I'm not sure if I've picked the right category..... so sorry Hails if not I promise all your hard work is not in vain!! I've been talking to H2b today about his ushers he currently has two and a best man but he's now decided he wants another one which isn't a problem, he's decided he was our very good mutual friend Jeni, who is about as much of a bloke as she can be without actually being one. I think it's a fab idea and she'll be over the moon..... but I'm concerned about the suits. Do you think she'd be ok it tails like the other blokes? She has a very boyish figure and normally wears blokes clothes too.
Let me know your thoughts
C xx
Bridezilla.... Me?? I have no idea what your talking about!!
We met 30/01/2005 (H2B's Bday)
Got Engaged 23/07/2010 (My Bday)
Getting Married 08/06/2012 (can't wait to be Mrs Hinch)
CommentAuthorJilly17
I think it is a great idea as long as she is happy in the suit...you can always ask and see how she feels. A very dear friend of mine is a guy and is demanding to be MOH....I have said as long as he wears a peach merengue he can be what he likes! ha
CommentAuthorpanther_87k
if she is happy to wear a suit i cant see a problem with it, it may not be "traditional" but weddings dont have to be anymore.
CommentAuthorMrsMac2B
I was having my 'ex best friend' as my MOH but obviously he wont be now seen as hes my ex best friend haha
But I think thats a great idea :) as long as shes happy x
CommentAuthor'ca'ca'ca
cannot see a problem at all as long as all directly involved [you, h2b, her] are happy. anybody else has a problem, its their problem, NOT YOURS. If you three are happy thats whats important. Have a fantstic day, good luck, and hope all is well. Love&Light <3 x
go for it, if she wants a suit let her have suit :)
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CommentAuthorBeskiboo
Give her the option as long as it fits on with your colour scheme it should be ok.
CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
Only just seen this hehehe no worries hunni
As for the female usher, sure why not? She's special to you so you want her in your wedding, if thats as an usher personally i think it will make your wedding that lil bit more personal and unique to you! Go for it. As to what to wear discuss it with her babe
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there is no reason why not it is your day
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CommentAuthorlovelylainee
My friends wedding July 2010 - she invited her two friends. One was a bridesmaid and the other was a female usher (they are a lesbian couple) and it worked really well because they were friends with both the bride and groom and both got to be a part of the ceremony and wedding - lovely!
Besides if it is what you want and she is happy to be part of the wedding as your usher go with it! Best of luck xxx
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CommentAuthorButton-Bell
my H2B's best friends are mostly girls so were having 3 girl ushers all in suits :) xx
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
Go for it. If you both want her in the wedding then go ahead
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CommentAuthorMrs Hinch2B
Thanks girlies, Steve asked her today and she's over the moon! YAY xx
Bridezilla.... Me?? I have no idea what your talking about!!
We met 30/01/2005 (H2B's Bday)
Got Engaged 23/07/2010 (My Bday)
Getting Married 08/06/2012 (can't wait to be Mrs Hinch)
Only just seen this hehehe no worries hunni 
