Need your advice on this one! About a year ago, my boss at work(can be a pain at times!) asked if I was inviting work people to the wedding. I said that we were probs keeping wedding separate from work and it was unlikely. However she asked me a few more times since then in kind of a jokey way but not... If you see what I mean? Eventually I caved and said yes, she can come to the eve. THEN other girls from work were like 'oh are work people coming?' and I felt completely backed into a corner.

So... I have got invites for all the work girls except for the new director who joined about 2months ago. If I'm honest I don't like her but she will be the only work person not invited. Shall I just bite the bullet and invite her as it looks so bad on me to only leave one person off the eve list, or should Ieave it so that she doesn't get one in a 'it's my wedding, I'll have who I want' kind of way?

I would bite your tounge and invite her hun, you may look like a bit of a b***c if you leave one person out

Yeah i dont think you can invite the whole team bar one person as slightly unfair.... how would you feel if it was the other way round? Also if they are only going to the evening do then wont cost you too much and they will probably bring a pressie lol xx

I completely agree Clive, I would never just expect to be invited to someones wedding..
Tbh if i was marrying in the uk i wouldnt invite any of my work colleagues, i dont see them as friends what so ever (i only work with them on weekends) But i would never leave one person out, i think its cruel xxx

I feel your pain hun, in my last job a new director started who was a complete cow. I wondered how I'd get round it, esp when it's a person who's in a position of authority at your work. She left thankfully but I think it would be very obvious if you dont invite her, maybe she wouldnt take you up on it anyway? x

Good way of putting it hun, well done H2B

Sounds like a much better idea than inviting someone you dont really like

i hate my OH's colleague and she also HATES her but he is having to invite her as he has invited everyone else. to be honest she will probably decline but i think you have to invite her to save face at work.

I have invited all the girls from work and their partners, there are only 7 of them and we all get on so well. But I have not invited the manager, as he is very rarely there so didn't see the point! X

I work in a team of 50 and strangely there is no one I dislike. The last two "work weddings" where done on an open invite for the evening do in the staff room (only have to make one invite. Hurrah!). I think 10 went to one and about 20 to the other (and they where both two members of staff marrying each other!). I'm hoping that not everyone will come but as I get on with everyone I feel bad not doing an open invite. There will be room for them but I'm not going to count everyone for the buffet, it's getting far to expensive as it is!

i think u should invite her hun ya never know it could be the ice breaker between u's aswell and u may see her in a different light to what shes already shown so far xx