i love my mum but she trying to get to involed and tellin me wat to do i dunno what to doo.. i try to say no i want this but i cant.. EG she wants my newphew to be paigeboy but my H2B has a son so he will be paige boy ARRRRRR HELPPPP
CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
Can you have 2 pb's? And maybe get their parents to help pay for the outfit?
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CommentAuthorCharlie
The thing is my H2B said coz im only havin one bridesmaid he only going to have his son as pagie boy and at the end of the day its down to james about the men at the weddding... Soo stressful!
CommentAuthorkrazykitty
aww hun hope you get it sorted out xx mybe explainthe situation to your mum or h2b and see if it will cuse problems and if you can fix?? Sorry that no help what-so-ever!! hugs though!!
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CommentAuthorCharlie
we explained it so many time i mean if my H2B didnt have son then we would have are my newphew but his son more importent soo i cant win! Thnx hun x
Women chose the bridesmaids men chose the groomsmen! Isnt this how it goes.
Mob and mil dont have a say do they?
I mean they can make suggestions as everyone can, but they cant expect you to just do what they tell you when it comes to this - whether they are paying or not.
just say to her its one each and this is the way its worked out.
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CommentAuthorkrazykitty
exactly you choose who you want to have xxx
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CommentAuthorKerrylou
Just to echo rhiannonollie & krazykitty, it's yours and H2B's choice. Everybody will make 'helpful' suggestions and get narky when you don't accept them. You've got 28 months and I promise you that unless you keep these decisions between yourselves then you WILL get massive interference and family wars and that time will feel like a chuffing eternity! I know you're excited and you probably want to share everything but seriously, the less people know the less stress you get. If you want help then ask for it, but if you've made a decision keep schtum. If your mum says anything else just smile sweetly and tell her you'll decide nearer the time xxx
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CommentAuthorBrissy_Bride
You could let your nephew wear the same as a paigeboy, but just don't give him an official role in the ceremony? At least then he'll feel good being all dressed up and it will look good for photos too...
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CommentAuthorlovelylainee
I agree with London Bride - it might make your mum feel less stressy about him not playing a part in the ceremony if both little boys get to wear the same outfit xxx
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CommentAuthorEmsy5000
can't you have two pageboys I didn't think there was an upper limit.
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CommentAuthorsuzky123
We have had problems with parents interfering but at the end of the day you need to make it clear early on that their suggestions will be considered but you have the final say. Otherwise you give them an inch and they will take a yard and get involved in other things too and you will never hear the end of it. It is YOUR day so the day will run as YOU want it too and YOU choose who the main brial party will be and the groomsmen between you, not the parents. Parents will obviously want to get involved but maybe give them a different special job they can concentrate on so they feel as though they are still contributing.
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