Wedding Forum - Were ALL beautiful...

hi girls.....firstly apologies for repeatedly asking whats going on.......ive just come back online from a nice hot bubbly bath to discover everythings gone mad and some comments have been removed from my thread about trying my first dress on as they were deemed abusive....i do not hold with ANYONE putting people down no matter how big or small they may be WE ARE ALL GORGEOUS NO MATTER WHAT.....learning to love ourselves is very hard particularly in todays society.......i love my boobs but i hate my broad back.......but i can live with it!!!
so girls i ask you to share (only if u want to) what you love and hate most about yourself and together we will see that we all have hang ups about oursleves and as a team we can learn to love not loathe them.....................
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I had a few mean remarks made about me also..

Her comments sounded like those of a young teenager.

Anyway i really dont think there is anything about me that i like, let alone love hehe xx

why are people being so pathetic that they re trying to bring people down on a site like this?? Are they that insecure about themselfs!!!!

Im sure you are all beautiful ladies. Everybody has hang ups about their body!!

I love my eyes, smile & most of the time my lush 34JJ boobs lol. I hate my knees, thighs & mummy tummy but i deal with them. As long as my h2b luvs all my wobbly bits & bits i hate then i dont care what anyone else says :-D

Keep smiling ladies because it annoys that person thats trying to bring you down :-) xxx

for lala - talk about fast acting, what a fab site for dealing with it so quickly & efficiently :-)
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ahhh chicken i know shes a just meanie.......and u r lovely xxxx

the way i got over my hangups was to become a tribal bellydancer now when i shimmy its awesome!!!!

Wow lilmisschuckles that sounds so much fun!

Since leaving secondary school (body hangup hell if you ask me!) I've become a bit more at peace with my figure - I'm never going to have slim hips & thighs so as long as I stay healthy & keep my shape hourglass I'm happy :)
Would really like a slimmer face though, mine is very round so I'm not the greatest fan of pictures lol! Xx

not sure what happened must have missed it but glad it is all sorted

Omg ladies, what an earth happened??? Has the abuser been banned? Haters are clearly just jealous!

I hate my belly and love handles the most, but I love my long toned legs, and my blonde (down to my waist) length hair.

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i do like being blonde, but wish my hair was longer. I really cant think what i do love about myself. i quite like my height actualy xx

The one day I don't get on here during the day and I miss something lol. It's usually me that gets caught up in threads that are removed so it makes a change today lol.

Ladies just to let you know the um ... um ..... person that posted those things has been banned from the forum

Hey ladies, a good thread but sorry some people had some nasty things said :(

I hate my thighs and the double bump thing where my thighs and hips are which means i cant wear anything too fitted :(

I do like my hair, I got lucky in that department :)

My bits are as follows
Hair - ok (if seen after 10am)
Face - great for radio
Arms - If I was a russian shot putter I would be adored!
Boobs - Pert flew out of the window after I saw positive on the pee stick
Belly - Rainy day fun as a trampoline for my lil boy
Bum - Pretend it's not there, until I stand up and the chair comes with me
Legs - Very long and were once lean but now more flab than fab
Feet - Hold the rest of me up, so in my eyes my heroes!

Oh I like my brain, it tells me that no matter what I look like I have a loving man and kids, and it reminds me there are people so much worse off.

LOL LOVE yours stevie dee

Sorry I wasnt around ladies for all the "fun" and I'm glad lala was as quick as normal ;-)
Now the person is banned hopefully thats the end of it and we can all carry on planning the first day day of the rest of our lives with our gorjus h2b's

I dont like my tummy or my nose! But I love my eyes and my h2b likes my bum so I'm guessing that must be quite nice too! I also like my legs as they are quite long and toned, but personality is what truely makes beauty! You could have the most beautiful person in the world but she could also be the ugliest! xxx

id like to say littlemisschuckles great post.

due to health issues having my gallbladder out and serve ibs which happens to be made worse and just been digonised with lastose intolerance ive gone from size 10 to size 14 - put on 4 stone in 5 months :( however this has caused alot of hatered towards my self as ive never been bigger.

I love my new bigger boobs gone from 34b to 36c :)

hate my tummy and fat thighs tho, so need to do something as my wedding dress a size 10 and im now a 14 :(

but i think what u said has give me new way of looking at thing we are beautiful no matter what im still me and my fiancee still loves me for who i am. weight is neither here no there. xx

Great thread lilmisschuckles!

I like my eyes because they're a nice bright blue (they're adam's favourite part of me apparently) and I like my wrists and ankles because they're the only parts of me that are slim! lol and I love my boobs - 36E so big enough without being huge.
I HATE my bum and thighs - you've never seen a bottom so huge, in fact Adam says its so big he's sure its got its own gravitational field and my thighs just wobble all over the place, 'thunder thighs' would be an apt way to describe them! haha
I'm not keen on my love handles or my squidgy bits, but am a lot happier with the way I look since I lost weight (but more importantly, inches!) so I'm a lot less self-concsious than I was :o)

Oh dear I am sad to hear there have been nasty things said, some people are so yuk!
I hate my belly and arms but love my bum! hehe
Lilmisschuckles is so right... We are all beautiful in our own special ways! Great thread!

PS, I feel like bursting into a bit of a song..... We are beautiful, no matter what they say... do do dooo

missed the whole drama, but can't believe some people can be so petty and jealous, glad she was banned. I don't like my boobs much, I love the size of them but after two kids they are abit less firm than they used to be and are now starting to point to the floor and I also dislike the side profile of my nose.
I do however like my ears and my eyes. but as h2b says he loves me bumps, lumps and all x

glad everything is sorted out now, hate it when these things happen....

as for the thread gosh where do i begin. i hate everything, face, body, feet etc. im not happy with myself at all. i am trying to change everything (diet etc) but as i have a thyroid condition then its a no go. i cant get help at the moment as my endo says im not really suffering so they wont touch it until i am having major issues.

h2b says he love me, not the way i look but me. he fell in love with the person not the body but he doesnt understand why that upsets me a bit, but after these years there must be something. because he came with me through all the biopsies etc he understands why its hard for me to change my looks so for that im grateful.

if i won the lottery id go private id get my thyroid removed, b00i3s done and my nose done cos its huge lol.

great post stevie dee!!

i dont mind my b00bs at the min as they have grown unfortunately this is due to weight gain which has made practically all of my wardrobe now not fit!!! I love the length of my legs and thet they hold me up but due to a physical problem they are mismatched and i hate them too as to me they look awful!!! my nails need to grow a lot faster and be stronger but im happy mpst of the time because i know ry loves me and wouldnt want me any other way!!! although i should be glad he a b00b man rather than bum as i hate that too as it huge!!! lol

still on our wedding day we all look gorgeous as we are all soooo happy that it radiates out of us and makes us even more beautiful!!

am glad the mean one has been banned from the forum as this site is great for people picking people up and helping each other out!! xx

There's a few body bits that could be better, but I never look in the mirror and hate what I've got, so it could be worse!!

I have good boobs, not overly huge (32D) but I'm thirty next year and they still stay up on their own! I quite like my hair as there is a lot of it. I've got quite a good bum, my J-Lo backside was always admired (I hated it when I was younger), although I prefer it when it's covered, it looks so much better in skinny jeans than out of them.

As for what I don't like - my fat ankles, and nobbly knees. The ski slope nose I inherited from my father. The hollow bit between my hips and thighs (although, maybe that's more to do with the layer of fat on the latter). I also really dislike that my face is noticeably wonky, so I have to tilt my head in photos!!

I think as I've got older I've learned to live with the fact that I'm not perfect, but nobody is!!!

I've always hated my ears and have been teased all they way from childhood up to as recently as in work a couple of years ago when a manager made fun of them!!!! I wanted to save up to have them pinned back but then realised there are plenty of others things to spend that money on! I still don't like them but I can live with them! It's not that big an issue at the end of the day.

I also don't really like my nose. But when I told my mum, who has the same nose as me, she said we inherited it from my grandad. He used to get teased about it so made up a rhyme:
'Gwilym's nose is long, Gwilym's nose is stong. It'd be no disgrace to Gwilym's face if half his nose was gone'
This always makes me smile and remember him so won't be getting a nose job any time soon!

I do like my hair, my back and my behind though! Shame I can't see them in the mirror to remind me it's not all bad! x

Really sorry to have read that some posts have been abusive to others! Grrrr I dont get why some people feel the need to do this...what a sad life they must lead! Anyhow - just reading what the lovely forum ladies have come back with on the thread out weighs any of that other nonsense! she probably is single and bitter!

Anyhow - there are many things i dislike about myself.....my stretch marks especially on my tummy, but also all the way down the back of my legs, i cannot - will not wear short skirts or shorts in summer :( I hate the way my boobs look without a bra, i hate the size of my teeth, and i have cellulite!.............poo!
I do however love the fact that my H2B dosent see any of this and thinks i am beautiful just the way i am!
I think my face is alright sometimes x