually bothered its supposed to tbe the best day of my life but its already a nightmare :( xx
CommentAuthorLauraJo87
Hmm, when an engagement is announced people generally fall into two camps; those that are super - dizzy and excited about it and those that aren't too fussed really.
You do find the closer to the wedding you get, those in the not fussed camp often come on board once the actual planning is under way. The dizzy and excited people are often ones that end up being the biggest pains in the ars3s as they get the impression that it's 'their' day.
Weddings always seem such a long way off and dont start seeming 'real' to closer to the time.
You do what you want to do chick xx
My Beating Heart Belongs To You
30 August 2013
The First Day Of My Happily Ever After
CommentAuthorprettypinkninja
thankyou LauraJo im hoping it does start feeling real but my parents havent even said their happy etc so that hurts a little and dad comes out with comments all the time about not wasting his money on my wedding so again lapland by myself is at the forefront! who knows maybe i should drop the whole plannig until at least end of next year im just in limbo land atm but thankyou all for your comments xx
