"Ohhhh, that's a pretty tiara. Hmmm, I dunno. Its kinda girly. I know, I'll wear a fascinator instead. Ohhh, I like that one. And that one. Nope, I want that one. But that ones even nicer. OK, I'll just have some flowers in my hair. Wow, that tiara's sparkly..."
"I like that hairstyle *tries to do said hair style* Damn, hair's too short. OK, I'll just have it down but curled. But I really wanted it up and curled. But down will be easier and less stress. But up will keep it out of my face. I know, I'll have it pinned. No, no. That doesnt look right. Maybe have it straight..."
"Ohhhh, I love those roses! Ohh, Calla Lillies! Ohh, normal lillies. Nope definitely roses. Those sunflowers look pretty. No, they dont go. Ohh, that Gerbera bouquet is gorgeous! I dont even know what that flower is but I want it! No, no. It HAS to be roses. Ohhhh, carnations..."
"I love my dress.... I wish I had a bigger dress, mines boring. I know, I'll get a hoop. Nah, a petticoat will look better *buys hoop* Damn, wish I'd bought a petticoat..."
"Yey, pink shoes. Ohhh, silver shoes. I like those black ones. Nah, I prefer the pink ones. Ohhhhh sparkly ones..."
PLEASE tell me everyone is the same!! Why can I not make my mind up? Its driving me insane! I've re-done all my invites as I decided I didnt like them. I've changed my mind about the reception venue. I've changed my mind about the ceremony venue. Its getting too much! Im just going round and round in circles and nobody's stopping or helping me! Im getting to the point where I just want to lock myself in a room where no wedding stuff can get to me, where I don't have to make decisions.
Please tell me somebody feels the same and that you all didn't just know straight out what you wanted?!
CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
The only thing I didn't change my mind on was the groom.
Now a extremely happy German housewife and now a Mother!!!!
Islay Jean born 24th June in Hannover.
CommentAuthorRoxy_Blade
Thats the only thing I've stayed constant on too! And the bridesmaids! Oh god, don't even get me started on the bridesmaids dresses! That took longer then picking out my dress!!!
CommentAuthormrsbeal2be
lmao, think you do need to be locked in a room roxy,lol, only joking, im sure everyone is like that! im just hoping when its my time so start choosing im just gunna know when ive found the right thing!
I'm so with you on this!! Completely incapable of making a decision like a normal person - and if pushed I will then turn in to a bit of a basket case that ends up googling obsessively and talking to herself!!!!!!
CommentAuthorRoxy_Blade
Ben keeps saying he's going to have me sectioned so I can be locked in a padded room. When I start going off on one he just kind of gives me one of those looks that says "Make up your mind or STFU"
CommentAuthorcatch
haha! dove good response, me too!!! oh the trails!!! and changes even after it's all done you will possibly say '' l wish l did this'' because you can change your mind as ofter as you like hunni in the end it will all come together beautifully.. you'll see xx
CommentAuthorRoxy_Blade
I am so glad Im not on my own here! Lol.
CommentAuthormrsbeal2be
no matter what you choose to have or not have what you wish you did or didnt do, it wont actually matter after the day because youll be so wrapped up in being a new wife nothing will matter because you have you mr right.xx
CommentAuthorKatie
I have to stop myself looking at things once I have bought them cos I would change my mind alllll of the time lol
I have changed my mind on my tiara and am at the moment trying to find a replacement but thats only because the one I have is not red enough to match my jewellery :-)
xxx
Those who mind dont matter
Those who matter dont mind
CommentAuthorRags
SHTOP! HOLD ON TAKE A BREATH. Hi Roxy. firstly you are obviously not alone. I darent buy anything as I know i'l change my mind. Think about things one at a time and when you know you'l know. It's getting to the point of saying F it not enough time to change my mind now. And on the day will you really care if you got carnations instead of roses??? No all you'l care about is H2b turning up and having a good time. Love ya post though hon, it puts down what we've all been doing :)
I'm now a married woman
I have a gorgeous husband
Whats to do now
Theres no more wedding planning to do
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
I have changed my dress about 30 times now. (havent bougth one) I have chaged the bm dresses so many times i cant remember. Cant really change my ceremony venue as we are having a reg office but if i could redecorate it i would. I have changed my mind twice on flower girl dresses. I think the only thing i havent changed is martyn, his suit, his cufflinks, his ring, see the pattern here. all his stuff. I might just get him to choose everything and be done with.
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
CommentAuthorCroc
do you know what i havent been like this at all ive got my dress and not looking at any others as i know i love this one. i have my shoes their in the cupboard and i love them i have my place card holders there in the loft my flowers will be a surprise i have given my florist a mood board and he is going to transform it i will find out on the day, i guess once i have bought something i have not looked any more put it away and moved on to the next> although it did take me ages to find the things am happy with xx
"better a witty fool, than a foolish wit" shakespeare
CommentAuthorCowChop
I've been like that a lot, I bought my necklace and have now changed it, we changed our venue, our flowers, colour scheme, bridesmaid dresses (still unsure about those)... the list goes on!!!
CommentAuthorKerrylou
It's normal so don't fret too much. You've got 3/4 months to go? Go out, buy your bits and then stop looking. I've lost count of how many times everything's changed for our wedding but I've been told if I change my mind again then the wedding's off :S hehe xxx
It's right what they say
"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
CommentAuthorRoxy_Blade
Lol. Thank you ladies! Glad to know Im not the only one who cant make up her mind :P
Croc - I have only bought the dress, the hoop and now the bridesmaids dresses. I had the shoes before I knew I was getting married. Lol. But I live near a bridal store so have to walk past all these pretty dresses every day or so!
CommentAuthornickers
i have changed loads lol my dress had been designed then i changed my mind lol luckily it hadnt been made lol xx
MRS RICHARDSON HERE
LOVE MY LITTLE FAMILY MY GORGEOUS SON
AND HANDSOME HUSBAND XXXX
CommentAuthorOneDayMrsSmith
Aww don't know what you're going through love, but you'll come to a decision in the end! It only happens once so you're entitled to change your mind lol I think I've found my shoes and am wanting them dyed pink, and I think I know I want a birdcage veil lol ... that's all I'm up to so far lol x
