After a hell of a lot of agonising and heartache I've made the decision to call off the wedding. It's just one thing after another - I can about cope with the stupidity of our mothers but when my own fiance can tell me he thinks I'm cheating on him then I think it's time to throw in the towel. I told him this morning and his reaction was "If that's what you want then that's fine".................how stupid do I feel now?
Anyway Thank you so much for all your help and support over the last 18 months or so, you've all been amazing and I'm so glad I've made so many wonderful friends.
I wish all of you the very best of luck in the future and I hope you all go on to have wonderful, happy and successful marriages.
All my love to you all xxx
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CommentAuthorMrsH2B
Awww hun I'm sure u can sort things out? Best of luck to you either way!
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CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
oh im so sorry to hear that news hun, after everythin you've been through i was looking forward to you getting your happy ending, but if that is now your decsion then you have lots of hugs an support from me. Best wishes for what ever the future holds for you and your family massive hugs xxx
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CommentAuthorMrsTacky2B
am so sorry to hear that, but you have to think whats best for you hunny. Good luck for the future in whatever you decided to do and take care xx
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CommentAuthorMadam Butterfly
Sorry to see you go, we don't like to loose brides on here :( Good luck for the future in all you do :) xx
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Sorry to hear that. Hope yous can manage to sort things out. Take care and hopefully we will see you back on here. xx
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CommentAuthorspooney24
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I had a feeling this would be what you would do Kerry and although I am sorry to hear the news I feel you have done the right thing for you and your girls. Now take some time to concentrate on yourself as you have totally been forgotten about over the last few months within your relationship and its time for YOU now.
I hope in time that things will improve so that Ross and you can be happy together in the future but he needs to do the work now in sorting himself out and showing you how he truly feels and what he is going to do to make it a strong and secure future for you all as a family.
I wish you all the best and you know where I am if you ever need a chat anytime or the day or night, I am usually never far away. xx
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CommentAuthorMrs Brakes
I read your post the other day and did think (sadly) that you were asking a question that you already knew the answer to but hoped that he might see sense. After all the cr4p you've put up with from him and his, for him to just say that is a slap in the face. He comes across a a complete 4rse. You and the kids deserve a husband and father, not another child. I'm really annoyed at him on your behalf so sorry if I offend. Some people just don't know what's good for them. I hope that you can be happy with whatever course your life takes. Big hugs x
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CommentAuthormjb87
all the best of luck for the future :0) xx
CommentAuthorMrsd
You deserve so much better hun and im proud of you for standing your ground and doing whats right for you, take care hun. x
CommentAuthorUnknown
sorry to hear this. you deserve better than that. if im honest if i said to h2b about cancelling the wedding and he replied the same as yours did i would be so upset, as it comes across that he isnt bothered either way.
good luck for he future and hope everything works out xx
CommentAuthorMrs*Maria*Louise
aww hun im so sorry to hear that and i hope you find happiness in the future best wishes and hugs xx
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CommentAuthormelvis
:( all the best for the future honey you deserve a man who loves and respects you xxx
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CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
Aww honey :( Just remember we are all here for you. you have been very supportive to me through my problems and I'm sorry i probably haven't been much help to you. how ever i do think you are making the right choice honey and as melvis said you deserve someone who respects you and loves you and one whom also trusts you! xxxxxxxxxx Lots of love sweetie all the best for the future
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CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
Oh pudding pie :-( im so sorry to hear this!
Take some time for you and your girls and make sure the 3 of you are ok, then decide where, if anywhere ross fits into it...........and make sure his blinking mother stays OUT of it!
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CommentAuthorMrs.Caz.Lewis
aw hun im so sorry,
his loss hun and we all hope you will rejoin us soon, loves and hugs xx
CommentAuthorstressed to max b2b
sorry to hear this hun, all the best for the future chick, go take some time to yourself and your girls have a lil fun have a lil u time, and if u can afford it go treat u and your girls to a lil holiday of refection and relaxation and fun times. xx i hope in time u can either reunite and live happily or find a new guy in the future and be treated with love, respect and trust u deserve al to be truely happy one day. all the best chick hugs xxx
p,s u should be so proud of your self for not lettin him treat u the way he has done xxx
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CommentAuthorKayteeG
Sorry :( Good luck in the your future x
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i hope one day you can look back and say to yourself,im a stronger person for what happened,i wish you every happiness in your future xxx
CommentAuthorSuzie Bear
Good luck hunny. U know deep down that what ur doing is the right thing. Trust is paramount. Take care hun x
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CommentAuthorAtaraxia
Oh Kerry! I had so hoped it would not come to this! I, like many others on here, hoped to see you get your happy ending and that once the troubles with you and Ross's mum were fixed, things would be better for you!
I think you're doing the right thing, and whatever happens in the future, you'll be happier! Hopefully you'll be back on here in the not too distant future (either with a much improved Ross or with the wonderful man who will surely be in your future)! Much love to you and girls, hope everything from here gets better for you and your lovely little girls! Take care! xxx
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CommentAuthorloubyscooby
Kerry sweetheart.... Like Spooney I too thought that this was the decision you would come too but making it is never easy. Take time and pleasure in the girls and anyone who can help you through this. Please don't feel stupid about Ross's thoughtless remark as it just shows that the decision you have made is the right one. Perhaps this will make him grow up when he realises that he has lost the most wonderful, thoughtful and supportive partner he could have asked for. Silly man....
Please take care of you, and I wish you every happiness in time. If you need anything don't hesitate to get in touch xx
CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
Awww, sorry to be losing you from here, hun, but tbh, I think you have made the right decision. It must have been so hard for you. I wish you peace and happiness and all the best for your future Hx
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CommentAuthorsuzky123
sorry to hear this. Think positively as best you can and Im sure things will work out soon x
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CommentAuthorjodie b
sorry to hear this good luck with everything xx
CommentAuthorlinzi
aww hun, so sorry to hear that. But my goodness do you have courage and balls! I am a huge believer that everything happens for a reason, and i truly hope that everything in life and love works out for the best for you. Best of luck xxx
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CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
you dont have to leave kerry werr all here if you ever need a chat xxx
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CommentAuthorRachie :D
Really sorry to hear this sweetie - loads of love see you on face ache xxx
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CommentAuthorGregorysGirl
That is such sad news but if he is making you unhappy then you have to do what is best for you and your little one. Awful that he let his insecurities ruin the best thing he has ever had, and I hope he realises that. I also hope that you find your smile again soon, lots of love and hope we will still hear from you. xxx
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CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
take care of urself hun sorry to hear this news xxx
CommentAuthordizzydora4
sending hugs hun take care
CommentAuthorkimmy
Stay strong!!!
CommentAuthorlil miss sunshine
so sorry to hear this hon but good luck in what ever you do in the year to come
So sorry to hear this :( good luck for the future Hun x
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
So sorry hun. Will speak to you on Fb soon. xXx
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CommentAuthorx ashlil x
sorry hunni, i hope you are happy no matter what happens, enjoy spending time with your girls x
CommentAuthorKerrylou
Thanks for all the kind words and support, means a lot to me right now :) He's got until 12 today to pull something radical out of the bag, if not then this afternoon it's time to get cancelling stuff and whack everything on ebay - got a stunning wedding dress if anyone wants ;)
I'm sure I'll bob in from time to time, I've got a load of friends getting married soon and I'm looking forward to seeing you all embark on your amazing adventures.
Love you all loads xxx
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Oh hun i am so sorry, just reading this so hoping and wondering if he did pull anything out of the bag?
No matter what happens hun, I wish you and your lil ones all the best for the future. I know how scary it is to make that step when kids are involved. xxx
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CommentAuthorKaya
Oh hun, I am sorry to hear this!! You'll be missed!!!!
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CommentAuthorshellay
So sorry to hear your news. I hope things work out for you and you manage to sort things out between you. Big hugs :( x
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