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In-laws !: future SIL rant... Sorry.

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    • AmyM5
      CommentAuthorAmyM5
     
    I am now officially sick of my future SIL. If it isn't one thing its another with her! Myself and my partner have picked our date, venue and our guest list, and she has decided none of them are suitable, saying our venue is 'too posh', our date (being a sunday) 'needs changing because of work commitments' and that our guest list is 'too small and too inclusive'. She is also continuously preaching to me about second-hand dresses and how I can't wear white/ivory/cream as I am a 'divorcee' My OH has had words but honestly it does nothing. If she isn't slagging off the wedding, she's saying that my youngest child was concieved in an attempt to trap her brother (Most definatly not true, and offends me deeply) and that my miscarriage before my eldest is made up. I'm seriously getting to the point now when I am going to sit with my OH and discuss whether it's worth it for the SIL to come to our wedding. Most of my family aren't coming because of the same kind of things. Just had to get that off my chest.
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    • Shazk
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    Oh bless ya BIG HUGS this is horrid, i wouldnt be thinking of talking i would be saying it, HOW DARE SHE Its got nothing to do with her any of it, the wedding , ur child, anything its u & H2B lifes not hers x

    Hope u can get it sorted and she doesnt get any worse, she sounds a nasty bitter women who has nothing better to do and thing she need to be told x

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    • Sam
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    What's wrong with this woman? Her behaviour towards you is horrible and most of the things she is talking about are absolutely none of her business. She needs to be told that while she has every right to her opinion, you make your decisions with H2B not her in mind. If she keeps on I would tell her that you will not be treated the way she is treating you and ask her to leave (or you can leave depending on where these discussions are happening). Don't let her treat you this way, you don't deserve it.
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    • TeganandRob
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    Definitely don't stand for this. It's absolutely none of her business. My mother taught me that if you haven't got anything nice to say then don't say anything at all. Sounds like H2B should remind her of this lesson.
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    • OWB
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    Just tell her to back off, then go ahead and plan your day the way you want.

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    • Lulu1388
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    I agree, dont think of having words, do something about it. Its absolutely horrendous what she is accusing you of - saying you make things up ?? Why would ANYONE make up a miscarriage seriously? She has a right to an opinion by all means but to a certain extent you should know when to shut it...
    I agree with the other ladies theres only so much you will take from her before you'll have to kindly excuse her from your big day because you are not letting anyone or anything ruin your special day...
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    • Mrs brown - 19/08/12
      CommentAuthorMrs brown - 19/08/12
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    She sounds like a jealous Beeeeeep! to me! I would be having words if i was you. I think i would have slaped her by now x
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    • Tori
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    Who does she think she is!!!! I think she needs to keep her opinions to herself! Are you able to tell her where to go, if not I think you need to get h2b to do it. I think mrs brown is right she does sound as of she is jealous!!!!




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    • Velcro
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    She'd be getting a thump in the gob and telling she's not welcome at the wedding with her appalling attitude!

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    • SarahB814
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    Wow, I would of flipped my lid by now! Good on you for keeping your cool!! Tho your either going to have to tell her to naff off or get OH to deal with her. The point of her questioning your miscarriage would of made me snap! How dare she!! With the wedding tho, its your day, if she wants things so bad her way then she should off and go get married!(or renew vows if she is married) She should be supposrting you in what you want, not what she wants.

    What does it matter what she thinks is aceptable or not, its your day and remember that!! xxx




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    • mym72
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    Simple solution - tell her if she doesn't like your venue/date/plans etc - then DON'T COME TO THE WEDDING!!!!

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    • SarahB814
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    • Princess2be
      CommentAuthorPrincess2be
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    What a horrible horrible person. Keep her away from your kids, she is obviously trouble.
    I agree with mym72, she dosnt have to come to the wedding if its too "posh" for her.
    I would keep her at arms length cos she sounds awful
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    • KirstyJ22
      CommentAuthorKirstyJ22
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    Well I won't beat around the bush....she needs a slap! How can someone be so rude to their future SIL?? Even if I thought things like that about my brothers OH, I would keep quiet! I'd definitely have a chat about her not coming to the wedding if that's the way she feels x x
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    • madison_uk
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    I wouldn't invite her if shes doesn't like it then just tell her if she doesn't like it then don't feel pressured to come, I'm a divorcee and I'm wearing ivory and getting married in a church I've had all the hassle you shouldn't do this and that at the end of the day its your wedding so sod the lot of them and have a great day




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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
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    Uugggghhhh, what a horrible, nasty, evil, jealous, vile B!TCH!!!!!!

    I'm surprised you haven't fipped, good on ya for keeping your cool so far. I suggest just deleting her from your lives and not inviting her to the wedding. She is someone who does not deserve to be given any consideration whatsoever. Just pretend she doesn't exist.

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    • AmyP7
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    How dare she do this to you, it's your wedding. If it was me she would not be coming, I hope she sorts herself out or you may need to have a word x x

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    • ShelleyM46
      CommentAuthorShelleyM46
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    sorry but wat a b**** if i wa u id tell her 2 f off n that u dont need sum1 like her there.xx

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    • LauraJo87
      CommentAuthorLauraJo87
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    One word - jealousy.

    Sounds like a right cowbag. Don't invite her, she doesn't deserve to share your special day

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