dont know why he has asked me this... and to be honest i really dont know how to answer it. he has asked why am i marrying him. we have been together for 5 years and have had only 2 disagreements in this time, he makes me smile just by walking in a room he makes me smile just by looking at him,i still get butterflies when i know he is on his way home cos im excited about seeing him... i worship him with every breath i take and i thought he knew this...why would he ask?
CommentAuthorstarlighthunny
Have you told him all of this?
sometimes men need reasurrance too xx
Years from now, I'll want you years from now, and I'll hold
you years from now as I love you tonight! xx
CommentAuthorWifey2be
Guys are weird beings haha! If my hubby to be asked me I would just say because I love you and can't imagine waking up not next to my hubby to be every day!! X x
CommentAuthordolphin
its probably just his nerves, he needs reasuring maybe. just tell him exactly what you told us and im sure he will be fine. xx
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
lol....yeah that would be my answer too Kimmy! lol x
Years from now, I'll want you years from now, and I'll hold
you years from now as I love you tonight! xx
CommentAuthormrs-anni-oc
i told him all this plus a bit more but didnt want to make you lot blush so left it out lol i write him lots of poems and letters all the time to tell him how much i love him he always calls me his soft sod cos im forever buying him teddies and things. hope he aint getting cold feet.
CommentAuthorMrs.K.Ward
Guys are just like us girls to, I wouldnt say its cold feet...like everyone else says it will just be reassurance. Dont think about it too much chick it will drive you mental if you over think it.
CommentAuthormrs-anni-oc
thanks all x got enough to do planning a wedding x
CommentAuthorKelly
like its been said already men are a werid force.. and they like us need to know they are loved.. just tell him you love him thats prob all hes looking for.. give him a big kiss.. xx
CommentAuthorkrisw86
men are so much more insecure than they let on. he probably feels that u r too good for him. just reassure him. i have had this question asked before so its not really something that would freak me out. xxx
CommentAuthorMrsowen2b
he is nervous, he wants to make sure you love him like he loves you before he gives his whole life to you. i sometimes ask my h2b why he loves me when im feeling low and believe it or not men actually get like this as well, my h2b is the worst for it when he has had a bad day and he thinks im being "different" he asks do you still love me. just reassure him you do love him more than he knows.
xx
CommentAuthorkerriface
Awww bless him, he just needs to know that you feel the same way he does! Think about it, we have to remind men about everything! Also, girls like being told lovely things by guys, but we often forget that guys like it too!xx
CommentAuthorShirleygirly
My h2b found a list of pro's and cons in my wedding planning book, it was the last place I'd expect him to look because he says it's all boring. He was really chuffed about it because he knew it was something I never planned him to see and with lots of pro points the 3 cons were the noise he makes when he poos, his stupid black ops obsession and the fact he mocks me for my lisp. He did however say he will not be changing because everyone needs flaws. Cheeky monkey!x
I can't wait until 29/06/2013
The day I marry the man of my dreams!
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
mAYBE HE THINKS THAT YOU ARE TOO GOOD FOR HIM and doesnt have the self confidence to see in himself what you see in him .
maybe he wanted a reason why you want to marry him rather than an I love you?
Sometimes men are a lot more practical than when it comes to thinking about things, perhaps he feels like he's not the "whole package" and wanted some assurances about why you see him as husband material?
CommentAuthorNavyBaby
My OH said to me the other day 'Tell me why you love me. Come on flatter me' I thought it was a really strange egotistical thing to ask but I told him exactly what I love about it, how he makes me feel etc and a few days after he thanked me. He'd been feeling really down in the dumps (hes in the military and we wont be seeing each other for around 5 weeks) and just needed a bit of a confidence boost.
I suppose men have 'those' days as well.xx
CommentAuthorEcoFreak
I agree - particularly if you do all those nice things like write poems etc he probably thinks the world of you & doesn't think he measures up :) It's quite sweet really!
Much better than him saying the opposite - "why am I marrying you?" LOL Xx
CommentAuthormrs-anni-oc
spoke to him last night and as always women were right lol. he does know i worship him and it was more of why was i marrying him when he doesnt do all that for me... i told i dont want all that cos i know from the way he smiles when he walks in the door, the way he holds me when im washing the dishes etc the little things. felt amazing getting up this morning knowing he was happy and i was marrying the man of my dreams
CommentAuthorMrsLeanneStark
Aww, Anni that is sooo sweet! men are curious creatures and they surprise you when you least expect it. At least you have now reassured one another. Happy wedding planning! :) xx
Got engaged 20th August 2008
Married the Love of my life 28th April 2012
Honeymooned in the Cape Verde Islands 2nd May 2012
I Am now Mrs Stark and i have never been happier :) <3
CommentAuthormrs-anni-oc
thank you leanny, loving every minute of planning nearly got everything sorted... love to be organised lol... 1 of the things he likes about me apparently.
CommentAuthorWeeMintyMonkie
My h2b gets very insecure at times and he asks me why im with him all the time....
I told him once i didnt know coz all he does is ask me the same question iv answered a hundred times before and its getting boring...
He wasnt too impressed but then realised that he was being silly and i was winding him up x x x
CommentAuthorUnknown
men seem like they dont care about feelings as much as women but they really do and he prob just wanted to feel better about himself
me and my husband are trying for a baby at the mo and he asked me why i wanted his babies the other day something that he never would normally
CommentAuthormrs-anni-oc
hope it goes well for you terri, me and my h2b have 6 kids so dont think we will be having any more lol..(bought a telly now) they really are our world my eldest osn is giving me away and he asks me every day how long til the wedding. he`s just as excited as me.
CommentAuthor♥Future Mrs Midgley♥
Sometimes I think men need more reassurance than us girls! He probably thinks that he is a lucky man to be able to have such a fantastic wife, and might be thinking to himself 'why would she want to go out with me?' As well as telling him everything that you told us, tell him that you could never want anyone else and that you are so lucky to have such an amazing fiancé and future husband. x
