Hi all wondering if you can help me? Im getting married Aug 2013 my fiance and I wanted to try for a baby last year so i went to the drs and was told i cant do it straight away as im epileptic and the meds im on would have to be changed so was told the 1st thing i could do was get a hospital app but this could take upto 7months (bearing in mind we wanted to plan the baby well before the wedding so to be told wait another 7 months was devastating) i then got an app in the oct only to be told the meds im on i have to come off which will also take a while!!! (so ive lost a year of trying to concieve :(! ) so it looks like we are now hoping our baby would be born in the feb 2013 instead of early 2012 :( so that means our baby woud be 7 months old when we get married now h2b says last night he is worried incase of what people think of us going for a honeymoon and leaving the baby with aunty for a week, can anyone help me and give me their opinions?
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
you do what is right for you .. to hell with what anyone else thinks ....as long as that baby has someone to feed it , change it and cuddle it ... they will be fine
Your life, do what the both of you are happy with. No one can complain if baby is well fed etc, like lala says
CommentAuthorkrisw86
ignore what others say. u deserve a honeymoon. xxx
CommentAuthorstressed to max b2b
tell anyone whos say anything about u leavin your baby however old so u can go on honeymoon to fqvgso yhqga off nowt to do with them. HOWEVER, do u think u and h2b would be comfortable leaving baby i wouldnt have a roblem with it personaly but some mums and dads dont like too so consider that more than anything or anyone else hun x
met him 25/8/97
he proposed 4/3/98
get married 21/4/12 then i will become mrs johnson
3 beautiful children together
A friend of mine got married in October 7.5 months pregnant, and the plan was always to go on honeymoon in Feb, leaving the baby with her parents - however, he's now 1 month old and I asked if she was excited about her honeymoon, and she says it's now fallen off the agenda as she just wants to achieve 2 things this year - have a healthy baby and move house! So now her honeymoon is postponed yet again at a date TBC - so maybe having a honeymoon before the baby would be better as then you've less to organise logistically? Or I'd wait until the baby is a few years old so you can have a family honeymoon maybe?
CommentAuthorMrs Ross
Hi ladies he says hes fine with it just worried more what my parents will say and he thinks it will upset me
CommentAuthorUnknown
i cant imagine what that must be like for you. as long as you and your h2b are happy with the honeymoon situation and the baby would be looked after then it isnt anyone elses business. you will prob need a honeymoon and break from a new born aswell after the wedding xx
CommentAuthorNicsquared
I agree that it is not up to others to decide how you should live your life however i totally agree with bridalmiss - when it comes to leaving your baby - a lot of my friends found it hard to leave their babies for a night in the first year let alone any longer - that may ruin your honeymoon if you feel uneasy being away from them
Plus if you are breast feeding you would have to make sure they are fully weaned before you go as it can be distressing to stop breast feeding abruptly
At the moment this is all theoretical - if you didnt get pregnant until a few months later it would be a bit different leaving say a three month old rather than a 7 month old
There are so many people out there who will tell you
what you can't do.
What you have to do is turn around and say, "watch me"!!
CommentAuthorPB
I wouldn't care what other people think, that shouldn't stop you.What may stop you is how you will feel and i pretty much guarantee that when it comes to it you will not want to leave your baby.Plan to have your baby before the wedding if that is what you want but don't book the honeymoon until baby is here and you know if you can bear to leave them or not xxx
