I feel so annoyed right now!! I went out a walk with best man's wife and we had a lovely time, the best man comes down to meet us and I speak to him,try and make conversation and he totally blanks me,he looked at me then just ignored me! My H2B and I have been together for more than 3 years-we have a son ,a house and a life together and(obv) we are getting married. I really wouldn't class myself as cheeky,nasty,rude or anything like that so I don't know why I deserve to be treated like something on the bottom of his shoe!!! I have never done any wrong to him but he always treats me this way!! My H2B then came down to meet us a minute later,I try to make conversation again ( ask him how he is ) and he says "Aye,fine" but doesn't try to be friendly to me back and doesn't even look me in the eye,deliberately turns his head away from me!
Sorry for the rant but what the hell is his problem, I am so sick of it, I really can't stand him but because I am polite and mannerly I am always smiley and friendly towards him!! I think H2B is too good for me and he must obviously think the same as he treats me like a leper sometimes!
Me and H2B are losing more and more love for each other with huge arguements and no romance to make up for it,maybe I really am not good enough for him. I just can't believe people can be so horrible when we have a family. Sorry I'm sure this is so trivial compared to other things,I just needed to vent about this guy,I hate rude people! xxx
CommentAuthorJane
Maybe hes just ignorant, or shy, or maybe he fancies you. Maybe hes jealous of your H2B? Just a thought. And of course your H2B is not too good for you, I think you just need to have more confidence in yourself and the love that you have for each other, take some quality time together, romance needs to be worked on sometimes! xx
CommentAuthorDellie
Have you asked your H2B what is Best Mans issue with you to why he treats you with such animosity ?
CommentAuthorRoxii
Firstly, he's rude, and that's his problem, just ignore him in future too..
Secondly, I'm unsure what you mean by you and H2B are losing love for each other with these arguements? And if there's no romance then that's not such a good sign. I mean, don't take this wrong, but if you're losing love, and not making up... how will a marriage work? You need to concentrate on what you have with H2B before anything else! x
CommentAuthorjmr888909
oh he's not shy inthe slightest but you're right Janey he is arrogant!
Yeah I asked him and he just shrugs and says he doesn't know either.I have always been nice to him,I can't get it round my head when people are rude for no reason-whats the point of it?! I have his sister's wedding dance to go to this saturday and I'm having serious second thoughts about going.I always feel really worthless and small around him, he acts like everything I say is never worth listening to.Men can be so rude!Men where I live anyway lolxxx
why would he be best man if he dont like you? have you stopped h2b going out like he used to, coz some men still act as if they are teenagers and single and expect same from their friends
CommentAuthordebs x
I would ask him myself and just say what is your problem cos I would hate that I didnt know what it was x
CommentAuthorjmr888909
yeah it really bugs me. I really like his wife so hopefully we wouldn't fall out if I did ask him if I offended him in some way. xxx
CommentAuthordizzydora4
I think that you should avoid this person as much as possible. he sounds a complete jerk hun. unfortunately there will always be people who like to belittle others to make themselves feel better.How sad he is. concentrate on your family and H2B and kick him to the kerb. He's not worth the upset he is causing you honestly. x x
CommentAuthorloola_hoop
i would just ask him outright, not in a rude way, just ask him, seeing as he is being your best man, doe she have a problem with you? and tell him that the way he is towards you isnt nice - maybe he doesnt realise he is doing it? but i really would concentrate on you and your H2B surely this isnt worth falling out over!! Xxx
CommentAuthorJenna
If you get on with the wife ask her, just say why wont he talk to me, have i upset him about something?
CommentAuthorlulu83x
he does sound like down right rude!! id speak to your h2b? also, have you watched love actually?? keira knightly plays a bride to be and the best man is always so off with her?? well turns out he had a huge crush on her! as janey said...hmmmmm maybe?? xx good luck with it all xx
