Hi Girls! Im having a right stress trying to decide whether i will wear high and glam heels, which will look so much better than stubby kitten heels. BUT i know my feet will be killing and thats the last thing i want during the day! What do you think??
CommentAuthorMrs D-2b
I would really love to wear high and glam heels too but like you will know my feet will be killing, so I've opted for the stubby kitten heels. I think that for most of the time they will be hidden under my dress so have decided comfy is better!
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CommentAuthorsamwiseheart
im going for comfy instead of hight, my mr is only a shorty anyway so its fine, doesnt mean i have to wear massive heels, comfy is definately the way forward! x
CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
From someone that did both...heels in Vegas and Vegas sneakers for UK...go for comfort!!! Everytime. No one will see what you're wearing under the dress anyway. If you desperately want the sexy, glam heels, then you can always get them for some honeymoon fun
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CommentAuthorlinzi
I am doing both too. High and sparkly for the ceremony and meal, will put them back on for the first dance cause that will be the first good look night folk get at my dress, but after that its onto ballet pumps!
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I'm wearing high heels for the ceremony, photos & breakfast then while everyone waits for the evening in the bar i am going to go to my hotel room and change into some flats x
CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
I have both :-)
I have high and glam (see show off your shoes thread for a picture) for the service and photos and low heels for the reception hehehehe
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CommentAuthorMel D
I had both too! I had the high glamorous ones on until just after the first dance, and then I changed in to flats xx
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CommentAuthoremmaaa
Just low all day for me. I don't really wear heels, even in a comfy pair I'd be in agony after a couple of hours, and the idea of wobling over while walking up the aisle... eeeee! H2B is only a few inches taller than me, so that makes sense too!
CommentAuthorLaticschick Holland
i went for gorgeous but comfy, the heal wasn't to short but wasn't silly heal either, RAINBOW is a collection many bridal shops sell and they are very very comfy shoes. However i must admit at night i but some flats on but only because they where the coolest glitter purple shoes ever!
CommentAuthorGem1102
I've gone for sparkly flats. Comfort all the way for me. No one's really gonna see them that much anyway.
CommentAuthorMrsCaitiClarke
I'm definitely having both as well, but even my sparkly heels aren't that high as my Dad's giving me away and I'm4 in taller than him. Plus I know I'll fall on my face if I wear stilletos! I'm having gorgeous pumps for the evening as my feet will be killing and I want to enojy myself!
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CommentAuthorLittleMissBossy
I'll have high heels (but but not ridiculously high - see album) but I'll also get turquoise Converse for later - I'll swap them whenever I feel like it.
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CommentAuthorxnikki86x
Im having heels for the ceremony then changing into flats or kitten heels for the reception after, I dont wanna have to keep sitting down because my feet are killing me x
CommentAuthorMrsCaitiClarke
LittleMissBossy those Vivienne Westwoods are beyond lovely!!! I seriously want a white pair as my wedding shoes. My friend has them and says they also smell like bubblegum! Xx
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CommentAuthorLittleMissBossy
I can't wait to posess them! They are an old model and everywhere out of stock but I think (hope) I can still order them via Japan!
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CommentAuthorpennieb-MrsRiley
Go for comfort - I had lovely 1 inch heels that I made sure were well worn in by the time the day came and I didn't take them off my feet until about 11.00pm!
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CommentAuthorFutureMrsWilson
I'm either gonna go for both or comfort!! Depending on our budget:/ xx
CommentAuthorzowie
My mum always told me "who ever said being a woman was comfortable was a liar" and therefore wear 4 inch heels everyday to work and have learnt to block the pain out ha ha. Personal preference is always going to be high and glam but there are some cute smaller heels out there if you don't think you can do high all day xx
CommentAuthorbarbie86
I'm having 3.5 inch strappy crystal sandals for the day, up to the first dance, and then 2.5 inch peep-toes for the evening, 'just in case'. I don't feel right in flats, and find that heels can be perfectly comfortable if you chose right. But, I do want a back-up pair as it will be a long day, and my higher ones are quite open (so not as supportive as a more closed pair)
CommentAuthorB2B2017
Think Im going to have both, will have the length of dress done according to my glam heels and then change my shoes to some flat pumps or something along those lines for after dinner etc!!!
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CommentAuthorLegoWife
I'm still deciding but I'm probably going to go for a lower heel that I can wear all day but still gain a little height from!
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CommentAuthorMrs.K.Ward
Ive gone for glam and high! The way I see it i'm not going to be standing for long periods of time lol x
CommentAuthorSweetchilli
Ivory pumps for me.
CommentAuthorMrsCaitiClarke
The only reason I'm having heels at all is because the bottom of my gown is intricate and however excellent the seamstress might be I don't want her messing around with it so I need 3in heels to bump it up to the right length! LittleMissBossy have you tried bay of e? They had some blue ones on the other day that went for about £40? Xx
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CommentAuthorNicsquared
Im going for lower heels - i have never worn high ones so would probably just fall over lol
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CommentAuthorKylee27
I've got both. Some gorgeous champagne coloured peep toe slingbacks for the day then some Clarks white ballet pumps for the dancing!
A friend who always wears heels advised that a little bit of ibuprofen gel on the balls on your feet 5 mins before you slip heels on works a charm. Haven't tried it yet though.xx
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CommentAuthorMrsCaitiClarke
Kylee that's really good advice! Those Party Feet shoe inserts are really good too although they can make shoes feel a bit snug! Pop them in the fridge before going out and they're fab! Xx
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CommentAuthorloustew2012
im going for both. not normally a high heel wearer, so high heels for ceremony and photos and flats for everything else! x
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CommentAuthorMrsCaitiClarke
I wear heels nearly every day, but I have to sit down and take them off at regular intervals so I don't think I can last an entire wedding on my feet in them!!!
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CommentAuthorLittleMissBossy
MrsClarke I am checking every day :-) Not in my size or always the dark blue ones with the peach heart.
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CommentAuthorHeLz
definitely little shoes for me, i couldnt cope a whole day in heels and they wont be seen anyhoo!
CommentAuthorMrsCaitiClarke
If you see any white ones in a 7 let me know!!! They're the shoes I've got my heart set on Xx
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CommentAuthor~feebee~
Comfort every time lol
I have low heels and will be taking my silver New Look pumps to the venue just in case
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CommentAuthorLittleMissBossy
Mrs. Clarke I've popped a link on your wall!
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CommentAuthorLolaMay0412
I want high. I always wear glamourous high heels for special occasions (normally my rainbow zebra print Iron Fist ones!). Unfortunately because of my height, the length of my dress will not allow me to wear sky scrapers so I am going to have to try and find flat shoes that don't make my size 8 feet look like canoes!
CommentAuthorMrsSaraParry!
i've got heels at about 2 inches as I'm really tall. You can still get gorgeous shoes with small heels though - mine are cerise satin peeptoes and are lovely :o) I've also got flat bridal pumps for the evening because no matter how small they are, I don't want to be wearing heels all day xxx
CommentAuthorKate4
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Can anybody recommend nice 2-3 inch heels, not platforms? Even though all my shoes generally are over 3 inches I can't be taller than my h2b on our wedding day!
Also may be more comfortable if it's a lower heel. All the beautiful ones i've seen online are too high but I don't really want flat or kitten.
I'm disappointed I can't really wear high heels as I think it improves my posture. x
CommentAuthorSkamer
My h2b is 4 inches shorter than me before we even start so I am having flats, believe or not I fall off kitten heels, skyscrapers no problemo tho!! lol
CommentAuthorA.Bird2b
I've got some lower heels (thanks to the help of the ladies on UKBride!) to wear for most of the day as a) I don't get on with wearing high heels for long periods of time and b)I don't want to be taller than h2b, I like being the little one in our relationship. But I'm really considering buying some killer heels (preferably really awesome iron fist ones) to wear in the morning while we're being photographed getting ready.
CommentAuthorbridalmiss
If you look on the elegant steps site you can search by heel height, loads under 3 inches! And they're only on the wirral and I have a code for 15% off before 31/12/11!
CommentAuthorKate4
Oooh will look, forgot about there! I'll give you a shout if I need the code! Thanks!
CommentAuthorhello-kitty
see i'm gonna have to wear heels. h2b is nearly a foot taller than me but i am wearing platformed shoes so they are high but still comfortable
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