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    • CommentAuthorTara
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    He left me last night. I thought we were really happy, we've just bought our first house as well. Didn't see this coming at all and am absolutely heartbroken and don't know where to go from here. xxx
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    • RaggedyAnne
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    Oh Tara I am so sorry to hear this....

    ((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))

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    • loustew2012
      CommentAuthorloustew2012
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    oh i am so sorry to hear that. is there no way of getting contact and trying to talk. i always hate these types of posts, so sad. xxx

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    • MrsShaw
      CommentAuthorMrsShaw
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    im so sorry to hear this :( did he even say why?!

    xx
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    • x~Hails~x
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    Has he said why hes gone?
    You say youve just brought a house together, maybe he feels under pressure to be a grown up and is a stressed with that and the fact hes getting married soon.
    Let him calm down then ring him to ask to meet so you can talk so you can at least find out what hes thinking!
    Hugs hunni

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    • Linzi-jo
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    Oh Tara I am so sorry to hear this! Hopefully he is just having a case of cold feet and will come back with his tail between his legs when he realises what he has done. I hope it works out for you in the end hun, big hugs! xxx

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    • MrsShaw
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    Good point from Hails there, he may be feeling the stress.. give him time then talk xx
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    • Jennifluff
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    Oh Hun *hugs*

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    • suzky123
      CommentAuthorsuzky123
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    oh no. Did he at least offer an explanation? Maybe hes just stressed over the house and will see his senses?

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    • stephanief49
      CommentAuthorstephanief49
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    So sorry this happened to you, maybe hes just a little overwhelmed and needs some time.
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    • weemindyxx
      CommentAuthorweemindyxx
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    Aw Tara i wish i could my my arms through the screen and give you a huge hug, im so sorry this has happened, hpe it all works out.xxx

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    • HobbitBeth
      CommentAuthorHobbitBeth
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    Thats awful, hugs! I hope its just nerves or something of everything. Anyway of trying to talk to him?

    x
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    • LeighS
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    Sending hugs to you hun. xxx

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    • InDreamland
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    Oh no Tara! I'm so sorry to hear this! Is there any way of getting an explanation from him? Maybe as Hails said it's the stress and pressure of growing up and maybe he just needs time to come round to it all.

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    • Tsukijin
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    So sorry :( I hope he at least gives you an explanation.

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    • Ataraxia
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    Oh Tara, I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope you can talk it over and find out why he feels like he has to end it x

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    • jodie b
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    sorry to hear this i hope it works itself out xx

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    • ~feebee~
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    Oh dear hun, hope you can get to have a good heart to heart with him about what's the matter ((((hugs)))) x x x

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    aw hun xx hope you manage to sort it all out xx big hugs xx

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    • dolphin
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    so sorry to hear this, he should at least tell you why. sending hugs

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    • TotallyLovedUp
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    :( im so sorry huni. i really do hope tht its just that he feels under pressure and when you have had a chance to talk things will get back on track. big hugs x
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    • Glitterfairy
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    Sorry to hear this. I hope you sort things out. X

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    • Nicsquared
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    Sorry to hear this :(
    Hope you are doing ok, I think its so much harder when it comes out of the blue x

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    • Joci "The Currypot"
      CommentAuthorJoci "The Currypot"
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    So sorry to read this post but he's a man and he's probably thinking it's all going just a tad too fast for him. Moving in together is so stressful as it's only then you find out each others ways properly. You have a long time until the planned wedding maybe he's just wanting to adjust to living with you in your new home, enjoying the privacy instead of going full hog and already planning one of his biggest days yet to come. He's probably finding it all a bit daunting.
    How long have you two been together? Maybe he wasn't ready. I'm sure if he loves you enough to buy a house and get engaged
    he'll be back x x

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    • 1st-time
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    Sorry to hear this, I agree with some of above hunni, let him calm down and ask to meet an talk. It could be the pressure / stress. big hugs xx
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    • gemsy
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    so sorry to hear this. Hope you manage to work things out xx
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    • MrsDanks
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    Aww hun, hope you get to work things out, really sorry to hear your going through this at the moment. xx




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    • Ha_x3
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    So sorry to hear this hun!
    Hope the ladies above are right about him feeling stressed/under pressure.
    I hope you manage to sort things out chick, good luck & sending big hugs your way xx

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    • Shirleygirly
      CommentAuthorShirleygirly
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    Really sorry to hear this, I can only hope you can work things out. Men can be big babies and hopefully he's just a bit scared by all that's happening. Big hugs.x

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    • CommentAuthorTara
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    Thanks everyone, we've already lived together for 2 years but just bought our first home a few months ago, we've been together more than 4 yrs. It's a mess having a house to sort out in all of this but I'd rather know now than after we'd got married!! xx
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    • Mrs brown - 19/08/12
      CommentAuthorMrs brown - 19/08/12
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    Sorry to hear this, sending hugs to you! I had the samething happen to me around 5 years ago! but i only had 3 weeks left till the big day! Hope you can work things out? Men can get scared just as much as us ladies x
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    • Steffie
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    *huge hugs* xxx
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    • CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Nicol
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    Huggs, Hope u can work things out..
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    • KellyB81
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    Sorry to hear this, hope you get things sorted whatever the outcome xx

    Kelly x


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    • almost a year wife!!
      CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
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    hugs babes xxxxx

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    • natalie2614
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    Big hugs, so sorry to hear this hun xx

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    • phoebee
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    Sorry to hear this. x

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    • Officially Mrs M
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    *hugs*

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    • millz090
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    Aw honey im sorry.... my only tip would be dont rush into anything, take time to mend your heart and the house stuff can wait. I split with my now H2B 2 years ago and we owned a house together, we had a messy break up and he moved out but 5 months later we got back together and mended all the issues and now engaged and soooo happy. I am glad i mended my heart before selling the house as in the end it got us back together xxx

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    • MrsKisywisy
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    great to hear it all worked out for the best :)

    take one step at a time xxx

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    • millz090
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    Thanks chick xx

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