h2b has gone on his stag do this weekend and i am lost without him, am meant to be going out with my sister tonight but am really feeling down and dont feel like going out.
i hope its just wedding nerves but i have feelings for somebody else and just dont no what to do any more. i have felt like this for a for a while and i no he has similar feelings. he is also getting married not long after me. we have been friends for a while even before i met my h2b.
i no nothing will ever come of these feelings and to be honest i dont want them to,
sorry for the rant girls am just so upset at the min xx
CommentAuthorEnny
oh no that doesnt sound so good ... maybe if u feel like this with feeling for somebody else could it be h2b might not be the right one??? difficult to say maybe really just wedding nerves :S u probably have to get ur head sorted to know what u really want before its to late hun!!! xxx
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
sorry if you have feeling for someone else then there is no way you should be getting married
what if you dont no if they are true feelings? i can see my future with my h2b i have been in some bad relationships and have never felt about anybody the way i feel about my h2b. i am starting to finaly get excited about the wedding now everything is coming together i just feel awful about whats going on
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
my feeling is you need to postpone then .......how will you feel if you do get married and these feelings dont go away you have to be 100% sure hun and if you have feelings for another then there is part of you however small that isnt 100% happy .
i no i need to i have broken contact with him as i feel its the best thing to do. i think am just feeling lonely and hormonal. had a realy bad time at the min
CommentAuthorMagicFairies
only you can decide how serious these feelings are but from your post it doesn't sound as if it is just one isolated occasion that you felt like this, rather it has been ongoing. whether wedding nerves or not you need to get this sorted so that you can be 100% sure when you walk down the aisle that you are committing to the right man for the rest of your life. good luck xxx
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
ohhhhhhhh tell me all about being lonely hun mr lala went away on may 17th and i see him again on aug 26th
You've done the right thing to cut contact, then you can get your head straight. I think it could be wedding nerves, everyone has doubts and if you didn't you wouldn't be human. Its very easy to wonder if the grass could be greener with someone else and imagine a different life. But if you have known this other man a long time then surely you would have got together before now??? I think you are feeling low and doubting yourself hunnie. Keep the no contact with your friend and when your h2b gets back from his stag spend some quality time together and see how you feel. Remember how you felt when he proposed and think of all the positives in your relationship and why you said yes when he asked you to marry him. With some time out you will see things clearer. Ps dont feel lonely cus you have all of us anytime you need us xxxx
CommentAuthorMrs*Maria*Louise
aldridge, hun im sorry to hear your feeling like that but i do agree with lala that if your not sure then maybe you should postpone until you know what you want as you dont want to regret it a few months down the line it easier to walk away now that it will be in a few months after the wedding it could just be nerves but as there is feelings for someone else its a bit more worrying, yeah i think majority of ppl will have doubts just before the wedding but with the other person you have to be carful hun only you know how you feel and what you want take this weekend to try and sort your head out hun, we are all here for you xx
aww Lala how come h2b has gone away for that long you poor thing i couldnt cope!! x
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CommentAuthorAldridge2B
sazzle23 everything you have said is what i have been saying to myself. the grass is never greener on the otherside and i would never be with him deep down i no h2b is the one for me. i love him so much and as i have said i can see my future with my h2b we have been talkin about starting a proper family and i am so excited. i have not wanted to say anything because i was scared of some peoples replys. but because i have felt so bad about my feelings i needed to say something. just need a hug :( x
CommentAuthorkimmy
I do hope you sort your feelings out, it wouldn't be fair on either of you, my H2B works away and I do get terribly lonely, but we look at it as he is away working hard to pay for our special day!!!!
CommentAuthorjanetx71
aww hun hug hug hug but please think if you love your h2b as much as you say you do then you need to ask yourself if this is fair on him work it out hun xxxx
CommentAuthorMrs*Maria*Louise
big hugs to you hun hope you work it out xxx
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CommentAuthorSazzell23
hug hug hugs hunnie, you've said it all in your last post, you love your H2B and you do see your future with him. Its a big step to tie the knot it seems you're just really stressed and feeling low and doubting yourself. I can get myself in a right state sometimes and over-think things and get really stressed and can start to question everything. Just keep calm, don't make any rash decisions and keep the zero contact with your friend and things will naturally sort themselves out in your head either way xxx
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
this person u have feelins for have u done naythign wiv him?
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
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Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
