Wedding Forum - How can I involve my h2b more????...

Hi all I was just wondering how involved your h2b's are/were as I seem do be doing a lot of the work at the moment. When I start talking about wedding planning my h2b tells me its too early to do things but I know it isn't, he'd rather leave it all to last minute by the feel of things. I am getting rasther stressed with it and have started going to my younger sisters for her to help me with things. We are hopefully going to see a registry office tomorrow and maybe more next week, I don't want to be the only one that asks questions when we go to visit them but have a feeling h2b won't say a word. I know that he does really love me but he likes leaving things to the last minute where as I have to have everything planned months in advance or I get ill from stress.

does anyone have any ideas on how can make him mor excited/involved with the planning? as its as much his day as it is mine and I don't want him to think I didn't try or that he wasn't involved

xxx

just realised I have adccidently posted this topic twice as my sisters internet went down on me :/ thanks anni that sounds rather funny asking him that and obviously he wasn't listening. I'd kill my other half he did that

we're having a buffet instead of sit down meal, I've asked him to arrange the transport and read through the guest lists for reception and registry office :)

thanks :) thats a really good idea will tell him to arrange that lol, see what happens with that part, I'll probably end up telling him what to do or doing it for him as he will leave it till the day before or something