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    • laurab-gtobe
      CommentAuthorlaurab-gtobe
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    Do you need to send evening guests save the dates?
    I reckon because its at night - no - but never thought it through!x
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    • Nicsquared
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    Id say no too, but not really sure, i was worried in case i wanted to upgrade an evening guest, they would realise if i never sent them the save the date
    so i think i might just not send them

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    • Dee37
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    We didn't, just went for daytime ones as they're the most important people that you want to give advance notice to :-) Lots were family as well that don't always see that often.

    Night ones were mostly work bods and friends so they knew when it was pretty much.

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    • Dee37
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    Hi Nicsquared, that is a good point as I actually did that and realised someone I'd only thought of for evening I would like at the day one and she got her daytime invite and was blissfully ignorant!
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    • laurab-gtobe
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    yeah i now think no for definite! thats a good way of thining of it Dee, important people!!
    the same with us, friends and work colleagues etc that will be invite at night!!x
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    • x~Hails~x
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    Ive only got std for close family and those who will have to travel but its really up to you hun!

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    • Dee37
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    They are nice for day time guests and we had fun making them, did luggage tag shapes with red organza ribbons, we were quite impressed with our handiwork :-)

    Evening lists change as well, I've had a few friends that haven't kept in touch so much and once you send that card out its a bit hard to change your mind. So glad i didn't for them really.

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    • Nicsquared
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    Thats a good idea x-hails
    i guess my list is a bit more changeable than others - there are people we want all day but trying to work out what we cab afford

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    • DW82
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    i cant afford to have all of my family at the day so inviting cousins and not so close family to the evening so im sending save the date magnets to all of them as some of the family didnt even know we was getting married when i spke to them a few weeks ago lol, but for work, and friends im not giving them out only if i have some left and they want a keep sake lol
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    • nickers
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    no we didnt x

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    • kimmy
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    I would say no, but it's your choice!!!
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    • Rosysept2011
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    we did - only because we have so many people to invite. And, we ordered too many!!
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    • Kaz
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    I'd worry with sending them to everyone that you'd have to state what they're invited to, then you couldn't change/upgrade them!
    I was sent a save the date once and took the day off work only to find out that I was only invited to the evening!

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    • KayteeG
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    You don't usually send them, however I did as I made them myself, and as I have my own little business making cards etc.... I thought it would be good publicity lol!
 

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