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    • To B Mrs B
      CommentAuthorTo B Mrs B
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    I have been really calm with everything so far i am bit of what will be will be sort of girl .
    But as the wedding draws near i have woke up the last 2 mornings with a terriable knot in my tummy of nerves .

    I am relaxed about the wedding its the walking in that terrifies me ! There are only 24 people at the wedding so its not as if i dont know them all or care about them all but its the thought of walking and and everyone staring at me . I really don't like to be the centre of attention and the thought of everyone just staring at me is sort of making me sick !

    Is this a normal/ rational fear ? xx
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    • XLittleMissMe!X
      CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
     
    Don't worry its normal I have two weeks left and I'm starting to get the same even though I've been pretty calm up until now. I'm the same about being worried about walking in. You will be fine and on the day it will go really quick so you won't have time to worry. Just enjoy it. x x




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    • kvelvick
      CommentAuthorkvelvick
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    Ive still got 8 weeks to go and its started for me already!! My stomach flips everytime i think about it!! Eeeek!!
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    • lil miss sunshine
      CommentAuthorlil miss sunshine
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    it is hon I had the same feeling but on the day was so excited i totally forgot about being looked at and just loved every minute

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    • whittle
      CommentAuthorwhittle
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    I was literally about to post the same thing. I have not slept for the last 2 nights due to going through the whole day incase i forgot something, or something was to go wrong. I also am worried about everyone staring at me and being the centre of attention. I have 28 days to go and whilst i can't wait to get married i am worried that after 32 years i won't be Miss Whittle anymore.

    I was also worried am i being irrational? But talking to others i think it is completely normal to be a bit nervous...but i am glad to see i am not the only one! Just got to keep in your mind it will be the best day of your life!!!

    Xxxxxx

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    • MrsC
      CommentAuthorMrsC
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    i just realised i have 7 weeks and im now panicking!!! totally freaking out now but also excited *screams*
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    • To B Mrs B
      CommentAuthorTo B Mrs B
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    I don't know whats wrong with me
    I can not wait to be married but as soon as i think of walking in and everyone looking at me i could cry or be sick in fact both !!

    I know at the reception everyone will be looking at me but that bit does not worry me its the walking in and seeing H2B and everyone standing OMG OMG !!

    I wonder if i could just sneek in a back door LOL xx
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    • MrsC
      CommentAuthorMrsC
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    at weddings i love looking at the groom as his bride walks in cos u see all the emotion and feelings in his face!!! try and just focus on ur h2b and im sure ur nerves will melt away! if that dosent help then go in the back door lol!
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    • XLittleMissMe!X
      CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
     
    I'm the same though. I really want to get married but worry about the walking in and sometimes I wish we had just eloped but then I know that we wouldn't enjoy it if we had. We will be fine I'm sure. I think once we have walked in everything will just melt away. I'm going to just focus on the h2b and nothing else. I'm sure one look from him will make everyone else melt away.




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    • Gem1102
      CommentAuthorGem1102
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    This stresses me out too. don't like being centre of attention either. i'm very glad that I don't have a long aisle to walk down so it'll be over quickly.
 

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