I was just wondering if you have given your H2B any areas of responsibility reagrding the organising of your wedding day, and what his areas of responsibility are?
CommentAuthorLisa Ramos
I let him choose whether he was going to wear black trousers or pinstripe
I love my lickle Ava
CommentAuthorEmzvilla04
im thinking of giving mine transport, as it should keep him and Best man busy for an afternoon once it somes round lol
CommentAuthorMrsHoward2B
Most of our organising has been done jointly really - i was paranoid about it not all being about "the bride" so hopefully he feels he has had involvement all along the way!
CommentAuthorStave
I let him choose everything but he said that he thinks I would do it better. However he is naming our tables after great Spurs players and managers.
All i have let h2b do is sort the suits out everything else has been done together accept anything thats got to do with my dress of course x
Love Steph xxx
28th May 2011
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CommentAuthorJane
He chose his own shoes. But I chose the socks LOL
CommentAuthorHonest John!
Wow Lisa are you you can trust him to make that choice now ??? HaHa!
CommentAuthorCroc
trurning up and wearing clean pants and remeber ing to get £3.50 out of the car for the certificate... and even that is muli tasking!!
"better a witty fool, than a foolish wit" shakespeare
CommentAuthorHonest John!
To Jaesin so if he is naming the tables after great spurs players, Jimmy Greaves, so what is the other table called ?? haha
CommentAuthorEmzvilla04
oh and he has been trusted now too turn up drunk! and be on time
CommentAuthorHonest John!
Clean pants, your a hard lady to please Croc
CommentAuthorCroc
i know but if he wants wedding night action then clean pants is a must haha
"better a witty fool, than a foolish wit" shakespeare
CommentAuthorsuzky123
we have planned the bulk jointly... the only things hes not been part of is the flowers (as I knew hed say ' £xxxx for flowers, no way' hence hes excluded from that one), my dress obviously and the BM dresses.
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CommentAuthorLisa Ramos
I pretended to let him choose which trousers he could have. The pinstriped ones look better on camera so I let him believe he could put his foot down.
I love my lickle Ava
CommentAuthorlisalala
I think i will allow him to be in charge of keeping his best man (his brother) away from my maid of honour! :-)
CommentAuthor~*~ Becca ~*~
he was told to just turn up and pay :D
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CommentAuthorKinkyemo
My H2B Is the one that makes the calls But not send any E-mails LOL He Pays for what I shop for! He is choosing his suit! And He is doing the inserts for the invites! (under the very critical eye of me haha)
CommentAuthorStave
HJ you almost made me crack my face mask ;-)
Whats your team colours?
CommentAuthorHonest John!
Jaesin lmao..... Black, Newcastle, Falcons Rugby
Lisa love the psychology!!
CommentAuthorFaeth
On the day? He's responsible for turning up on time :-)
Before then, I'm spoon feeding him decisions gently every now and then so he doesn't feel overloaded, poor love ;p Left in his hands to be decided still, is whether to have traditional speeches, what to wear, joint decision needed on the music, who he'd like as a witness, whether to have a first dance and what sort, and to talk to two of his close friends about maybe doing a reading and being ushers....
"Of course I'm not wedding obsessed!!"
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Kev has been very involved in our wedding which I love. We have done most things together and both decided which cake, venue, colours etc. He has sorted all the music out as he is much better at it than I am. He was supposed to book the cars and keep it a secret from me but secrets are not something he is good at and he blabbed within a week I'm having a pre 1940's Rolls. hahah.
He is also sorting out his suits and will be dropping my bridesmaid off in the morning as well as making sure everyone is where they are supposed to be. He is very well organised and I can't complain at all as he is amazing! (Hence why I am going to marry him!)
CommentAuthortwirler
Lee helped with all the emails he is more articulate than me. He said he would arrange all the man stuff and not the girly bits dresses outfits flowers etc he organised the hummer all hotels flights transfers honeymoon Gifts for his best men as we got them autographs he also had a lot of input in the evening reception back in the UK we both chose venue he chose Band came up with idea of having a welsh flag to sign instead of guest book he has video clips from celebs wishing us congrats to play he helped with the cake as it was made of cheese. So i was really lucky he helped alot xx
Officially Mrs Joseph
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CommentAuthorsam73
I wanted us to do it together but he didn't he just wanted me to arrange it all, so he choose the honeymoon which is amazing and I have done the rest.
CommentAuthorBarbieBride
We are going to do most things together - but as we are still in the stages of 'research' he is in charge of stationary and music... xx
CommentAuthornickers
we done most things together as h2b is stressed with his own business atm so im taking the strain of by doing mopst of it he is responsible for choosing his and groomsmen suits etc he is also responsible for sorting the dj out first dance etc xx
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CommentAuthorMary Blood
he has made his best decision already so i think he will quit whilst he is ahead and leave everything else up to me :)
CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
I have tried to keep him involved, we went to venues together, chose it together, he came to one flower appointment but ended up in shop to choose his outfit (that I showed him before convincing it should be that to match our theme) we will decide our first dance together, carefully selected a few myself, we chose our rings together, will meet photographer together, go see wedding cars together. final decision is joint but very influenced by me.
Soon to be Mrs Gary Doublé
Everything is now booked
Getting really stressed and excited now
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
He has picked the suits,the colours, the cake, the waistcoats,
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
CommentAuthormrssmith2b
we are still in early stages of planning our wedding, i will be choosing most things! hehe, the suits that he and the best man wear will be his choice! we do look through things together but he lets me pick the things i prefer :) x
CommentAuthorUnknown
on the actual day the only thing he has got to do it turn up!
with the planning he has let me do it all but i ask his opinion and he just says yes or no. he did choose where we are going on honeymoon and all the suits
CommentAuthorricky
Russ kinda chose his own clothes..but i was there and told him the colour scheme lol..apart from that he was responsible for turning up sober and for loving me even when I went bonkers at times. he wanted it like that....he knew he could trust me to chose tasteful things and stick to our budget..we know each other very very well. xxx
CommentAuthorUnknown
ricky...i told h2b the colour scheme and then he shoose the suit but i presuaded him to go for a darker shade with out actually telling him xx
CommentAuthorricky
hahahha brilliant..a woman after my own heart lmao xxx
CommentAuthorlizfludder2b
He has the responsibility of turning up on time x
CommentAuthorUnknown
he was going towards a light grey and it just wouldnt look right! i managed to get him to go for a charcoal xx
CommentAuthorNeilHartland
i wish my w2b would let me pick the colour bcus it would have to be blue and white with birmingham songs all day and nite
CommentAuthorsouthern
C's specific areas (by his own choice):
He designed and made the invitations, table plan, favours, place names Chose his and wedding party's suits (and I wasn't allowed to know what they were like :) ) Chose music for and made the "waiting" wedding CD Wrote his speech Negotiated the honeymoon Turned up and made me the happiest bride in the world :D
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Exactly Neil that is why she is not letting you pick hahaha.
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Oh Kev also proof reads all my stuff and spots all my mistakes on everything and is paying for it all.
CommentAuthorPennylane
eh I let him name the tables and choose the first dance!
I also let him pick the honeymoon destination but I chose the hotel.
Might let him choose which pants he wears on the day but not 100% on that yet :P
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CommentAuthorMrsd
He been helping plan all of the wedding apart from picking my dress, on the day hes got to drive me to my mums, hes keeping our 3 year old with him so hes got to get himself dressed aswell as our 3year old and keep him clean!! haha be fun and make sure my eldest son is out of bed and washed and dressed.
Then all he has to do is get to registry office on time & with money to pay for licence. xx
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
he#s chosen quite a bit my h2b but on the day all i have left for him is to turn up haha xx
soon to be Mrs Berry 26.11.2011
CommentAuthormummy2Olivia_Lisa
iv been doing everything n h2b had no say but since cancelling everything and then everything being back on (long story) h2b has taken control.....with 6 weeks to go n everything to re organise he is grumbling about me gettin stressed so wont let me sort anything............ he said to me this morning ''dont tell the bride eat ur heart out'' lol
he doesnt realise i feel more stressed knowing he's sortin it all than if i just did it myself,bless him he means well lol x
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CommentAuthorLisa Ramos
I would be nervous if Dave planned our wedding, he can't even co-ordinate his clothes by himself.
I love my lickle Ava
CommentAuthordizzydora4
he chose the venue, the honeymoon, the colour scheme,his bestman(obviously). im lucky that he wants to be so involved. x
CommentAuthorrebeccalou21
he is responsible for turning up... on time, and making sure all the ushers are there and doing their ushery things lol
CommentAuthorMrs Vineer
my h2b is responsible for paying!! x
CommentAuthorMel D
h2b has chosen suits (with help from me!), chosen DJ, we've chosen the venue, food, ceremony music, first dance, honeymoon and invites together. He made up the poem we put in the invites (95% him, 5% me), he's done quite a lot actually, left the boring bits up to me (florist etc) He wants to go to the venue in the morning and check everything is ok ... he's been quite involved, which is great for me :-)
Got married Sat 28/05/2011
Renewing vows Sat 29/05/2021
We're planning WELL in advance!!
CommentAuthorNishaVyas88
He has to turn up and not spill stuff all over his suit before the ceremonies start. lol.
Nah, he's done more than that. He planned our honeymoon, picked our First Dance song, helped me narrow down our choices for the Handfasting and Registry and picked his own outfit. He's also in charge of seating his side of the family when we put together the seating chart. His mum and dad despise each other so we have to keep them far apart, but his mum's side get on with h2b's paternal grandfather, and obviously we can't isolate anyone or bury them in a sea of pretentious Indian doctors (my dad's friends).
