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General wedding discussion!: Worried i'm not worried!

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- CommentAuthorGem
Ok im not sure if this will make sense and hope it doesnt take offence...

Im worried that im not worried enough about my wedding! I get the feeling that a lot of ladies here are stressing about organising there big day. Some one said to me the other day (on asking about my wedding planning) that i was the first person she knows that IS enjoying planning her wedding and isn't stressed! I was a bit taken back by this because i think you should love planning one of the biggests days of your life. I get butterflies everytime i do or think about something related to my wedding and im SOOOO excited but im not worrying! Am i normal!!!

x x
- CommentAuthorMel D
I'm a bit the same, it all seems to be going so smoothly, no hiccups or stress ... I'm concerned it's all going to pile on me in last month!

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- CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
I'm not worried about any of the little details or things going wrong as such as they don't really bother me but I have been having bad dreams about losing the h2b. I guess this is the first time in my life I have been truly happy and I'm scared something will go wrong now. I've enjoyed all my planning but then we have done so much of it in advance we only have little things to do now so it has been enjoyable. I can't remember a time when I have thought OMG or what the hell and I going to do. I think its just how people cope in different situations to how they cope with wedding planning.
- CommentAuthormcquire81
I wouldnt worry about it, your supposed to enjoy it :-) Everyone deals with things differently and your in a fortunate position that you can handle any problems and take things as they come.... I wish i was a bit more like that actually! x
- CommentAuthormartay (marie)
i am exactly the same. keep sitting and thinking 'why am i not stressed'??? i, like jo did quite a bit when first got engaged and at the moment im doing all fiddly jobs like buying envelopes, printing maps and notes for invites. ive just got to speak URGENTLY to florist about my order - note to self; get finger out!!!!

all ive got to give to you are these 5 words tonight
Thank you for loving me, for being my eyes when i couldnt
see. for parting my lips when i couldnt breathe
thank you for loving me xxx

- CommentAuthorstressed to max b2b
gem not everyone stresses, it depends on the circumstances and the ppl around them and the desicions thye try to make if u know exactly what u want no questions asked and all your family and friends dont give u any hassle then it can run smoothly. But not everyone is that lucky, some of us have crap family and friends around us that give us hassle and we cant make our minds up on things so that makes us stress x

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- CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Hahaha are you sure about that? You name is stressed to the max hahahahaha
- CommentAuthorlaurabrown83
U r normal Gem! I am not stressing one little bit about the wedding and am thoroughly enjoying palnning it, so much so in fact im quitting my job (which does cause me heaps of stress!!) to start a wedding planning business lol!! I think the main reason most brides get stressed is usually down to family issues and other people causing problems for them, which luckily i havnt had any of! x
- CommentAuthorMadam Butterfly
I think you should try and enjoy it, I'm not feeling stressed at all at the moment. See what I feel like nearer the time! I think as long as you get everything done bit by bit and at a sensible distance away from the big day then just let everything fall in place on the day.
Don't try and be stressed just because its what others think you should be..you have your own feelings so feel those x

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Oh Baby
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- CommentAuthormummy2Olivia_Lisa
hehe i get the butterflys to...... ive absolutely loved the planning!!!! its been brill :D

i think every1 deals with everything differently...... enjoy ur stress free planning ur 1 of the lucky 1s who hasnt gone over to the dark side...... the force is strong in u...lmao x x x soz h2bs watchin star wars!!! hehe x

6 n a half weeks scan!!!!!! x x x
- CommentAuthoralanafx
im not stressing either have so much done already and enjoying every min of it so far ! Everyone said when we first set the date we werent giving ourselves enough time and would be really stressed but so far so good, fingers crossed it lasts lol xx

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- CommentAuthormummy2Olivia_Lisa
lol weve only been planning n had the wedding booked 5 weeks ago...... we get married in 11 weeks now thats what u call leavin yaself no time lol x

6 n a half weeks scan!!!!!! x x x
- CommentAuthorMadam Butterfly
wow thats almost a don't tell the bride 3 week situation! x

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The Sweetest Song That I Could Sing
Oh Baby
16th June 2012 x
- CommentAuthorJulie Walker x
When are you getting married Gem? I have days where something will go wrong (like reception venue being silly) and I will hit panick mode but other than that I guess im kind of chilled. x

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- CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
I was stressed up until yesterday, when i decided (Eventually last night after i spent 3 hours crying!) to stop getting upset about the fact we've had to postpone and i now have ages to decide on things, sort things out and more time to save up. So am currently working my bottom off to take my mind of off things, and next time when planning i'm going to make it my first priority not to get stressed
- CommentAuthorrebeccalou21
im the same! i am LOVING the planning, i think because iv booked and organised a lot of things so far ahead that nothing has come up to stress me out yet and im sure nearer the big day ill be nervous, but i can honestly say i love it all
- CommentAuthorx ashlil x
im the same, im not worrying at the moment, im enjoying it. although that may change when i have 2 months left and lots to do lol
- CommentAuthorxox-Zoeee
im not worrying, i loveee it, spend hours lookin at wedding things, h2b is enjoyin it to =) and my cousin is like my personal planner for if i ever do get stressed =) your totally normal xx
- CommentAuthorUnknown
  
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you should enjoy the planning and not stress! overall i havnt been too stressed. the only things that have stressed me out is the honeymoon which in the end h2b saif forget about it he will sort everything out as i was getting so wound up and the wedding invites! now that they are done i havent worried at all! i still have just over 4 half months and everything important is done!

the only things we need to do is by thank you presents, fg shoes and hair piece and that is it! xx
- CommentAuthorGem
thanks ladies, i have loved reading these messages!!! I only started plannging my wedding in November 2010 and am getting married this July and i havnt even booked a DJ yet!! note to self....must do that this week! I think thats all i need to do now, then its all the little things and finer details.
Am glad there are ladies enjoying planning there big day and taking every day as it comes. After all it is your day and you have it how you want!! i too spend hours browsing websites and magazines getting ideas but at the end of the day my H2B and I will make the day ours, and a day to remember.
I wont know what to do with my time after im married!!!!..... oh yes plan the honeymoon!
x x
- CommentAuthorsuzky123
i wasnt worrying but I am now im trying to see the big picture and second guessing myself.

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