Im getting married 27th June 2013 was having 22 guests 10 of which mates, anyways we have found out Friday that its looking deffo like we will only conveive via IVF so Ive got the dreaded thing of telling 10 of our mates they cant come our wedding as we need to save for IVF and not having them at the wedding will save us about £1,000, got to go their houses tomoz, I know they will understand and too be honest im glad that its just 10 of us now immediate family as less stress and no panicking about what my mates might get upto in front of our parents
CommentAuthorHappilymarried Mrs G
You could always organise a night out meal / bowling party type thing to celebrate your marriage with your friends as well couldnt you?
CommentAuthorTara p mrs gibson2b
mayb they could pay for them selfs , i know its a little cheeky but if they want to share you day and its ok with you and you h2b....
soon 2 b mrs gibson !!!!!
CommentAuthorclarebear1
Yeah would of been nice for them to be there as 3 lads were gonna be ushers but their meals would of been £35.00 each, drinks package £20 each, Im made up now too be honest im more gutted about IVF, and im not asking them to pay for their meals/drinks I thinhk we will organise a pre wedding party with them
CommentAuthorMrs Cartwright
So sorry to hear that clarebear hope the ivf works out for you. I agree with blondmumma sounds like a nice thing to do :)
sorry to hear youre having to cut down guests, i am sure they will understand.
good luck with the IVF
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BUT to one person you may just be THE WORLD x x x
CommentAuthorSweetchilli
I'm sure your friends will totally understand. You could all get together before your wedding and go out for a nice meal and a few drinks?
Good luck with you IVF
CommentAuthorJules
I'm on my 2nd go at IVF at the mo hun so i know how expensive it is, but I was thinking maybe you could ask all your guests for a wedding present of money towards your IVF. Good Luck with it hun it's a very stressful time for you, but you'll get through it xx Lots of love & Baby (IVF) Dust sent your way x
