Last year my mother moved to america it was a big shock for all of us even more so for my dad im tryin to be strong but its not easy she should be here helping me to plan my wedding and do all the things a mother of the bride should do and I dont even think she will come to our wedding what should I do I need answers ?????
CommentAuthorVintageChic
Without trying to be harsh i think there's only one person who can give you the answers hun... your mum xXx
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CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
firstly welcome to ukbride and congratulations on your wedding
now the matter at hand,i honestly think the only thing you can do is talk to your mother and ask her what her intentions are,sooner rather then later,for everyones sakes
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
ask her if you have not asked her how do you know she is not coming
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
Just ask her what she plans to do. She can still help you even living in america.
CommentAuthorJane
If you read some of our stories on this forum hun you will see that even if mums live just around the corner it doesnt necessarily mean that they will be involved, or come to the wedding for that matter! Its not a case of distance, its more to do with the relationship you have with your mum. x
CommentAuthorMrs Findlay 2 b
I have a good relationship with my mum its just that i sent her an email 2 weeks ago saying she can phone and im still waiting for the phone to ring.
CommentAuthorNHR115
Hi hun, welcome and many congratulations. Is it just recently that she hasn't contacted you or has it been this way since she moved? As the other girls have already said you need to speak with her. Send her another email explaining how you feel, there may be other reasons she's not phoned yet. xxx
CommentAuthorGriff
You need to talk to your Mum hun as only she can really answer your questions but I think you'll find she wan to be involved as much as you want her to be xxxx
