Hi all, now my H2B has decided that he doesn't want a best man. . . after me trying very hard to convince him he has stuck to his decision, which i suppose is just that. He says he would like our 7 year old son to stand beside him and sort of take the place of a best man (he is also the ring bearer). Do you HAVE to have a best man? We are having both of our dads as wtnesses for the signing of the register. my eldest daughter (13) is my maid of honour, does anybody think that this is wrong??? We've had a lot of mixed reactions over this but surely it's OUR day and if that's what we want that should be it!!! I'm now thinking that it will be really nice and family orientated. . . I don't know. . . I'm not stressing out over it though as it's what we want, but a few opinions would be appreciated, thanks.
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CommentAuthorsbride
Your wedding hun, you do what you want to do x
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CommentAuthormillwalljayne
Aww I think both are really sweet choices - I think my other half would do exactly the same if our little boy was older :) x
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CommentAuthorkrazykitty
like others ahve said your wedding your choice if you are having you dads as witnesses then there no probs at all!! So if you want tht then you have that!!
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CommentAuthorleafy
I think it's lovely to involve the whole family in special roles for your day :-) xx
He doesnt have to have a best man, and I think your ideas are lovely, a real family affair! Just dont expect the 'best man' to organise a stag night! Might end up just having a Macdonalds Happy Meal! x
CommentAuthordee
Haha Jane, do you know what, my H2b wold be well chuffed with that. . .x
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CommentAuthorMadam Butterfly
I agree its your day so you have it your way. Its no one else's wedding but yours, they can all do exactly what they think is right on their days (if they haven't already had one). I don't think there's an age limit on anything is there? or a way of doing anything wrong? x
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CommentAuthorgreyarea
Sounds great hun
CommentAuthorRachie :D
Sounds so lovely :)
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CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
Aww i think it is very cute that yourson and daughter are going to be best man and MOH. dont worry about anyone else
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