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    • b2bnicola
      CommentAuthorb2bnicola
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    Im now extremely worried im going to cry when I get married.
    Just been watching Dont tell the Bride and i totally sobbed, like UNBELIEVABLY sobbed when they were saying the vows!
    Esp wen the groom cried - im not sure if my h2b is going to cry like, but my god if he does
    I think im going to be weeping!!!!!

    :S

    Anyone else worried about this?

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    • Stevie_Dee
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    Yes but even more worried about fainting! Tuck a tissue down your bra, just in case! lol xxx

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    • b2bnicola
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    Lol wont people think ive padded out my bra part of my dress??? haha x

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    • Kimi
      CommentAuthorKimi
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    Nah, I'm more bothered about grinning inanely.

    Tbh worry that i'll look stupid in my wedding photos for some strange reason and that i'll mishear or fail to hear the vows (have a hearing problem so that's possible) and end up stuttering away. But hey-ho!

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    • b2bnicola
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    My friends brother got married last weekend and his bride no matter how hard she tried she cudnt say her name
    Her vows took ages to say cos she HAD to say her name lol x

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    hun dont worry about crying,no ones going to mind,i expect they will join in with you,im still in shock i didnt cry,everybody said i would but in the end i saw him there waiting for me just smiling away and that was it.dont worry about things like this,or youl end up worrying all the time
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    My husband cried all the way through the rehearsal - tears just ran down his face. We were both ok on the day.
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    • Soon2beMrsHall
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    i watched it and cried h2b looked at me like i was mad.
    I am going to cry anything like makes me cry. H2b better cry otherwise i will poke him in the eyes if he dont( not really) but had better as he cried at his bro wedding

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    • Stevie_Dee
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    Thats a thought see how you go through your rehearsal and if you start feeling teary...start padding out that bra! xxx

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    lol dee,i had tissues galore stuffed down my bra but didnt use them lol
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    • Rags
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    Bach flower remedy. It's meant to work wonders. Get some now and see how you go with it, I think that chemist with the footwear name sells it, it was recomended to me by NHS reki lady, but read the label and if in doubt speak with your GP. Over the counter stuff although more natural can be harmful too.

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    • b2bnicola
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    i wont be having a rehearsal i dont think lol - paddin it is :)

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    • Rags
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    Try some of that stuff it's only a drop for your tongue

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    • Possum
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    I'm worried about crying or throwing up with nerves hehehe!
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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    Both me and my h2b sobbed when we went to view the church so I can safely say on the day we are both going to have a few tears but its all good. It is what makes the day. Would you really want to marry a guy and have no emotion? Its what the day is all about and your guests will think more of you for doing it x




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    • nickers
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    yes i am i no if i cry h2b will to lol xx

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    aww nic im the same hun :) xx

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    • shelby
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    Im worried that when we need to repeat what the registrar says i will forget it lol. H2b also things that he may cry. xx

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    • steffi
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    I managed to keep myself calm, untill we were outside n ringos nana gave me a cuddle n told me to look after him n how much he reminded her of her late husband (ringos grandad) .. Partly cos it reminded me that none of my grandparents were there esp my grandad, n also cos i was holdin it all in throughout the ceremony it all just came out... Took a good 20 mins for me to compose myself lol x
    Oh n the speeches started me off again lol x
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    • Mrs L 2b :)
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    Thats so weird I was watching DTTB last night and watching them both cry I was thinking the exact say thing! What if I'm crying so much I can't speak! x
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    • b2bnicola
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    Ahhh well at least if i cry ill know im not the only bride!

    Might to have to have me make up artist on stand by lol x

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    • mrsCoopertobe
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    lol not just me then ...
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    • felicity.h
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    my partners not an emotional person (showing it anyway) so if he cries it would probably make my day. i dont mean it so horribly but when he does show emotion like that its just lovely makes it really special (even though he could do it a little more often hehe) ill probably start blubbering waiting to walk down the isle, im not very good at holding tears back since i had my children :) atleast we all know there going to be nervous but also happy tears that the day is finally here
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    • Mrs Steer
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    I think i probably will, but am trying to worry about it right this min but it prob will happen and h2b is quite emotional too so im sure he will too xx

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    • dodge
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    i am so soft i will cry as i make entrance ay vows leve the registry office or hotel to get pics taken as venue not fully decided yet
    i will cry through speeches and especially when i say mine
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    • b2bnicola
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    im not sure of what the speeches at mine r gonna be like!
    his best man is extremely shy so his will be short n sweet
    my dads will probablies be rather emotional and im not sure about h2b.... thinking he might go down the funny route as hes quite comical - but really duno!
    worried his mum might talk like lol we've asked her not to but i keep imagining her saying sumthing like "as u all know me n nic dont get on blabla bla" think id cry then! with tears of rage lol x

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    • Mrs Steer
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    oh nic i hope she doesnt! That would be so unfair! xx

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    • b2bnicola
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    haha my mum sed that if she does she'd get up afterwards and say "and as u know shes a cow and shes just proved it! cheers!"
    lmao!
    x

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    • shellay
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    i will be crying and so will h2b x

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    • Joolsy
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    I was crying walking down the aisle calmed down when I was stood next to H2B though it was just when everyone turned around to watch me coming in I just burst into tears lol!! My Hubby was fine the whole day it was his Best Man who was crying all day he was worse than any of us lol xx

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    • Mrs Brakes
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    I have a medical thing where if I get scared or excited my body doesn't dish out the amount of adrenalin I need, it sort of panics and goes ' here have loads'. This means that I shake. I did this at my mates wedding where I was MOH and had trouble signing the register. This is part of the reason that I don't want too many people at the wedding, it's a bit embarrassing!

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    • linzi
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    I'm worried about not being able to say vows cause of crying. My H2B will defo be crying too cause he is a big softy. Am worried about getting a high pitched squeaky "trying not to sound like I'm not crying" voice or snorting or something!

    also worried about being drunk when I walk up the aisle! my and my girls and mum are having a champagne breakfast. And if my sisters wedding is anything to go by, we got through 3 bottles before we got to the church! (there was only 4 of us...hic)

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    • Suzie Bear
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    I can honestly say we'll cry! We're both emotional and both cried at DTTB last night. I also thing we'll both get the giggles cos sometimes we have a look and we'll giggle away! lol x

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    • Jenny1966
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    I started crying just as I was about to walk in the registry office, the very nice registrar let me compose myself before continuing, though the first pic of me finally walking in looks like a rabbit caught in headlights with a very red face lol I also cried just after signing the register lol I had to convince my hubbie it wasnt because I thought I'd made a huge mistake bless him lol
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    • Steffie
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    me and h2b just watched last night's dont tell the bride and i almost cried!!! i felt the tears welling up in my eyes so im sure i'm going to cry!!!! xxx and i'm going to shake so badly not cuz im nervous but cuz ill be overwhelmed!!!!!
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    • MrsMills2b
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    I'm pretty darn sure I'll be sobbing my heart out, but then I know that h2b, mum, and mil2b will also all be in tears so not too worried!!! much more worried about fainting, but being october it hopefully shouldn't be too hot!!! fingers crossed!! x
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    • Kerrylou
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    I know there's one point where I'll definitely be in tears - I have something I want to say to Ross before we take our vows, showed it to the Reverend and even his eyes were welling up!! I've been reading this piece over and over and every time I start I cry and have to stop.
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    • Emsy5000
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    I am so going to cry but then h2b will understand just go with the flow

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    • linzi
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    yep, tinted eyelashes and falsies for me all the way!! no mascara day for sure

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    • CowChop
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    I know I will cry, which I really dont want to do cos I hate people seeing me cry!

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    • cuddlez80
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    im more worried about falling over again lol my 1st wedding i fell down stairs eeekkk i dont cry easy unless its animals lol plus my h2b said u not gonna cry are you so i said no gotta show him whos boss early on lol
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    • MrsAndrew2B
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    im worried i'll laugh because thats what i seem to do when i get nervous. i did it when i went for my driving test and all the other people who were waiting were looking at me like i was mad! i was even giggling when i went to H2Bs grandads funeral 2 years ago (i know its really bad!) it would be really embarrassing if i couldnt get my words out through my giggling fits! x
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    • CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
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    yeah im either going 2 sob my heart out or laugh at the most silliest of times xx
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    • xx Mrs Hamblin xx
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    so nervous now omg i hope i dont cry loll i probs will tho oh well hehe xx
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    • Suzi
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    My son cried uncontrollably ALL DAY, me on the other hand only shed a single tear when my dad read my my son's speech, other than that I was fine all day :o) You will be OK hun x x

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    Trust me, the bride crying is a wonderful part of the day, the groom crying even more so.

    Seriously, if you're gonna cry - then cry - everyone knows they are tears of joy & love.



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    P.S. Wear cryproof make-up and you can always touch up afterwards.
 

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