to pay for their own hotel rooms? am thinking of going to birmingham, and booking a premier inn, and for 8 people its £440, i'm looking at about 20 people coming so would only need 10 rooms, do you think they would be willing to do it if i give them enough notice?

You might be able to get 4 in a room if its a family style room with a big bed and a fold out double bed sofa thingy! Just a thought... and yes, they should be paying!

How do they know? Do they do a room check?

how much would it be per person if that was the case that we go to a premier inn x

they have a offer on atm where if you book for 2 nights its £23 PN PP so it would be £46 but not sure if the offer will still on be next year, am looking at diff hotels and going to see what i can get xxx

ahhh cool..you can let me know what you find cause ill need to work out how much it will be for me altogether xx

yeah i am looking into that aswell dove,

yeah looking at the travel lodge & its £37 each for 2 nights (and thats 3 to a room)

i would pay for my accomadation if someone asked me to i wouldnt expect the bride to pay xx

not cheeky at all ! :@)

Nope not cheeky I've never been on a hen where the hen has paid for my hotel room... obviously hanging out with the wrong crowd lol! x

where i want mine does the theme night over night stay and breakfast for about 50 each based on 2 sharing a room and i think its pretty normal for ppl to pay for there own rooms hunnie dont worry xx

I always thought the hen went for free? lol, might have to start saving up if thats the case. i just assumed everyone paid the same amount in to cover the hens cost? xx

Everyone going to mine is paying for their own room too and my 4 bridesmaids are paying for mine x

i have stayed at the travelodge at the mayploe birmingham travellodge very comfy. stayed at some other places too ill put them on your wall as they are apartments and sometimes work out cheaper as there more of youxx

thats normal hun x

I would say it was pretty normal for people to pay for their own hotel rooms. whenever i have been to one we always have and ive never thought anything of it.

doesnt always work that way thuogh jen lol my first hen night ..i was payin for all my drinks and i only got 1 bought for me which i thought was a bit rubbish.dont get me wrong wouldnt expect that all night but would have been nice to have been offered!

but my 2nd hen do my mum organised cocktail lessons and paid for mine..then everyone put in a kitty which included i for me so didnt pay fr a drink all night lol

just as long as it not too extortionate price cause likes of me im travlling down from aberdeen so already goin to cost a bundle in travelling expenses lol

not cheeky, i have just been on a friends where you pay for yourself, she priced up the cost of activities, outfits, meal and hotel rooms and we paid it! i think it was £130-60

i dont think its cheeky at all.
the only thing im paying for for the hen do is my own ticket kinda thing!
whoever wants to come has a year to save up for it lol
xx

its a normal thing. Just give them enough notice so they can save the money.

I 've never had a room payed for me on a hen night! I wouldnt expect it! x

i went on a hen weekend to ireland and we all paid for our own flights and hotel rooms in fact we paid for the brides room between us too

when we told our family and friends where we were having our reception, they just asked for the number so they could ring to arrange their own accomodation. ive only arranged ours, my parents and my brother and his wife as they live in germany. xx