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    • linzimck2004
      CommentAuthorlinzimck2004
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    hi there, looking @ table plans and im not sure who should all b on the top table and also shld u keeo all bridesmaids together ect xx
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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
      CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Top table TRADATIONALLY:

    CBM
    FOG
    MOB
    Groom
    Bride
    FOB
    MOG
    Best Man

    In reality- whoever you want.

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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
      CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
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    i'm not having traditional i'm having myself, h2b, my parents and his parents and his son xx

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    • linzimck2004
      CommentAuthorlinzimck2004
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    iv got 3 bridesmaids , wld use sit them all together or spread tham out... also wld put the usher on the top table x
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    • suzky123
      CommentAuthorsuzky123
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    check the venue as to how many you can have on top table. We have three bm's and so had to seat one on a normal table as couldnt accomodate... turns out thats what she expectred anyways so thats lucky.

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    • Steffie
      CommentAuthorSteffie
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    I'm having:

    MOH1
    BM
    MOB
    FOG
    Bride
    Groom
    FOB
    MOG
    my Brother
    MOH2
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    • Oct12bride86
      CommentAuthorOct12bride86
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    This is going to be tricky for me. Both sets of parents are divorced.........

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    • Steffie
      CommentAuthorSteffie
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    well my partner's parents can't stand being in the same room together!!! they've been divorced for 20 years!!! That will be fun for us too!
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    • Steffie
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    But they have to realise it's one day in their child's life and should respect that and get over themselves to put it politely xxx
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    • Mrs-West-2B
      CommentAuthorMrs-West-2B
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    We are having me, h2b, bestman, moh, my parents, his mum but his dad may not even be coming let alone sit at the top table so our son is sitting in his place and our daughter will be in a high chair at the end of the table. Both our parents are divorced so we are having 2 staright side tables where they can sit with the rest of the bms, ushers and pageboys. x

    10th September 2011 Here I Come.!!


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    • linzimck2004
      CommentAuthorlinzimck2004
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    how did use decide who ur moh wld b !i dnt wanr a offend any of the girls, 2 of them iv been friend with for about 7/10 years and and my other bridesmaid only 2 years, help x
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    • Mrs-West-2B
      CommentAuthorMrs-West-2B
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    It was easy for me, iv got quite a big group of close friends but iv been best friends with my moh for 17 years, a lot longer then the rest and we've been through a lot together, all the rest atomatically asumed she would be it anyway so it was fine x

    10th September 2011 Here I Come.!!


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    • linzimck2004
      CommentAuthorlinzimck2004
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    im not sure what 2 do , how do i go about choosing x
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    • Steffie
      CommentAuthorSteffie
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    my 2 bestest friends 1 school friend and 1 post school-since college friend and my other bridesmaid is my cousin and our flower girl/young bridesmaid is Ant's goddaughter (but she's like mine too even though it's not on paper) and his godson and our other best friend's son will be too baby pageboys!!!x
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    • Mrs-West-2B
      CommentAuthorMrs-West-2B
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    Put thier names in a hat linzimck lol x

    10th September 2011 Here I Come.!!


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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    I'm going on a round table with h2b and his family then my bridesmaids and pageboys are going on the tables with their OH's and parents etc. I don't want to be center of attention and will feel more relaxed that way. Because the bridal party is scattered on the tables it will help to make the other guests feel more important too.




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    • linzimck2004
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    hahah Mrs-West-2B thats a gr8 idea xxxx
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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
      CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
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    i've got 4 bridesmaids 2 are our daughters my daughter is sitting with the older/adult bridesmaids and their children and h2b's daughter is sitting with her auntie and uncle and their children xx

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    • Mel D
      CommentAuthorMel D
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    We're having us with the bridesmaids & best man and their partners, and then all the parents are going on tabe 2 (there's seven of them)

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    • sam73
      CommentAuthorsam73
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    We are having a top table of 8 us, husbands parents sister my parents and brother
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    • CommentAuthortweedwedding
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    We're having us, my 3 BM's, his BM and Usher...no family! Too many politics involved! We're also planning on having a 'Partners' table for all the husbands/boyfriends/wives/girlfriends of the people sat on the top table!

    I think you should have whoever you want sat with you -it's your day after all!!
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    • boo
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    I have the table names picked but I don't know who's going to sit where yet. I could do the alice in wonderland layout but then I can't have my table names which I've fallen in love with. My MIL2B suggested we have us 2 and the best man and CBM at the top table. My parents divorced 20+ years ago and my dad has his longtime gf of 16 years (all 3 of them get on great though). I like the idea of the parents sitting at a table together, I do not like however all the kids at a table (as H2B suggested lol)

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    • soon 2B Mrs Sweeting
      CommentAuthorsoon 2B Mrs Sweeting
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    i am glad i saw this thread i was wanting me H2B, my oldest son (giving me away), my daughter (bridesmaid), my other 2 sons (ushers), my MIL, my FIL, bestman and maid of honour. but thats way too many. i also don't want a top table i want to mingle with other guests but not sure if this would look right ha ha
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    • Stephanie
      CommentAuthorStephanie
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    Im planning on having me, h2b, maid of honour, bestman, bridesmaid, usher (my brother) i think. Our folks are divorced so we'r going to be putting them on their own tables to host with family for the meal. Im sure it will all go out the window during the evening
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    • Jill
      CommentAuthorJill
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    I'm undecided on the top table thing. Because a top table is traditional, I was originally thinking MOH, son, MOB, FOB, me, H2B, MOG, FOG, Bmaid, Bman but MOH & BM both have young families and might like to sit with them. I like the idea of the bridal party being spread out hosting different tables too. I'm not going to overthink it though - it's only an hour and a half really where they'll be asked to sit somewhere, the rest of the time they can sit where they like! x

    29th September 2012
    Cant wait to be Mrs D!

 

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