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Wedding related rants: Would you be annoyed if..

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- CommentAuthorlinzipple
Just wanted to know how others would feel about this...

Would you be annoyed if one of your friends kept copying your ideas for their wedding - and they were getting married before you?

First it was little things like decorations etc, but now it's my colour scheme too. I know in a way I should be a little flattered, but it's starting to get on my nerves now. I've even mentioned it jokingly (many a true word said in jest) and she just acts dumb. Just weird how she notices things that I'm doing and the following week she's magically doing them too!
- CommentAuthormillz090
I would be annoied yes but also sligtly flattered she likes my ideas but I wouldnt tell her anything.... i am keeping my wedding plans between me, my H2B and my mum - i dont want anyone else knowing or being able to predict our day !

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- CommentAuthorlisa123
yes i would be annoyed too. the way i see it is that you have your day how you want it and we work so hard to plan everything and then feel like someone is trying to steal our thunder! i would suggest not letting her into anymore of your plans and try to keep it hush hush.

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- CommentAuthorValerieM74
Yes, i would be annoyed. I know its meant to be flattering but esp wen she's getting married before you i would see it as ppl will think you copied her. Probs best to keep the rest of ur plans underwraps, its ur wedding so she can come up with her own ideas for hers. Either that just change somethings of urs that she's already done like adding in another colour etc xxx
- CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
Yes I would be annoyed and I have been! My best friend is getting married April next year and has just booked the venue that she knew I wanted and loved! It was an old converted barn and she was originally wanting a manor house, so I told her about where I liked and now she has booked it! I am not happy and will not be telling her anything else now until hers is over and done with. Seems like the only way to make sure it doesn't happen I am afraid. Or if your friend asks about anything else tell her something that you dont actually want, that way she will think she is copying you but you never actually wanted them in the first place! xxxx

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- CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
tell her you have changed you mind on things and have new ideas ........... let her copy those !!!!

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- CommentAuthormrs_houghton_2012
I had this with my friend before we sat down and spoke about things and decided to make planning our wedding (that are within 10 weeks of each other) fun. Ive got to admit though, some of my really good ideas ive kept to myself as im sure she has too. Cant help a bit of bridal rivalry lol xx

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- CommentAuthorEcoFreak
Haha ditto Lalas idea! :)
If she were after me then I'd be ok with it, but with her wedding first I'd definitely be annoyed... Does she have no ideas of her own?? Xx
- CommentAuthorRachie :D
I have hhad it and Ive stopped seeing her in all honesty for more reasons then that but it was the icing on the cake

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- CommentAuthorHappilymarried Mrs G
I think i would also be prone to giving out a few "false" details lol
Yes it would annoy me though :(
- CommentAuthorlinzipple
Haha.. I did slip in a few false details. Thought it was a bit mean but she'd annoyed me.

I'm certainly keeping my mouth shut from now on. You think you're just having a friendly conversation, both excited about our weddings... but then she's plotting to nick all my ideas.

And to top it all off, I don't think she's inviting me to hers anymore! LOL
- CommentAuthorJill
Oooh I'd be fuming! Especially with her wedding being first, how rude! I've not had that problem with the wedding but when I was pregnant my friend was due 2 months before me. I'd told her the only name h2b and I could decide on was Liam, she told me her names (cant remember the boys name now)... ANYWAY... we were sat having lunch in a restaurant not long after, she bumped into a friend who was asking about the pregnancy etc, asked about her name for a girl, then name for a boy to which she replied LIAM! Furious! I asked what she meant when she knew that was the name we'd picked and her reply was that I could call my baby Liam too... honestly?? Thankfully she had a girl (beautiful girl who's my flowergirl) but it was a stressful time waiting to find out what she was having! x

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- CommentAuthorJillybean
I'd be the same as jill...livid! Defo listen to blondmumma and maybe mention a few things that your not actually doing or mention stuff you know there is no way in hell she'd be able to do it like a circus act with lions and trapeezes plus a talking chimp as your Master of Ceremonies lol

I suppose you could be as vindictive as poss if shes really hacked you off otherwise just dont tell her anything at all which is so hard coz theres always that someone you just want to tell every last detail to!

Hope you sort it chick x

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- CommentAuthorkimmy
It would annoy me too i would keep things close to your chest, apart from ideas you don't really like!! ;)
- CommentAuthormym72
I would definitely give her false information - then watch her copy that (and fall flat on her face when it looks a mess lol). In fact, I'd tell her that you were having a wedding abroad so that she could copy that and bug**r off away for her wedding lol.
- CommentAuthorHa_x3
Omg that would make me mad

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- CommentAuthorBex89
Wow that would really annoy me! No-one knows anything about what me and h2b want yet - even though we both have almost everything sorted in our heads lol... There is only 1 friend I will tell some small things, and she is still single so I'm clear there! lol

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- CommentAuthorFuture Brookes :)
Yeah I would be really annoyed. I dont know anyone else who is even close to be getting married out of my friends so I know that if I tell them something it wouldnt matter. I'm trying to keep most things between my H2B and clase family cus I want people to have a surprise. Im not even telling anyone the colour scheme! Only the bridesmaids and my mom :) x
- CommentAuthorlinzipple
I think she's doing it mainly because she doesn't know what she wants. Doesn't make it any less annoying though!

Jillybean - Just for a laugh, I'm going to tell her we've booked a talking chimp. That's hilarious!!! hehehe.

At the end of the day, I suppose it's going to be her that winds up disappointed... because she's going to end up with a day that's technically not her own because none of the ideas have been hers!
- CommentAuthorMrsKisywisy
i'd be angry!!! i'd stop telling her anything about the wedding at all!! it's going to look like your wedding was copied froms hers all because she has no imagination!!!!

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- CommentAuthorhugsmore84
If I were you, I would be very annoyed too. I would think of the another colour scheme/theme. Sound really excited about it and hope she bites. That way you get to keep your ideas and also get a little satisfaction that she had to nick your ideas and has something different to your big day. I would go with the opposite of what you have so far. Don't whatever you do show her your dress, I have a feeling she would have that too. I hope this is helpful

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- CommentAuthorMrs S
^^^ i would do the same hugsmore! tell her the exact opposit.. ha ha that will teach her x x
- CommentAuthorJanie
I agree with the ladies who are saying tell her youre doing things different to what you are.
Then she'll look a bit of a fool wont she if she changes it all again to "copy" your "not-really" ideas and colours!!!

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- CommentAuthorbrilly
i would be well peeeeeed off if it was me i just wouldnt tell her anything more and fill her with loads of made up ideas instead hun tell her ur thinking of a flame thrower or something aswell loads of really expensive things let her waste her money on ur ideas then xxx

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Cant wait to do it all over again in 2018
- CommentAuthorMrs Davro
Brilly I love the flame thrower idea. How gullible is she? Tarts and vicars themed wedding?
- CommentAuthorsussie
i want a tarts and vicar themed wedding, that actually sounds quite wicked. sorry off the point.

i have a friend like that, but fed her false details, only downside is they have changed their date to after me, so it was all in vain.
- CommentAuthorJanie
tel her youre having a fancy dress reception and see if she turns up in fancy dress

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BUT to one person you may just be THE WORLD x x x
- CommentAuthorLeanneW15
i know i might be a bit sad but if it was bad, and she wasn't coming up with anything on her own.. it would really do my head in... so i'd just stop discussing my ideas with her because you want your day to be unique obviously some things are unavoidable and someone in the world is going to do things the same as you but it doesnt have to be someone you knwo does it haha.. x

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