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    • Pinky1985
      CommentAuthorPinky1985
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    ....you received a little note in with the invitation saying the following! Pretend you are my friend or family member! Lol!

    To our Beautiful Family & Friends

    As you are all aware we have been together for 8 years, have set up home and have two beautiful daughters! For that reason we have decided against a gift list and instead we are having a post box at our reception. We would love to receive your greeting cards, messages and only if you wish to buy us a ‘gift’ then high street vouchers would be graciously accepted.

    We hope we haven’t offended any of you as this is not our intention.

    With Love from Kristopher & Natalie

    xxx
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    • Ali
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    I think that is lovely, and you've explained why you want it like that, maybe put it from the kids as well...... x

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    • sam73
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    I think thats fine! I wouldnt be offened if it was sent me me
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    • Tinsel
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    Not at all, that's lovely.

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    • Unknown
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    i wouldnt mind recieving that in the slighest




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    • MrsC.Wade2B
      CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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    I think thats nice and a polite way to put your message across, seeing it from a "guests" point of view, i would be happy doing this because i'd rather you be able to get something you need/enjoy than to buy you stuff you already have x

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    • x ashlil x
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    me neither i think thats a lovely way of putting it x
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    • Pinky1985
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    Oh brilliant! I have been typing and re-typing and re-typing over and over! I was going to go down the route of poems but decided against it as wanted something a bit more personal! In the end I came up with that! I read it and thought oooh thats nice! Just lovely to get other peoples oppinions! I am having a lady from Bay Of E do them for me on cards! Think I may add Jessica and Avas names on the bottom too! Thanks Ali for that little tip!

    Thank you for your posts!! :D xxx
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    • Mrs-West-2B
      CommentAuthorMrs-West-2B
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    I think i sounds lovely, we are going to ask for money towards our honeymoon i think a lot of people now days ask for money or vouchers etc x

    10th September 2011 Here I Come.!!


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    • MrsC2B
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    I think that's really nicely worded.
    xx
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    • jenn
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    nice! its wat more and more people are doing these days, i dont think anyone would object!! :P
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    • Suzie Bear
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    In this day and age many people expect to be giving money and vouchers x

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    • nickers
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    not at all thats what were doing hun xx

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    Bump

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    • mcewan07
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    we want money for our honeymoon, but i just don't have what it takes to ask, so i have informed my parents, his parents and my gran that is what we would like, as most people will ask them or us, and if we are asked i don't feel bad saying. I know that some were planning on just giving us anyway, so its not that bad.
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    • kirsty91
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    I wouldn't be offended at all and it is put rly nicely x
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    • Happilymarried Mrs G
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    I think it is lovely.
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    • Kerrylou
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    That's been worded really nicely :)
    xxx

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    • Mel D
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    It's perfect - we also asked for gift vouchers. Almost every wedding I've been to recently the bride & groom have asked for vouchers for the honeymoon or a high street store. I think people are worried that otherwise they'll end up with 15 toasters!

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    • Pinky1985
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    Thats decided then! Will be getting that printed on cards! Thanks girls for you input! Much appreciated! :D xxx
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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    erm is this copyrighted or can I steal it? haha




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    • Jilly17
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    Sounds fab!
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    • sarahuttley2b-[keera
      CommentAuthorsarahuttley2b-[keera
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    spot on,its polite and clear,id have no probs if i recieved it i certainly wouldnt be offended.x

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    • Madam Butterfly
      CommentAuthorMadam Butterfly
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    It sounds great to me and I wouldn't be offended if I received that in an invite. I always think its best to get people what they want/or need rather then wasting money on things they don't need or will just shove in a cupboard. Its sensible to do something like this if you have all you need otherwise :)

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    • sbride
      CommentAuthorsbride
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    I would find that very polite and very sweet and would happily go out and buy u vouchers x

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    • pennieb-MrsRiley
      CommentAuthorpennieb-MrsRiley
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    That sounds perfectly fine to me hun x

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    we have this on our website at the moment and are thinking of printing this out and putting it into invites ....what do you think ????

    ""As you will know we have been together for a long time and do not ask you for a gift however if you would like to give us a gift of money we will be using this towards our honeymoon.
    Alternatively we will be having a small gift list (details to follow) if you wish to buy a gift as there are bits we would love to update in our home "

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    • Unknown
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    thats ncie lala. gives people an option which the older people will appreciate x




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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    thats what we thought ......my parents are in 70/80`s and we have a few guest who like to buy an actual present

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    • stressed to max b2b
      CommentAuthorstressed to max b2b
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    i think that is lovely :-) x better than mine i was just gunna put oi give me your money hahahah x (jk)

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    • Jill
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    That's perfect hun. My friend had a poem that was nice, yours is equally as lovely x

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    • Luce21
      CommentAuthorLuce21
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    Hiya,

    Thats lovely. Really personal.
    We are asking for money towards our honeymoon. We found a poem off a website and copied it.hahaha. In this day n age alot of people are set up already- us being like you have most things- we would like a holiday of a lifetime before we start trying for a baby. Coz once we have some of those- dubai and mauritis prob wont happen! lol xx
 

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