as it says my h2b dunt like wearin em so iv told him we will get a realy cheap 1 for him for when we get married n its up 2 him then .is anybody else like this x
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CommentAuthorMorgsysGirl(kempy)
My husband had never really worn any jewlery untill a couple of years ago when I brought him a braclet that I had DAD wrote on and he always wears that infact don't think i've ever seen it off him. Then I thought well he isnt going to want to wear a ring we only got him a £30 titanium one because of the job he was doing at the time it would have got wrecked. but again he always keeps it on x
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CommentAuthorGazza 122
I think thats a great idea ShelleyM46, at least you wont spend too much if he doesnt wear it,My Kev cant wear his ring in the Gym obviously, but has assured me it will go straight back on afterwards! It better had lol.....xx
CommentAuthorShazk
Snap!!!
My H2B is also saying he wont wear a ring, has said he would wear it on a chain round his neck however but not sure if I like the idea of him not wearing it (I know lots of people men and women dont wear wedding rings but to me its something you should wear with happiness and pride).
Im gona keep trying and fingers cross i may win (wont hold my breath!)
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CommentAuthorShelleyM46
wen he proposed to me a few week after i got him a ring n all but he only really wears it if hes goin out rings irritate him.sayin that it took me ages to get used 2 wearin mine but i never take mine off now iv seen 1 for £24 .99 so think ill get him that.wonder if a D shape would irritate him more x
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i think you need to have a ring for the ceremony anyway? correct me if im wrong though.. but otherwise what do you do with the 'i give you this ring, as a symbol of my love, with my heart i cherish you, with my body i honour you' etc?
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CommentAuthorLynD
mine won't either due to the nature of his job (seen too many fingers mangled apparently). But will wear one on high days and holidays - am going for the cheaper version for his - Titanium or sommat similar.
Am pretty sure a ring isn't a requirement though - lots of blokes don't wear them.
CommentAuthorShelleyM46
yeah i agree thats y iv told him hes bloody wearin 1 lol id like him 2 wear 1 all time iv said how else r people 2 know ur taken lol x
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
both of you dont have to have a ring in fact it is only i relitvly recently that men have had rings at all .....if your hsb has no ring that you dont say the " i give you this ring" bit
and it does take getting use to, took me a few weeks to get use to mine.
He cant see what the problem is him not having one but he ahd the cheek to ask why i wasnt wearing mine the other day when i had shut my finger in the car door and i took it off incase i could get it off (didnt want to risk having it cut off!) talk about double standards lol x
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CommentAuthorRaggedyAnne
Neither of you NEEDS a ring legally if you didn't want one. My H2B isnt wearing a ring either, and the ceremony is then sorted where only the bride accepts the ring.
I did think about getting a cheap ring for him for the ceremony, but I don't really care if I am honest. Its the old fashioned way for the man not to have a ring.,........Prince William didn't have one either.
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CommentAuthorPrincess2be
I think its up to him. Plus it would b a saving if you only bought a cheap one!
CommentAuthorSuzyb
My H2B won't be wearing a ring either, he really doesn't like jewlery and won't even wear a watch. He will wear one for the ceremony but you don't have to. Men never used to be given a wedding ring and there are even vows for this.
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CommentAuthorMrsShaw
ahh i stand corrected! get a haribo ring ;)
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CommentAuthorShelleyM46
lol mrsshaw i mite just do that.n i never knew thats the man never used 2 hav a ring. x
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CommentAuthorFernP61
my h2b has a wedding ring even though were not officialy married yet he loves it and has worn it the last 5 years it gold and were debating whenever to get him a white gold one for wedding and pics then he can put other one back on dont want wedding pics to look silly with two diff coloured ring s on i think its personal choice though whenever the man should wear the ring x
CommentAuthorVickie
My OH is wearing a ring as he likes the idea but doesn't wear jewerlly not even a watch. I said it was up to him and not bothered if he wears one or not as my dad has never worn a wedding ring.
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CommentAuthoremmaaa
Mine doesn't wear jewellery at all, not even a watch, he originally said he wasn't, then said he'd wear something very cheap (he loses everything lol!) and ended up with a £300 palladium ring. Our job is very manual, I think he was worried about it getting caught and stuff, but a lot of our friends in our industry have got marrie din the last few years, and they wear rings all the time with no problems. I really want him to wear it, I'm not really a jewellery person either, it took me a while to get used to my engagement ring, and it means a lot that he's willing to try at least! Although In can see it coming off after 6 months!
CommentAuthorShazk
Emmaaa least your is willing to try my OH wont even try at the moment which i think is wht upsets me lol x
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CommentAuthorVonny
i think my h2b is reluctant but will do it. I just may have to gentle nudge him to wear it.
CommentAuthorShazk
I think i going to have to result to begging and the waterworks lol
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CommentAuthorShelleyM46
think il b joining u on that 1 mrs brammer lol .h2b said he wont wear it after n i think he should : ( but if he dunt like it he dunt lik it he will only wear it wen we go out sum were like he dose wi his other ring i got him thinkin bout it i dont even know were hes put that lol x
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CommentAuthorShazk
lol what have we started here, u will be hunting for that now and pulling the sofa cushions off lol!!
Im gona talk to H2B again and expalin what it would mean to me and like others buy cheap one for him to try out to get use to x
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CommentAuthorHalebob85
My h2b has said that he doesn't want to wear a ring but he will get a tattoo on his ring finger. Initailly I was quite hurt that he doesn't want to wear one, but then thought that he doesn't really like tattoos so it is sweet. He says its cause he doesn't like jewellry but we know people who don't do jewellry but wear their wear a wedding ring, my dad and our best friend included. I have come up with the idea that we buy a cheap one for the ceremony and he trials it for a month to see if he can get used to it. Then if he doesn't like it he can get the tattoo.
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CommentAuthorShazk
Well least he is willing to try and i have tatoos but id rather wear a ring than a tatoo if not to kean on them lol x
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CommentAuthorHalebob85
I haven't suggested it to him :) Came up with the idea when drunk in Flares last night :D I'm sure he will accept my terms :P
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CommentAuthorShazk
LOL bless ya im sure he will, mine ususally does as values his life lol x
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CommentAuthorHalebob85
Haha. Will try that on one him :D
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CommentAuthorShazk
i play that card and the water works always gets him lol xx
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Started planning 2012
Getting married 29th June 2014
CommentAuthorLindsayK
i can see how ud be upset he doesnt want to wear a ring, my OH hasnt got a choice, there are too many 'bikes' at his workplace (saturday night pub), who have no respect for peoples relationships if there isnt a ring. but Halebob85, i think thats a lovely idea, a tattoo really is for life, so shows hes in for the long haul!
CommentAuthorShazk
Thats what i say, when i was single thats one of 1st things i looked at when out if liked someone to see if were married so if he doesnt wear one how will others no (I trust him to tell the obviously) but if cant see he married dont stop them trying x
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CommentAuthorShelleyM46
i like the idea of a tattoo plus i hav his name on me so its bout time he got mine he just laughed at me : ( n thats wat i said n all its so people know UR MINE lol. i ant got that problem tho as he works wi alot of my family x
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CommentAuthorbex
my h2b is really looking forward to getting his wedding ring and he doesn't wear jewellery, i'd be pretty upset if he wouldn't wear it bu hen i guess everyone is different, hopefully he'll change his mind for u x
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CommentAuthorLegoWife
Aw I hope those of you who'd H2B's won't wear a ring can talk them round.
I love seeing men with wedding rings it says to me "I'm committed to my lady and I want everyone to see that!" And that makes me feel warm and fuzzy :)
